Women get 50x more messages then men ( Archived) (62)

Oct 6, 2007 7:30 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
bball4me17
bball4me17bball4me17Mclean, Virginia USA1 Threads 12 Posts
Im guessing women are receiving so many more messages than men do! Why is it that the man has to qualify himself to the woman, making the women the "choosers?" What I find so ironic about this is that in real life it is the opposite! Women are the ones seeking approval from the males whether it be in the workplace, at school, etc. Even when there is an interpersonal relationship, women like men to take control, be proactive, while they can blissfully lay back and enjoy their life journey. (That is just the definition of masculinity and femininity)

I think men in these dating sites need to realize that they are the prize and any woman lucky enough to be with them, is just that, lucky!

**Im not saying men are better than women, so please don't think that!
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Oct 6, 2007 7:31 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
bball4me17
bball4me17bball4me17Mclean, Virginia USA1 Threads 12 Posts
What are your comments/thoughts about this?
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Oct 6, 2007 7:33 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
How did you come up with 50x confused
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Oct 6, 2007 7:35 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
I could replay pages to that... but if I would, I'd never get a flower or mail again at this site laugh

tongue

It's in our genes to be picky and good it is that way. (in order to "breed" we ought to suss out the right man, sums it up just about.)


Tell me HOW picky are men tongue ???
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Oct 6, 2007 7:35 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
LucidBlue
LucidBlueLucidBlueGood Bye, USA13 Threads 287 Posts
doh
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Oct 6, 2007 7:36 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
I find this chock full of generalizations and inductive logic. Nevertheless, I can't disagree with the final conclusion, but not for the reasoning that led you to it.

I think the final statement should include all genders, however. The problem with people is they don't recognize their true worth, and let this become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

As long as you continue to think, "They're out of my league.", they will be...
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Oct 6, 2007 7:36 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
Yea, where did you get your numbers?

I get so many messages,

I can hardly keep up with them sometimes.

yay
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Oct 6, 2007 7:36 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
Me too Uli... so I just posed the question and his answer I'm sure (if he does answer) will take care of everything else...rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 6, 2007 7:36 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
I am interested to know why you think women are the "choosers", as you said. I really believe it is a mutual decision for both.
conversing wave
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Oct 6, 2007 7:37 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
Does that make you the lucky one Mitchell??? rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 6, 2007 7:38 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
Wonderful reply...
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Oct 6, 2007 7:38 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
No, not at all. The ladies are the lucky ones. rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 6, 2007 7:39 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
Well call me blonde but if youre getting all the messages... instead of you sending all the messages... that makes you the lucky one...laugh

But hey, I'm blonde and come it honestlyrolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 6, 2007 7:39 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
bball4me17
bball4me17bball4me17Mclean, Virginia USA1 Threads 12 Posts
I like these responses! I came up with 50x because I thought that was a large number, but it could be 5000x who knows!

Yeah, evolutionarily speaking, women are the choosers because they want to make sure they have a strong family to carry the baby, etc. But in today's world there are just as many women as men, and our brains have been programmed for when men and women lived in small tribes so the women had to be choosy and the male had to 'put on this best face' to pass on his genes. Now any man, even bums and truck drivers, can find someone to pass their genes onto, so in that sense we are ancient beings.

I just feel bad for the men on this site, including myself! Im sure many of us are good, caring people who dont just want s ex , but rather a woman to hold, cherish, and build an intimate connection with. It's fun and helps both people grow!
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Oct 6, 2007 7:40 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
lol you mean we are here to find a breeder? confused

it's somewhat too late for me uh oh
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Oct 6, 2007 7:40 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
LucidBlue
LucidBlueLucidBlueGood Bye, USA13 Threads 287 Posts
Yeah!! What he said!! professor
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Oct 6, 2007 7:42 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
paddy1
paddy1paddy1limerick, Limerick Ireland38 Threads 982 Posts
well im in ireland and i got a few emails not a alot. what have i done wrong confused
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Oct 6, 2007 7:42 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
peacemom764
peacemom764peacemom764Dover, Delaware USA2 Threads 847 Posts
Well this is one woman who does not get alot of flowers or mail. I get some people who view my profile but don't get alot of mail. dunno
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Oct 6, 2007 7:42 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Yeah...what he said. Oh wait...that was me...I'm hopping on my own bandwagon here...

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue

Speaking of cute girls that are out of my league...wave laugh
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Oct 6, 2007 7:42 PM CST Women get 50x more messages then men
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
Oh ok... so your conclusions or theories are not based on experimentation or any data collective sources at all....just your opinion!

Which tells me that what you may should of said was.... Women get 50x more mail than YOU... JMO grin
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