Too many to list...BUT the main thing is...I dealt with and learned from each one...That's what has brought me to where I am today and I wouldn't trade any of them in to have it easier!!!!!!!!
bluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK4,836 posts
my heart goes out to you dear at the sad loss of your husband ,I cant begin to know how you must be feeling at this time but i just wish you love and comfort and the strength to carry on ..........bless you babs
bluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK4,836 posts
thats just me babe i have compassion for those who are suffering and i feel the pain .........I cried when i read some of these truly moving hard times of peoples lives......who could not shed a tear for those in pain xxxx
have to be the time my family gave up on me I was on drugs pretty bad,all except my sister.Tomorrow is my sisters sons birthday,he passed away at 3 months with crib death,she needs your prayers in getting thru.
Everything everyone has said about their hardest has really been hard, because to the person it happened to nothing else can be worse, and everyone has suffered a loss. None of it should be taken lightly..
One of the worst times for me was on February 22, 1993 (just 4 days after my birthday) when I went to wake my Mom up and I found her dead from a bad heart! We were VERY close and I didn't know if I could live without her but I had 2 children and my Grandma (her Mom) to worry about. I had to be strong for everyone when I was dying inside! I grieved but I also had to be strong for everyone else at the same time and I ended up going into a depression that lasted 10 yrs. About 3 yrs after my Mom died my Dad committed suicide (they were divorced!)
I ended up getting a tattoo in memory of my Mom and its weird but ever since I did, I have been able to deal with it so much better. It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders. I got the tattoo on my chest right above my heart. It's the head of an Angel Frog with a tear drop running down it's cheek and the letters F.R.O.G. (that stands for Fully Rely On God) above it. My mom loved frogs, I love angels and I believe she's an angel now! Without the faith that she taught me to have, I would have never gotten thorough that time in my life!
I learned alot, grew up alot and became a stronger & better human being because of my losses!
That's truly a sad story, I am so glad you found a way to cope with it. I am still not over my mother's death and a lot more has happened to me since that time and it hasn't even been that long ago. But I am doing the best I can..
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