bluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK4,836 posts
When a man wants to take it slow he might mean that he doe snt want to rush into things......which is sensible and that way if it doesnt work out noone gets too hurt .....
evie_girl_flOPFayetteville, North Carolina USA967 posts
Now I'm thinking that the term "Taking it slow" has two faces, and its kind of hard to detect which one he really mean , until you see how he behaves.. Oh well , thanks for the advice , i will thnk on them...
jampet: maybe he's just a decent guy who doesn't feel he wants to rush to the next level until there is a solid foundation of trust and affection between you?
I agree.
If a person has been hurt before, perhaps he or she doesn't want to rush into things right away. The sane thing to do is to take it slow and get to know each other. If you don't want to be seeing anyone else just ask him if you could be exclusive.
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