When a Man says he wants to take it slow... ( Archived) (193)

Oct 7, 2007 9:24 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
well got the response I figured from the boss...
sometimes that boss lady of mine just ain't got a sense of humorrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 7, 2007 10:22 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
I don't agree with that....There are many reasons that people don't want to rush into something...Most of them being because it's never the smart thing to do....Live and learn...All of the relationships I have rushed into have never worked out...Why?????? Because we got to know each other after the fact...when in reality there never should have been a commitment until we knew each other well enough to want to make one!!!!!!!!

conversing conversing dunno
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Oct 7, 2007 11:25 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
He could mean anything evie girl, but trying to figure that one out is the hard partfrustrated
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Oct 7, 2007 11:27 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
Well said Hugz n Kissez.
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Oct 7, 2007 11:38 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
take it or leave it!

Taking it slow means...he is a player!dunno
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Oct 7, 2007 11:39 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
I would say the complete opposite...Going to fast would signal a player to me!!!!!!!!

Been there done that one!!!!!!!!

confused help grin
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Oct 7, 2007 11:41 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
It could mean that the object of his adoration has done something that has raised a red flag.

He may just need things to go slowly to be able to think more clearly.
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Oct 7, 2007 11:46 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
done to the opposite, been to the oppositerolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing

oh well...then we should acompany his psycatry development!

tongue

Or maybe...it depends on what you are rushing for...uh oh

There is time to:
- live together
- get married
- have kids

Timeless for:

- kiss
- make love
- meet in person
- decide whether it's she/he or not, cause feelings can tell

and...

I got this from a fidelity source!dancing wink
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Oct 7, 2007 11:47 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
think what?devil
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Oct 7, 2007 11:47 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
And what if the woman is a pushy one who can't wait for him to make his mind up
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Oct 7, 2007 11:48 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Good then perhaps you should be the new CS fidelity counsellor g/f!!!!!!!

wink conversing grin
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Oct 7, 2007 11:49 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing

thumbs up dancing
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Oct 7, 2007 11:50 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
hole
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Oct 7, 2007 11:51 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
About what his next move might be, analyze the relationship.

Determine if it is worth proceeding.
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Oct 7, 2007 11:52 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
If she is pushy, then she has a decision to make, doesn`t she?
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Oct 7, 2007 11:53 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
That is the scary part
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Oct 7, 2007 11:54 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
Why is that scary?
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Oct 7, 2007 11:55 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
Because if he wants to take things slowly and you tell him otherwise, he might split
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Oct 7, 2007 11:56 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
well, then maybe it depends on how far you went?If everything is clear, ready for the run, he pulls back to think...then he is a good thinker...god analitic...good...sleep

When a relationship is going on and he needs to think...whether he is a teenager or he will come back and say: it's over...cause we only need to "think" for the one we probably will dump...confused
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Oct 7, 2007 11:57 AM CST When a Man says he wants to take it slow...
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
But wouldn`t you want to know if he is on a whole different wavelength?

If he "splits", then you never had him to begin with.
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