Well, its more than one thing, but probably number one would be emotionally unguarded:) Of course, that is pretty much impossible to find, so I settle for affectionate and honest:)
Speak for myself from a male perspective. Physical is usually the first attraction (where a lot of mistakes are often made). I think we all like something that's eye candy (to us). But if you can get in my head, then you can't find your way to my heart and you could look like Ms. America and it wouldn't keep my attention let a lone turn me on.
there eventually will have to be a balance between the two. Maybe Rogue Cop is right about some kind of "Test",except I would not call it Test.It's more subjective than that. Now I gone and confused myself.
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