Granted im not on this site to no any one. But when I am On this site I cant seem to hit it off with the ladys. I am shy and pretty ugly but every ugly person should find a sole mate eventually. right? Please women give me some advice. Im new to this.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Well, if you're not on here to know anyone, what do you expect. Jump in and let yourself be known. You're no uglier than most of the dudes on here, and I've been out with 3 or 4 of em. Join in the forums, it's a great way to get over shyness!
stop putting yourself down! ! ! ! i just took a look at ur profile & ugly you aint. give people a chance to know you & let them see you for the good person you really are.
ugly??? ok. I might be wrong, after all I'm supposed to wear glasses when I'm working on the computer... but seriously.......
ugly?? I don't think so...
this is silly.... because you and me or anybody else for that mattter can be as ugly as a trodden on door mat or as beautiful as a rainbow, it all depends on who's looking. We're all beautiful and not just to our mums!
forums are a good place, they enable us to see a bit more of the people even if some might be players... but it's all part of the internet thing, isn't it?? the same as in the real world when I think about it... but on line, at your own convenience of time.
Just as others have stated, jump into the forums and make yourself at home. I shied away from the forums when I first joined and got some great advice from friends on our Local Forum page about checking out the Intl. pages. I lurked around here for many days, then started posting responses from time to time. Since then I have made some wonderful friends that I am truly blessed to have in my life. Everyone that I have met on the Forum has been kind and welcoming, even if we disagree with each other's opinions.
So, kick your shoes off, grab a beverage and join in. You will soon finnd that you are having so much fun that you forget what sleep even is.
Welcome to the forums, taking a chance by speaking for all, but we look forward to seeing you around!
See your point, but if he is able to let his personality show a bit he will make friends and confidence will grow, some people here are more extrovert than others and that can feel a bit intimidating, to make friends he has to try a bit.
you state in your first line that "Granted i'm not on this site to know anyone. You are getting what you want. I don't see the problem. This is a dating site, so we are trying to get to know each other. Maybe when you start figuring out what it is that you want, you'll do better. That, and get spell check. Calling yourself ugly just shows that you need therapy.
So, to do list:
figure out what you truly want get spell check therapy then things should be all worked out for you
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