Why do 'you' want a relationship? (55)
trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 PostsI know what you mean Shell, I like being able to just come home and snuggle into my fave pyjamas and channel hop or play in here when I choose - but I would love a bit of that snuggly stuff too - guess I will never be cured - I really am thinking its about taking time to get to know a person before putting expectations on 'where its going' - I dunno, am looking for answers like everyone else 
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Tell me about it......its nice to be able to do things your way.....but the thought of comprimising is good too.....
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Not sure that I am ready for a relationship.. I have been in two since the age of 19. I've never lived alone or been alone. Even now, although separated, I am not alone.
Maybe I need sometime alone to find out who I am as a single independant person; not defined as part of a couple.
But I sure will miss the care and love of someone who understands and loves me despite my failings and weaknesses...
LOL and now I have made myself cry...
Maybe I need sometime alone to find out who I am as a single independant person; not defined as part of a couple.
But I sure will miss the care and love of someone who understands and loves me despite my failings and weaknesses...
LOL and now I have made myself cry...
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oohhh dont cry babe you will set me off !! but I understand where ur coming from babe ....I wonder if im ready for an intense reltionship ,as im bit down at the moment with lots of probs and wouldnt wana burden anyone with them ...do you get me ? any way babe take care xxbabsxx------ This thread is Archived ------
oh no, well, you get those tears out then sweetie, have a good old cry and then let it be done with things can only get better - I hope you feel better soon - and I bet when the sun comes out you will see that there are infinitely better things waiting, I promise
things can only get better - I hope you feel better soon - and I bet when the sun comes out you will see that there are infinitely better things waiting, I promise ------ This thread is Archived ------
Thanks for your words and I do get you....
I found out this week, that if you don't think you are ready for an intense relationship, then you probably aren't.
It is just too hard to keep yourself together and hide your pain from the one you are interested in.
Best to you. If you want to chat send me an email... we are not that far away from each other location wise.
I found out this week, that if you don't think you are ready for an intense relationship, then you probably aren't.
It is just too hard to keep yourself together and hide your pain from the one you are interested in.
Best to you. If you want to chat send me an email... we are not that far away from each other location wise.
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Thank you and I am sure you are right...
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At least fo some people like me, in the end you crave for being alone again. It can be said that is because you have not found the "perfect one", but it can also happen because some people know that they really need to go alone their path in life just to find what they want.
Bloody hard to say what is right.
Bloody hard to say what is right.
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It is pretty difficult isnt it Jose, I wonder sometimes if people are really meant to be together for the whole of their lives - it would seem easier if we could learn to let go when something isnt meeting anybodies needs any longer - Im sure children could be socialised around this opinion and wouldnt have to lose out 
maybe then some wouldnt have to be so alone 
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Thats no nice... mister! 
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Me too... I sure would love to post a thread saying...I found my special man...I'm outta here...
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wow how can i follow that .....well all i can say is yes i would like a realtionship ....a nice one then as heather says im outta here
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haha and what a loaded reply too 
I couldnt possibly answer that in one go let alone one sentence
Thanks Fireliter, lots of food for thought there
I couldnt possibly answer that in one go let alone one sentence
Thanks Fireliter, lots of food for thought there
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I'm soaking my fingers in epsom salts now... it was a tad too long of a response. but I felt the urge and was compelled ... thanks to those who did read it in its entirety 
off to my classes... more typing and reading
off to my classes... more typing and reading
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Well sorry old bird, I don't rush headlong into the wind for anything anymore, O choose to live in Paradise, should a Maid wish to live with me???Tally Ho!!! and more power to her...
As per chasing, sorry I gave that up long ago...
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