Note: Just my opinion, but I really think men are out for a more serious relationship and women are out for more of a good time on the internet dating sites. I not going to say that I'm Casonova, but the women that I have met on the internet seem to want a more casual relationship. I hope that I'm wrong, but this is 2006 and times are a changin'. I would love to hear whether your looking for a casual or serious relatioship online?
I Believe enjoyng life is the most attractive thing someone can do.......imagine the fear women would have if from the first meeting you where talking serious relationship..... I know I run from those types of women that turn these dating sites into a all or nothing proposition. Show me wit, humor, intellect, compassion and you'll have my interest. I do not like the Grand inquistion format. good time yes that is what I seek to share and enjoy with another. just my opinion
your right, there is the opposite approach too, which I have had experiences with. They keep knocking on the door with IMs while your trying to chat or do other things on the computer. That can be a red flag also! I think that there can be a good mixture of true concern and caution. Hopefully, we can find what were looking for.
amtheone39..... how could you say youre not a casanova.... look at you with that puppydog..... ooooooooooo......you have to be a casanova.....
putting a little puppydog on your picture.....does that trick the ladies???.... i mean cmon.....that pic just screams.....look at me ladies i have a puppy dog.....
You know waverider, us both being surfers does say alot for our fit bods,but truly, I am a simple guy just looking for a simple girl(blonde or red hair,5'1" or taller and less than 200lbs). Damn, I'm picky!
There are a lot of both men and women who like the whole internet thing....and it suits them just fine....
As a woman...I get the male perspective....they want cyber stuff.....and any woman with respect for herself would not give a man like that the time of day!!!! PERIOD!!!!
That is not what some people are looking for and it truley gives us who is looking for more a bed rep. But if people stand there ground........they have nothing to worry about!!!!!!!
here's my 2 cents...oh and i want my change....: i'm looking for a serious relationship, but do not want a "jump into this" situation, would like to be friends first. i am old enough, to turn away from lets say "temptations", but young enough to want it. the time and place is right for that part, mainly i would rather just talk and know the person first, i've seen women who only wanted "the good stuff"......my 2 cents worth, now give me back my other penny........
great point and the fact that meeting someone could be very dangerous if you do not really take the time and get to know them. If you are talking with a fake, they'll slip[ and give you a sign if you really listen, just my opinion. Be careful is all I'm saying.
I think you got it wrong its the other way around at least it is in my book.. women are out for a more serious relationship thats why there are more women on here then men.men judge too much . im all for a serious relationship if the local men round here would quit judging a person about looks so much. that 10 you get with isn't always going too be a 10 they do get old and change .but this is just my opinion.hope you all fine what you are looking for..
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