Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone? (19)

Nov 13, 2007 6:11 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
singleinregina
singleinreginasingleinreginaRegina, Saskatchewan Canada56 Threads 928 Posts
Ever break up with someone or part ways with friends and then wish that you hadn't?

I just know that I am missing someone special and wonder if I made the right decision in breaking it off...



head banger
Nov 13, 2007 8:02 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
I think we all have at one time.
The only thing you can do is either accept it and move on or see if there's a second chance to be had.

Best of luck...........just be sure,it hurts on both ends at times.hug
Nov 13, 2007 8:30 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
Depends why you broke off with them in the first place. If it was a good reason then it was the right decision.thumbs up
Nov 13, 2007 9:37 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
singleinregina
singleinreginasingleinreginaRegina, Saskatchewan Canada56 Threads 928 Posts
There were a few reasons really but i will not discuss them publicly. Suffice to say I miss her a lot for someone I knew for a short while.

head banger
Nov 13, 2007 10:45 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
I know what you mean, Scott. I think being alone only kindles the regret and the more time you have to spend with memories, it kinda makes you want to make more.

Good luck whatever way you go, man.cheers
Nov 13, 2007 11:26 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
tazmaninangel
tazmaninangeltazmaninangelEdmonton, Alberta Canada118 Threads 1 Polls 2,608 Posts
Sometimes things are meant to be the way they are.....take away the good stuff....maybe now was just not the right time.


Some memories are best left as memories.
Nov 14, 2007 9:27 AM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Think of it like this.. one door closes and another one openscheers
Nov 14, 2007 9:33 AM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
Wait awhile to see if you still feel the same way, and if you do ask her out for coffee to talk and see if once you see her in person again the feeling are still there.
Nov 14, 2007 9:51 AM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
singleinregina
singleinreginasingleinreginaRegina, Saskatchewan Canada56 Threads 928 Posts
yes thanks you are right, and doors have been opening for me as of late.
I am not one to dwell on the past, but sometimes I look back and ask myself, " wtf was I thinkin?"

head banger
Nov 14, 2007 6:42 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Mine was the opposite.. I was told to leave.. but after a while I was glad I was.. the only thing I regrett is that I was stupid enough to ever be with her in the first place.. but hind sight is better than fore sight.. It will get better.. things happen for a reason.. it may be that your one true love is just around the corner...handshake
Nov 14, 2007 6:54 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
I agree things happen for a reason,and often times for the better.
We can drive ourselves crazy with the 'what ifs'in life or decide to move forward.All you can do is talk to her and see if it over for good and if so then you can say at least you tried.hug
Nov 14, 2007 9:28 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
singleinregina
singleinreginasingleinreginaRegina, Saskatchewan Canada56 Threads 928 Posts
I will not contact her anymore, I don't think she wants it. Its kind of sad for me because I was under so much pressure when I was with her, and it kind of overshadowed us eventually. I suppose it is meant to be this way, and that is what I am getting used to living with.
There are other things I've looked back on doing and wondered the same thing...you should see the clothes I wore in the 80s!

head banger
Nov 14, 2007 11:23 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
tazmaninangel
tazmaninangeltazmaninangelEdmonton, Alberta Canada118 Threads 1 Polls 2,608 Posts
Soemtimes the choices we have to make are not easy...but once we have made them we need to live with them - life goes on.
Nov 15, 2007 6:52 AM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Do you thing it's not so much you think you might have made the wrong decision... but it might be the companionship you miss? You know, like the having someone there to be with.. that could be it too..
Nov 15, 2007 7:50 AM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Best thing for now Scott is to just let it go and take one day at a time,see what's out there and leave it be and stop wondering what might have been......it only drives a person crazy.hug kiss hug
Nov 15, 2007 9:26 AM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
I agree, but sometimes it takes time curly.. things should get better..
Nov 15, 2007 1:25 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
I know............................boy do I know.
Nov 15, 2007 7:13 PM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
singleinregina
singleinreginasingleinreginaRegina, Saskatchewan Canada56 Threads 928 Posts
Thanks Curly and I guess I should emphasize, I am fine!
It's just on occasion one tends to reflect a bit...just one of those times. I am not moping and not going crazy I assure you all.

head banger
Nov 16, 2007 6:29 AM CST Ever wish you'd never said goodbye to someone?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
I know...........as for being crazy.............................tongue rolling on the floor laughing hug
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