How Rude (25)

Jan 12, 2008 4:34 AM CST How Rude
bigman0310
bigman0310bigman0310barnham, West Sussex, England UK1 Threads 10 Posts
What i want to know is how people can be so rude as to not answer messages, even if its just to say thanks but no thanks very mad it makes my blood boil, it takes almost no time to reply.

tell me if you agree with this
Jan 12, 2008 5:13 AM CST How Rude
berniej
berniejberniejTenerife Canary Islands, Cheshire, England UK4 Threads 24 Posts
Your right mate it only take a few seconds to reply even if it no???comfort
Jan 12, 2008 7:54 AM CST How Rude
ernie64
ernie64ernie64stoke, UK81 Posts
some women get over 100 mails a day mate specially if there good lookers
Jan 12, 2008 12:20 PM CST How Rude
coleen
coleencoleencardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK26 Threads 3,311 Posts
i agree with you there bigman a simple thank you dont take you long frustrated
Jan 12, 2008 12:33 PM CST How Rude
sirenna
sirennasirennaPerthshire, Tayside, Scotland UK28 Posts
sigh I agree - even if you get a great many messages, takes but a few seconds to reply.

BUT .... if someone didn't reply, it is clear they are not the sort of person I would like to be friends with anyway laugh laugh
Jan 13, 2008 3:44 AM CST How Rude
sirenna
sirennasirennaPerthshire, Tayside, Scotland UK28 Posts
laugh laugh I guess the secret is to not take it personally when some one doesn't reply grin
Jan 13, 2008 7:20 AM CST How Rude
Hypno_cat
Hypno_catHypno_catSwindon, Wiltshire, England UK8 Threads 220 Posts
Hi I used to be polite and answer every one. I certainly don't get that many especially on this site. but in some cases when i said something on the line of..... thanks but not interested. They would then email back with "why not? you don't know me blah blah". These could get quite abusive after a while. I still do answer mostly though.
Jan 14, 2008 11:22 AM CST How Rude
st712
st712st712Cheshire, UK149 Posts
tell me if you agree with this





....yes
Jan 15, 2008 1:03 PM CST How Rude
esperella
esperellaesperellaRossendale, Lancashire, England UK13 Threads 80 Posts
I do try to answer all messages but I am not in here every day and sometimes days have passed before I have had the chance to answer. People can be obnoxious and perhaps when you don't or can't reply you don't build hopes up or send the wrong message with a " hello, how ya doing"
Human nature can be so fickle!!sigh
Jan 15, 2008 1:32 PM CST How Rude
bigman0310
bigman0310bigman0310barnham, West Sussex, England UK1 Threads 10 Posts
thanks guys n girls for your thoughts but i do understand that sometimes it take awhile to answer all of the messages you get but not to answer at all does seem a bit harsh

anyway keep your views coming inpeace
Jan 16, 2008 6:21 AM CST How Rude
Pptrixibell
PptrixibellPptrixibellEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK5 Threads 1,903 Posts
I always try to answer my emails/flowers/ecards....sometimes I do forget that I've got to reply though because I've been so busy with other things (and not inundated from this website lmao, not that lucky)

But if I haven't replied to folk who have posted here, accept my apologies.....

angel
Jan 16, 2008 9:42 AM CST How Rude
99xOUTxOFx100
99xOUTxOFx10099xOUTxOFx100Chesterfield, Derbyshire, England UK11 Threads 17 Posts
In response to: emails/flowers/ecards....


You mean people actually recieve emails and the like from other people on here?
Mine must be stuck in somebody elses inbox then lol........
Jan 17, 2008 11:14 AM CST How Rude
loopylove
loopyloveloopylovebristol, Bristol, England UK9 Threads 429 Posts
I always answer messages/flowers, it would be rude not to.
hug
Jan 31, 2008 11:09 PM CST How Rude
bigman0310
bigman0310bigman0310barnham, West Sussex, England UK1 Threads 10 Posts
i agree to a point but the fact is that we are all here to meet people and it seem unfair to judge someone before you chat to them because at the end of the dy you can always block their mail and i alway answer my mail who ever it is
Jan 31, 2008 11:11 PM CST How Rude
bigman0310
bigman0310bigman0310barnham, West Sussex, England UK1 Threads 10 Posts
and that was for st712
Feb 1, 2008 12:41 AM CST How Rude
Rathersexy
RathersexyRathersexyLondon, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 200 Posts
I agree, BUT with a caveat against the following point.

I have received several emails from some very attractive women, and in their very first email they are giving me their email address and asking for mine.

This type of behaviour I assume to be a scam by default, and will NOT reply.

Perhaps I should include this in my profile?
Feb 1, 2008 9:14 AM CST How Rude
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
I completely agree with Hypno and then there are those who obviously haven't bothered to read you profile properly. For example in mine....I say 'must love dogs' and outdoors etc.
They come back as being allergic and loving pubs and clubs and would not be outdoors as long as they can help it lol...It gets too much sometimes and as Hypno says....If you say you're not compatible they can get abusive
Feb 1, 2008 12:07 PM CST How Rude
baileysqueen
baileysqueenbaileysqueenkingston upon thames, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 748 Posts
right the amount of emails i get a day is random sometimes loads sometimes hardly any sometimes none but with a one year old baby girl i barely get the chance to look at the emails let alone reply before she starts banging on the keyboard i want to reply but if i even try your probably get a message that doesn't make sense!!. also why when i state i am 18 and looking for someone 18-26 do 50 year olds send me emails why should i bother to reply when someone clearly did not bother to read!!! ok if your a bit older i don't mind but 50 is slightly pushing it!
Feb 1, 2008 1:18 PM CST How Rude
missy2478
missy2478missy2478bury, Greater Manchester, England UK4 Posts
bigman0310: What i want to know is how people can be so rude as to not answer messages, even if its just to say thanks but no thanks it makes my blood boil, it takes almost no time to reply.

tell me if you agree with this
i agree if and when i get mail or flowers i try and reply when i have a connection but i send some emails and flowers and get no replies i know i not a looker as u would thik but it would be nice to get a reply xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
teddybear heart wings sad flower
Feb 1, 2008 3:37 PM CST How Rude
TartanK
TartanKTartanKGlasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1 Threads 333 Posts
baileysqueen: also why when i state i am 18 and looking for someone 18-26 do 50 year olds send me emails why should i bother to reply when someone clearly did not bother to read!!! ok if your a bit older i don't mind but 50 is slightly pushing it!


Once men get to 50 they just lose the plot!

Yours sincerely

Tartan K
(age 50)
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