UltimateQueenBOPalbuquerque, New Mexico USA18 posts
I don't know if this has been a topic of discussion yet but if so sorry for the duplicate postings; I haven't had a chance to read all the postings.
Anyway, How many men love big beautiful women? How many women love big beautiful men (not talking about the third arm attachment size)? The Curvy woman has not gotten much recognition as "We" should...it's like we are the hidden secret. So I want to know how many people are into Big and Beautiful?
Hey UQ, I used to weigh 290 lbs and could have had any man i wanted but i already had the man of my dreams, the love of my life but anyway, i lost now 160 pounds and do not even look like the same woman and you know what i don't even think i can pay someone to take me out lol -well, so much for that - a man told me once 'as a matter of speaking' real men love all women and as i pondered on that you know i finally figured out 'real women love all men' - i love good-looking men, i like to talk to good looking men, i like to look at good-looking men, i don't care what size they are, and when i say good-looking, i don't only mean the outward appearance, i try to always see thru the eyes to see who is really in there if ya know what i mean-------BIG IS BEAUTIFUL and MORE TO SQUEEZE MORE TO PLEASE
i like my men to have abit of wieght on them, my bf used to be slimmer and now that he is abit bigger i find him more attractive. im a big woman myself, size 12-14 and i wudnt have it any other way.
Forgive if this answer offends any one. I don't REALLY let the size of a woman bother me as far as a relationship is concerned. I have been with all types of partners/girlfriends/mates, anorexic, skinny, proportionate, curvatious and downright fat. Having said that, I will put a limit on how big I like them and that's where my "really" comes into play. There isn't anybody more gross to me than someone who's as big as they're tall. The fear of getting lost in the folds increase exponentially the bigger they get for I am not a tall or big guy, 5'8 150lbs. Am I shallow? I don't think so. Is there Love in a big woman? Anyone who doesn't think so is an idiot. Me, I prefer a deep, passionate romantic relationship JUST as well as I enjoy copulating with someone about my size or a TAD bigger.
Sometimes it runs in the genes. Take me for example. I've always been a bit on the chubby side, no matter how active I was. When I was a teenager I was constantly walking around down town or going to teen dances. And always stayed at the same weight. Well until I had kids anyway. I'm heavier than I was before. But I have my reasons for why I haven't been able to get it off.
As for the family genes, 2 of my sisters were on the heavier side. One has lost alot of weight, but the other has problems no matter what she does. I have one sister who has always been slender. Until she had lukemia anyway. Then she put on some weight. And after 14 years of her weight fluxuating, she's gotten back down to her original size.
My older brother was thin until about 10 years ago or so. My younger brother was always a bit on the chubby side. Now he looks like he's pregnant. I have relatives on both sides of my family that are heavy and thin.
My 14 year old is thin, with a high metabolism. My 6 year old is a bit chubby, taking after me and her father. My 5 year old is where she's supposed to be. And my 2 year old is healthy. By the way, my oldest has a different father than the younger 3.
My children rarely get sweets. And very seldom would they get soda pop. They eat well balanced meals. And they're all very active. And not over fed. My 6 year old could gradually lose the chubbiness. But there's a chance that she may be on the heavier side.
I know there are special life style diets for people with a low metabolism. I'm sure you can find them on internet. By simply preventing some type of foods that take the body hours to process, you may very well drop some weight... if you would want to...
lostsoulinspacechocowinity, North Carolina USA521 posts
While i was in my 27 year marrage, we both gained alot, i took it as "growing old togather" He was 296 and i was 278.....well, things happened,,, and im now alone,,, im still the same loving person, the same careing person,, and i have a lot to give the right person,,,But, i must say,,, one mane trash is not always another mans ..... you know. all i can say is this, if you cant handle me heavy,, you wont handle me lighter,,, I know, if i dont have something good to say,,, dont say anything at all. Today started bad, and im just blowing off steam,, Sorry Margaret
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Anyway, How many men love big beautiful women? How many women love big beautiful men (not talking about the third arm attachment size)?
The Curvy woman has not gotten much recognition as "We" should...it's like we are the hidden secret. So I want to know how many people are into Big and Beautiful?