Immaturity, or they fall in love with the fantasy or even just the chase....many leave once they have touched the "Love" because they have captured it and realize its no so much love but the idea of being in love or chasing to gain love.....
Point is they believe they are in love, so its all a matter of how you percieve love, some do fall fast other take more time, differant concepts and perceptions....
I can fall in love a million times in a day but I would never profess unless I truely meant it. It's been almost ten years now and I'm still waiting for that proverbial frying pan upside the head. Maybe one day. Just maybe.
For me it takes a while to fall in love...have to get to know the person.respect and trust before saying I love you.For me they are not words to be given or taken lightly. I've said it twice in 7 yrs,got played the first time and just didn't work the second......hoping third time's the charm.
I never admitted to loving my wife until several years into the marriage.
Yes she was everything i wanted but i had this fantasy about love that wasn't there in our day to day relationship.
It was when i finally realised how distraught I would be if she left me then i admitted to myself I really loved her. And no that wasn't at the end that was in the middle.
We talked about it sure and i said the words, but never believed them until that realisation.
And yes I'm single now and yes i crashed and burned when she opted out.
Think there is a difference between falling in love and like someone.I like a lot of people on here and I show them that, but wouldnt betray my true feelings to anyone on public.
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