Why are women so hard to find? ( Archived) (17)

Morning to both of you above me

I know you are asking for women's opinions, but I just want to share what came to my mind, when reading your post. I also took the liberty of reading your profile.

You are making it very difficult to start communication with you if you just send flowers, because your profile text does not lead to an obvious dialogue about anything. You need to make absolutely sure the women you approach do not have to go out of their way to figure out how to initiate a dialogue with you. Sending a flower in here is more than everything a way to tell someone, that you exist. You simply don't initiate a dialogue by sending a flower. You might want to ask yourself, how you would respond if you got a flower from yourself, and if you find that the least bit difficult, think about how difficult it will be for any woman.

Concerning your appearance I'll let women give their opinion, but be assured that you'll never appeal to all women no matter what you look like or what you write in your profile text. In my opinion your view on what you seek fits just about all women (if you ask them). Have you ever met a woman telling you, she isn't independant? And thinking a little more about it, I kind of wander, if what you are really saying is, that she cannot depend on you, since you're putting this much weight into her being independant(?)

Anyway....sorry for interrupting the women....and the best of luck!

Think of it like an Easter egg hunt.........and you're looking for the prize egg....(sorry ladies, didn't mean to make us sound like eggs, although I tend to be a little scrambled sometimes)

You need to be excited while you look....I mean emotionally excited....not pitching a tent or anything.......

You need to be positive while you search......always believing that you will find the prize egg......

You can't stop looking.......as if you do, somebody else might find the prize egg and put her in his basket...


Women/eggs.....it's all relative.....having a positive attitude makes all the difference.....

and yeah.....a clearer picture might help....

JMO

I've even tried sending messages, but where it comes to women, I've led a bit of a sheltered life through no fault of my own and never learned to relate to them, or anyone really for that matter. I kind of work my way through things a bit at a time and hope I'm not doing more damage than good. I know what I've been through in the relationships I've been in and I know that if I see things going that direction, I'd better get out before they get worse. The relationship I want is one where I don't have to worry about being cheated on, lied to, played for a fool, or have to go out and work, then come home and have to clean house, take of the kids if she has any etc. because she's been there all day and didn't want to. I'm not joking, I've already been there. With the last one there, if I have to do everything, why do I need a relationship? That's why I said that I want an independent woman. One that can and is standing on her own two feet.