Why do 'you' want a relationship? (55)
golfer1942Conyers, Georgia USA49 PostsWow!! heavy stuff Trish. Wish I had some answers.
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Hi Trish, our "relationship's" lasted for years now, and never
a cross word.
a cross word.
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Thanks Golfer, thats why I did the thread, I thought that maybe between us all we could come up with something viable 
I think so far we have; ditch the baggage, be truthful and start out as friends - seems like good stuff to me 
I think so far we have; ditch the baggage, be truthful and start out as friends - seems like good stuff to me
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i have met 2 woman from dating sites i1 is called guiness girl all sweet and likeness or so i thougt she took me for nearly 3000 pounds i got over this after a while thought had met the perfect person again just used me i am a very loving giving and kind person and these people do not deserve someone like me , as i write this it is with sadnes in my heart that i write this lots of people would give up by this time but i am determined i will find a person who wants to be loved and give me love back in return and not just a chancer regards john
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come to think of it Gra, we never have had a cross word have we 
Thank You 
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Thanks Trish, I think I love you!!
No wait we have to start out as friends
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Thats because our "ship" is friendship and not ownership.
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HaHa, thanks Golfer 
I think these forums are great places to interract and see what makes people tick
I think these forums are great places to interract and see what makes people tick
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a true comment from such a true friend
heres to you
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Im sorry these things have happened to you John - isnt it a shame that we have to be so guarded with our emotions but I think this comes down to that not rushing in stuff and learning to heed the red flags too - its certainly why I have been alone so long, that fear of getting burned again has kept me safe for years now - haha, so much so that Im beginning to think it may be clinical
There are definately people out there who get kicks out of toying with peoples emotions - how flipping sad is that
There are definately people out there who get kicks out of toying with peoples emotions - how flipping sad is that
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Great stuff. I am still pondering the answer. I have moved on. Sort of. I have chosen to pace in circles...
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"guarded with our emotions" I guess that's a lesson I'll have to learn and not rushing in. Thanks again Trish.
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Learn about yourself. Your loves, dislikes, what you chose to deal with, and what you cannot deal
with. Personally, I have been single (by choice) for far too long, but I have learned a whole lot within
that time. My last boyfriend was a hardwired alcoholic, could work 12 hours a day, but the rest of the
time he spent drinking. I did not notice this at first, and when I finally did, it was too late. He functioned
fine for a time, but then it caught up to him, and showed the signs...I tried to do everything I could to
make it work, but it just got horrendous. He broke up with me, because he said that I could get better
than him. I tried for a time to get him back, and when I quit trying, he came back, but I wasn't having
any of it. He stalked me for about 4 years, before I finally got rid of him--doing stuff like cutting a friggin
heart into the seat of my truck, stupid stuff. One night he kept driving past where I lived, and finally the
cops figured out that he was drunk and started to follow him. Well he parked his car in my driveway, and
bolted. I told the officers the whole story, pointed to the car and asked them if there was anything they
could do with it, as I didn't want him coming back to get it. With a huge smile, they said "sure!", and
towed the car away to the impound yard. I guess he finally got the message that night, and I have never
seen him again. It took me a few years to get over "what could have been" which would have been
a treacherous life, but then I gently settled into my own self. Discovering me. Now, excess baggage
gone from my mind, I want to find a companion, one to have fun with, one to experience the ups and
downs that life has to offer, one to enjoy....
with. Personally, I have been single (by choice) for far too long, but I have learned a whole lot within
that time. My last boyfriend was a hardwired alcoholic, could work 12 hours a day, but the rest of the
time he spent drinking. I did not notice this at first, and when I finally did, it was too late. He functioned
fine for a time, but then it caught up to him, and showed the signs...I tried to do everything I could to
make it work, but it just got horrendous. He broke up with me, because he said that I could get better
than him. I tried for a time to get him back, and when I quit trying, he came back, but I wasn't having
any of it. He stalked me for about 4 years, before I finally got rid of him--doing stuff like cutting a friggin
heart into the seat of my truck, stupid stuff. One night he kept driving past where I lived, and finally the
cops figured out that he was drunk and started to follow him. Well he parked his car in my driveway, and
bolted. I told the officers the whole story, pointed to the car and asked them if there was anything they
could do with it, as I didn't want him coming back to get it. With a huge smile, they said "sure!", and
towed the car away to the impound yard. I guess he finally got the message that night, and I have never
seen him again. It took me a few years to get over "what could have been" which would have been
a treacherous life, but then I gently settled into my own self. Discovering me. Now, excess baggage
gone from my mind, I want to find a companion, one to have fun with, one to experience the ups and
downs that life has to offer, one to enjoy....
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I'm not picky
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no wonder we can get scared to move on hey
Heres to future happinesses
Heres to future happinesses
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Yup, Im with you here there has to be more to it than being a general dogsbody and gofer
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Hi trish .............guess Id like a relationship so I can give all this love inside of me to someone who really loves me ....and to have lots of cuddles ,,mmmmm ...xx take care hunni xxxbabs------ This thread is Archived ------
Hiya Babs they are some of the nicest reasons I can think of too - I hope your dreams come true you take care too hun Tx
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