On men's profiles most will say they want a attractive, slim woman. Who here would think am I attractive enough for what he is talking about, and how slim is slim.
I am quite sure there are men who find you attractive and size is in the eyes of the beholder. I f a man is only concerned about physical beauty and weight. he isn't worth your time!
I will hop on mindfuls bandwagon. You just generalised a statement.
In percentage terms how many profiles have you read in comparison to the number of available profiles on this site. And of those how many have made this statement.
Then we need to know the age brackets these comments came from to see if there is any trend.
You should of said "I get the impression from the profiles I've read, That most men seem to prefer ...."
Just joshing you Kitty.
Aand the important thing is to love and respect yourself. The rest will just happen.
Ahh, don't generalize either. I have given plenty of men a jingle who were not tall, good looking or handsome. That includes from my personal perspective or what is considered to be aesthetically attractive in general. I have even corresponded with men who are well older than I would normally go for, if they made me laugh, or intrigued me with their profile/email. Perhaps there are some women like you described, but not all.
I did the on line dating scene.. I find guys like us girls have our special idea of who we want to date.. Some are superficial and some dont care about body types. I am a semi thick girl and went on a lot of dates. Some good some bad. The trick is to find someone who loves you for the adorable, awesome caring person that you are. I am engaged to a guy I thought wouldnt be my type and we fell in love.. You just never know.. You have to pull alot of weeds in your quest for a beautiful rose.
A sweet considerate disposition with a sense of humor can turn some what some would think of as *toads* to *princes* in my eyes. Looks don't always last, so if that's all that is important then buy a nice blow up doll :P
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