I hear what your saying man...bad choice of words tho brother! Yea, the playboy model type (or any type of model for that matter) is shoved in our face on a daily basis and it's too bad! Physical attraction is a huge part of it but if you never seen a "bunny" or any model type what would you be attracted to?
A person defines their own perspective of beauty, with this in mind, is the only women who arouse you at all the ones in magazines?
If you are attracted to women that take care of their appearance, you think that is a bad thing or something to avoid??? If you have never approached a woman you deem "high maintenance" how do you know whether or not: a.) you will be able to hold an intelligent & stimulating conversation with one another b.) if BOTH are attracted to each other You never know until you give it a try! Never judge any woman by appearances only..you never know what you like until you try interacting with a variety.
As for mentally you like being with a "homely" figure??? what kind of a statement is that? Do you think the woman you dated would like to be thought of as homely??? I know I sure as heck wouldn't, its just kinda mean.
I don't know what you are going to have to do to be able to live with yourself.......thats a very good question..
You (two) will find yourselves in an endless discussion over this topic. You seem like a nice guy. Try to mingle here and see what comes out of it... This topic is not helping you to get a gal here.
Seriously it is not just the bunny it is the sterieo type the media (TV,Movies,Press) throw at us daily.
If we removed this type of Publicity completely The choice would still be the same as we all come it different shapes and sizes. The bottom line is what do you think of yourself. You will search for the type you believe is suitable for you.
So on a scale of 1 - 10 (Standard) If you think your worthy of a 10 you will hunt it out. If you believe you are only worthy of a one that is all you'll go hunting for.
So if you seek a 1 and a 10 finds you attractive the only way the 10 will get you is if they do the hunting and chasing.
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