Im guessing women are receiving so many more messages than men do! Why is it that the man has to qualify himself to the woman, making the women the "choosers?" What I find so ironic about this is that in real life it is the opposite! Women are the ones seeking approval from the males whether it be in the workplace, at school, etc. Even when there is an interpersonal relationship, women like men to take control, be proactive, while they can blissfully lay back and enjoy their life journey. (That is just the definition of masculinity and femininity)
I think men in these dating sites need to realize that they are the prize and any woman lucky enough to be with them, is just that, lucky!
**Im not saying men are better than women, so please don't think that!
I find this chock full of generalizations and inductive logic. Nevertheless, I can't disagree with the final conclusion, but not for the reasoning that led you to it.
I think the final statement should include all genders, however. The problem with people is they don't recognize their true worth, and let this become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
As long as you continue to think, "They're out of my league.", they will be...
I like these responses! I came up with 50x because I thought that was a large number, but it could be 5000x who knows!
Yeah, evolutionarily speaking, women are the choosers because they want to make sure they have a strong family to carry the baby, etc. But in today's world there are just as many women as men, and our brains have been programmed for when men and women lived in small tribes so the women had to be choosy and the male had to 'put on this best face' to pass on his genes. Now any man, even bums and truck drivers, can find someone to pass their genes onto, so in that sense we are ancient beings.
I just feel bad for the men on this site, including myself! Im sure many of us are good, caring people who dont just want s ex , but rather a woman to hold, cherish, and build an intimate connection with. It's fun and helps both people grow!
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I think men in these dating sites need to realize that they are the prize and any woman lucky enough to be with them, is just that, lucky!
**Im not saying men are better than women, so please don't think that!