Just wanted to see what your thoughts are on the subject. I personally left mine broad enough to include what I thought I wanted when I set up my profile. I've also seen more than a few people change the limit on theirs(up or down) in the last couple days and am about to do the same...
for me...I don't want anyone too young...30 would be the youngest that I would concider dating...I don't think I would date anyone older than 50....it would really depend on the person.....
I have made a mistake with mine. I put that I wanted to hear from men between the ages of 30-45 and I do hear from plenty of nice ones within that age group. But, also there's a couple of cute ones aged 47 & 48 so I need to adjust my age range thingy to 30-50
Well realistically mine is between 22 and 28, but I will sometimes raise mine to include friends and such. I think it is more of a guide, not a rule. It can basically vary on a case by case basis. *M*
I believe for me that dating someone substantially younger than myself would be akin to a disaster waiting to happen. For me I prefer someone close to my own age or even a bit older, men my own age are just what I am attracted to by and large. I've dated a man who was 25 at one point in time, we got along quite well, but he just didn't understand the dynamics in my life because he had never been married, divorced, had children, etc. He had a very naive grasp of responsibility and very little understanding of what goes on in my life, he had different goals, desires and once we got right down to it........there was really nothing we could talk about on an intelligent level because he was limited in life experiences. Not stupid, just not much to relate to. For some it can work, and it will take work, if you are willing hey then great whatever works for you...find happiness however you can, that's never a bad thing.
Sure but whats the difference between a 29 yr. old and a thirty yr. old? Maybe we should all be like some of those scammers and put it 18-99...but then the 100 yr. olds would complain!
Yeah I think it had been brought up that some women had such small ranges pertianing to ages and that they were unwilling to go outside that range. I think that is ridiculous. If the chemistry is there and the age isnt too great then why not ? *M*
I guess it is a number thing...I am 38...It seems strange to me to date someone that is going to be too much younger than I am....Besides...I have a 20 year old son....I wouldn't want to date one of his friends...
I've been in similar situations so thanks for the input! If you cant converse then that leaves you with a purely physical relationship. Or maybe not so pure... Whatever your into...a lotta fun but, well, you know what I'm saying!
Well it's up to them to decide what they want in life but personally if there was someone out there that happened upon my profile and did not respond based on that then I could miss out on something...I know I'm guilty of it too but...
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