I'm sad (23)
Victor_19904Dover, Delaware USA1 Threads 1 PostsI met somebody here and for over a week we liked each other so much on here and started talking on the phone and were like could just talk for hours we liked each other so much.Now yesterday I had a real date with her and saw a movie and spent a lot of time with her and had a hug and now my whole this morning all I've done is check here for a message and if she read mine and also she told me she would call me today. I called and got just the answering machine. My whole morning all i did was think about her and check here to see if she came online. Finally i saw her online and was happy to see her check my messages so I waited for mine back or a call. I kept checking and checking and then finally she was offline. Anyway, I think you get the idea how I feel now today with nobody to talk to. I feel like taking my profile off here because being lonely felt better than i do now 
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aaaaaaaaaa dont do that,same thing happend to me after 6 months together so dont worry its her loose,just keep on going, send flower to a nice lady
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Well I wouldnt jump to any conclusions yet. Just wait it out. She has both of your messages, if she is a decent woman then she will say something. You odont want to get all hyped up over a misunderstanding. *M*
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just put it down to experience hey - i know its easier said than done but dont let a little setback put you off 
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and what CLLGEGRL says too
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Give it time, maybe she needs time to think or maybe your misreading her.And something that help me if she don"t want to date is , you can"t make someone love you,it just happens and if if don't , it is not her fault.Don't take it so hard,train you mind to go in a good direction.
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Been there. just let it go. You have no idea how many times that sort of thing happened to me. So you keep plugging away. When she see's you made the big time, and she's still single for being so damn inconsiderate. You will once again Smile.! Worked for me.
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Feeling is great 
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Victor..I can't explain why she would have done that to you. Maybe its not as bad as you think. she maybe sitting around thinking about what to write and rehashing the date in her mind, trying to figure out what she wants to say. Give her some time and don't be so worried, I know its the natural thing to want to think the worst but don't allow your mind to take over and think negativity. One less than ideal experience doesn't mean that you are doomed.
Just wait it out and don't seem so overly eager. I know its hard to control emotions and thoughts but now is the time when you need to do that. Don't let this one experience determine how you are going to react and don't let it chase you away from CS. Take your time, talk in the forums, stay positive.
If this woman is any kind of woman and has a iota of emotional maturity she will contact you to explain or tell you how she feels. You never know what she is going to say to you, but if you pull your profile down then you won't be able to get any response at all. Just take it one day at a time and if she doesn't contact you back then you haven't lost much because a real woman doesn't behave and play high school games. You wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway would you?
Just wait it out and don't seem so overly eager. I know its hard to control emotions and thoughts but now is the time when you need to do that. Don't let this one experience determine how you are going to react and don't let it chase you away from CS. Take your time, talk in the forums, stay positive.
If this woman is any kind of woman and has a iota of emotional maturity she will contact you to explain or tell you how she feels. You never know what she is going to say to you, but if you pull your profile down then you won't be able to get any response at all. Just take it one day at a time and if she doesn't contact you back then you haven't lost much because a real woman doesn't behave and play high school games. You wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway would you?
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I know what I would love to be feeling
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You got me,I"am so silly
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Awww,am truely sorry your feeling this way but dont leave,there are other women,maybe she wasnt the "one"....
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Hi, I am sorry you are so sad.
Sometimes it can be all about chemistry - I know a lot of people talk about looks and personality, I am a great believer in the chemistry side of it - if its not there then you are both better off leaving it.
Sometimes it can be all about chemistry - I know a lot of people talk about looks and personality, I am a great believer in the chemistry side of it - if its not there then you are both better off leaving it.
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Sweety, same thing happened to me. And I do know what your feeling, but, dome take down your profile,,, Im the kind of person that falls fast, so this is a lesion learned, and we will get over it, Just dont turn "hard", keep the way you thing/beleave, she is out there and ya'll will find each other.
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Give it time.....dont push it.....you may scare her off......time is a great thing......let it pass......keep your self very busy with other stuff.....
You look like a handsome guy to me....... 
You look like a handsome guy to me.......
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Your honesty is refreshing but when she reads this, she'll feel a little constricted.
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