When a Man says he wants to take it slow... (193)
evie_girl_flFayetteville, North Carolina USA9 Threads 967 PostsYes, thank you!! I was asking that question , why would someone asks to take it slow? 
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I thought that myself!! I think he/she is not serious and still shopping! 
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But in the end I think it all comes down to trusting the man. After all this I still trust him, and I know it's not something that's going to happen overnight. But one day it will.
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Exactly! It's the "telling" that has ominous implications.
I wonder how a girl (or guy) would respond to: "Hey, let's take this fast!" Would that be better, worse, or equal?
I wonder how a girl (or guy) would respond to: "Hey, let's take this fast!" Would that be better, worse, or equal?
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Hahaha it would depend on how fast and what he meant by that.
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WHEN I say I want to take it slow it's because I'M not sure if she is the one for me... and I NEED TIME to get to know her.
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no slow, no fast...take the normal steps...
"A-hey, lets have coffe one of these days
B-ok, how about tomorrow?
A- i can't, do you mind if we make this on the coming friday?
A-ok then"
It's about NOT delaying, taking it slow due to NO particular reason...just taking it slow...cause...well, you need time...cause...you are slow...and...yeah
"A-hey, lets have coffe one of these days
B-ok, how about tomorrow?
A- i can't, do you mind if we make this on the coming friday?
A-ok then"
It's about NOT delaying, taking it slow due to NO particular reason...just taking it slow...cause...well, you need time...cause...you are slow...and...yeah
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only if she grabs you right? you say: "hey, lets take it slow"
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Yeah right!!
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You know you can talk all you want online, really get to know someone, but really are you able to fully know the person before meeting?
I've done the "pull the cart before the horse" thing and ended up spending a ton of time on a man that I thought I knew to only find out that I didn't know him at all.
So, when I say I want to take things slow, I mean that I don't expect to be moving in with someone after a date or two. I want to get to know the person, not a perception of him based on what he says his life is like or what he says as to how he treats women. I want to see it first hand in real time, not cyber space.
-Erin
I've done the "pull the cart before the horse" thing and ended up spending a ton of time on a man that I thought I knew to only find out that I didn't know him at all.
So, when I say I want to take things slow, I mean that I don't expect to be moving in with someone after a date or two. I want to get to know the person, not a perception of him based on what he says his life is like or what he says as to how he treats women. I want to see it first hand in real time, not cyber space.
-Erin
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Erin I wasn't having a go at you girl. You've made a good point and I personally wish you luck
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i think we've done that exercise on previous pages.MOVING IN takes its time baby...common sense...
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Like a guy is going to say, lets take things slowly
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If he says he wants to take it slow......say see ya later pal......NEXT......
Player.....how dumb do they think we are......
Player.....how dumb do they think we are......
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that's ma girl
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"how dumb do they think we are......"
That`s one of the reasons guys sat let`s slow it down a bit.
That`s one of the reasons guys sat let`s slow it down a bit.
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I dont think so.......pull the other one please.....
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You reckon?
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