should i end this friendship? ( Archived) (8)

Oct 7, 2007 11:30 PM CST should i end this friendship?
MusicEqualsLife
MusicEqualsLifeMusicEqualsLifeEdison, New Jersey USA19 Threads 3 Polls 448 Posts
i have been friends with someone for quite awhile. he's been there for me as i have for him in diff ways. yet recently we fight more and more over silly small matters like for instance hanging out. which is what the fight was of last night. been over a month since last have so a week ago talked of seeing a movie. when brought it up yesterday to know when both could. he said wouldn't anymore since i was making a demand and then brought up how on another matter bothers him when meet in person. how i don't talk much. says we know each other shouldn't be a prob. he needs to understand it's just how i am. i tend to be more quiet even around my family. i've tried seeing his point of veiw in ways on this and everyting. lately through i feel more and more it is all give and no take. anyway thinking of ending the friendship don't know through. so i am asking what other's might think. should i end things or keep trying to save my friendship with him.
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Oct 7, 2007 11:34 PM CST should i end this friendship?
czylilchik89
czylilchik89czylilchik89pflugerville, Texas USA8 Threads 36 Posts
Dont end it you will regret it in the end I promis... Just take some time away from each other and see how that goes
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Oct 7, 2007 11:37 PM CST should i end this friendship?
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
If he is truly your friend then you should be able to tell him how you feel. And take a break if necessary. He may be upset at first but if its true friendship it wont take long before hes calling you and apologizing or asking when you 2 are gonna hang out again.
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Oct 7, 2007 11:38 PM CST should i end this friendship?
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Friends wouldnt stop being friends over that....I hope you two can work it out, maybe your friendship just needs an adjustment.
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Oct 8, 2007 12:04 AM CST should i end this friendship?
Mysticalguy
MysticalguyMysticalguyEvansville, USA38 Threads 1,164 Posts
If you feel like it's more give than take, you should distance yourself and see if he comes around. If he cares for your friendship, he'll contact you, and if not, then you'll be sure of how he stands.
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Oct 9, 2007 11:08 AM CST should i end this friendship?
CLLGEGRL
CLLGEGRLCLLGEGRLSan Antonio, Texas USA465 Posts
If you feel uncomfortable in the relationship and it is just a draining experiecen for you, then tell him about it. Dont give him an ultimadum or anything but bring it up, if he is a friend, he will work it out with you. If not, then you dont have to deal with it. *M*
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Oct 9, 2007 11:09 AM CST should i end this friendship?
Jacko21
Jacko21Jacko21St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta179 Threads 2,718 Posts
`Say your goodbye's and save yourself a bellyfull of woes
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Oct 9, 2007 12:00 PM CST should i end this friendship?
I think you need to define exactly what this relationship IS. Is it you know him & he knows you and you do things together sometimes or is it more than that? I have a few female friends that we hang out have some popcorn, some wine, watch a movie talk and that's it. No big deal if we don't hear from each other for a month. We discuss things but never fight. Fighting usually only happens if there's more going on than just friendship. Where is this relationship going? Or is it going nowhere? Are you guys on the same page? I think not!
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