Does it bother anyone else (54)
dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 PostsAmbrose, honey, I like you in your skirt and am very impressed that you sewed it yourself. I haven't seen you heels. I bet if we look hard enough, we could find something masculine. I'm willing to try, you know. 
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Glad to see you busting at the seams with all that female...errrr male pride !!!!!!!!
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EVERYDAY.........I get judged by my looks,I'M used to it.THE shaved head,goatee,tattos's.Unfortunately,we do live in a visual world.
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We really do, Wall, which is so pitiful. People just miss out on so much with just a glance. I work with mentally ill people all day and have learned not to judge by a glance. The mentally ill, who are sometimes homeless, have stories and lives that we would know nothing about without a little compassion and care.
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It's not all bad,it helped me during my bouncer days.
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I'm sure it did. But people should not judge others, it happens to much. But if you are secure with who you are, and it sounds like you are then, to he.. with the rest of them. that is what i think and feel. if people cannot get past my being short and chubby, to he.. with them. lol
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a few years ago it did bother me what people really thought of me..if i was good enough on the inside or the outside or what i was lacking to find the right type of person...
then i took a long, hard look at myself and realized im not that bad of a person and i needed to let my beauty I held on the inside shine through, I became a whole new woman....It was only then, when my opinion changed about myself....Where I thought it was others judging me, it was me who was the judge...I was only seeing what I thought others should see in me, I was my problem....
Now if someone doesnt like me...oh its so their problem, and im ok with that.
then i took a long, hard look at myself and realized im not that bad of a person and i needed to let my beauty I held on the inside shine through, I became a whole new woman....It was only then, when my opinion changed about myself....Where I thought it was others judging me, it was me who was the judge...I was only seeing what I thought others should see in me, I was my problem....
Now if someone doesnt like me...oh its so their problem, and im ok with that.
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Try having exposed tattoos! People look at me as if I'm white trash or a murder. Truth be told, I not even close to either one.
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*ahem*
i believe i need to see those pictures...........i need more drool material
i believe i need to see those pictures...........i need more drool material
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I think that we've all been worried about what others have thought of us a some time or other,only natural,we want to please and be liked.
But comes a time in life when we grow into who we are and realise that the opinions of others don't matter as much.
Life would be boring if we all loked like Barbie or Ken .
But comes a time in life when we grow into who we are and realise that the opinions of others don't matter as much.
Life would be boring if we all loked like Barbie or Ken .
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you seem like a great guy to me, i have an exposed tatoo on my ankle, when i choose to let it fly, but it only brings me closer to those that i have to deal with daily, letting them know that i am human and i can do crazy things too, lol
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well purdy lady........i say if a man/woman is so caught up in looks........let em move to cali and they can have all the silicon parts they want(sorry Robert.....yanno i loves ya 
)i think looks are important in a way because you have to have a physical attraction when dealing with relationship issues.......but it's like that age old line............you can't tell a book by it's cover...............i've seen some awesome covers, that had the crappiest stories
looks can be overcome by a great personality and heart!!
jmo
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thank you pooh...keep your positive attitude and the world is your playground...
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I'm proud to have tattoos covering both arms. My friends think they look good and I've had many compliments on the work. I still feel the need to hide them when I meet new people. It just sucks to know people look down at you, when they have no idea who you REALLY are.
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It is hard living out here i CA, Star. It is hard to find a real person, one that is not cosmeticaly altered or who tries to be who they really aren't. Being from the mid west, CA is a rude awakening. But hey, what the heck, i have nothing but time. I will stay positive, Blue, only way i know how to be.
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I think one of the problems......maybe,is that when we look at people, we don't always view them the way THEY ARE,we view them the way WE ARE...as people.I think if we viewed them the way THEY are,there would be less judging,and more UNDERSTANDING.
Maybe.....
Maybe.....
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Speaking of tats,I want a third one also.....and it's going to be big.
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