Do You Follow Your Heart Or Your Head (56)
I follow my heart, but I do allow my head in interrupt sometimes, just to bring me back down to earth.
I can get me into a lot of trouble!
I can get me into a lot of trouble!
I truly hope not its illegal in the uk lol
All my life i've been trying to work this one out.
Our hearts tend to go out to the ones who cause us the most grief....and I think that the ones we really want are essentially the most unsuitable partners.
Physical attraction has always been a must for me, but those who know how good they look may often play the game outside of a relationship.
Fella's..... "do you remember your mum saying to you at a young age....."Just find a nice ordinary girl" ....... but of course we don't want that do we. We look for what is pleasing to the eye and hope the rest falls into place.
To this day I haven't achieved the ultimate blissful relationship. Twas once in my grasp but side issues took over and ruined everything.
It's probably all part of the reason why most of us are on Connecting singles.
Lets keep trying to get it right.
Our hearts tend to go out to the ones who cause us the most grief....and I think that the ones we really want are essentially the most unsuitable partners.
Physical attraction has always been a must for me, but those who know how good they look may often play the game outside of a relationship.
Fella's..... "do you remember your mum saying to you at a young age....."Just find a nice ordinary girl" ....... but of course we don't want that do we. We look for what is pleasing to the eye and hope the rest falls into place.
To this day I haven't achieved the ultimate blissful relationship. Twas once in my grasp but side issues took over and ruined everything.
It's probably all part of the reason why most of us are on Connecting singles.
Lets keep trying to get it right.
I think you have to listen to your heart.
Do not think your head can distinguish love from lust
Do not think your head can distinguish love from lust
I follow my head, a standing pricks got no conscience lol
The opening statement is the wrong way round! Your heart runs the emotions and your head "thinks" logically. Follow the heart and you'll either win big or lose big. It's just a gamble, but I'm sure we're all hoping that the gamble will pay off eventually. Your head (well, at least my head) just rationalises things far too much.
Go for the heart.
Go for the heart.
If you JUST use your head, it would be very clinical - and may even be construed as 'Gold-digging' - ie choosing a partner for specific qualities.If you JUST use your heart, you may find yourself being 'used' and being on an emotional roller-coaster.
Use BOTH your heart and your head - allow emotional involvement but also good old common sense, and there is a chance your relationship may work.
What good advice. I need to get the balance right, I've always used my heart and that can get you into an awful lot of trouble. I've seen the error of my ways and will try to let good old common sense rule a little more. It's going to be difficult but necessary!!
But don’t you then lose what your heart can give you?
I mean if you follow your head without allowing your heart to get involved, isn’t that a bit clinical and black and white.
No my heads right my hearts wrong?
Ahhhh but you feel compassion? So you must use you heart?
Ahh but you love your kids so u must use your heart?
I just think people appear to be using their hearts less and less and their heads more and more, and it isn’t making for a nice world!
BTW I never mentioned relationships! I merely asked which you follow your heart or your head
I mean if you follow your head without allowing your heart to get involved, isn’t that a bit clinical and black and white.
No my heads right my hearts wrong?
Ahhhh but you feel compassion? So you must use you heart?
Ahh but you love your kids so u must use your heart?
I just think people appear to be using their hearts less and less and their heads more and more, and it isn’t making for a nice world!
BTW I never mentioned relationships! I merely asked which you follow your heart or your head
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chefdeparty: Normally its my head,unfortunately its always the smallest one,but he's never lead me astray (much)up till now.
This is probably the most difficult topic that any of has tried to find reason with.
I'm yet to find someone who absolutely blows me away like someone once did.....and because of that.......I am maybe expecting too much from my next potential long term relationship.
Maybe that will never happen.......maybe it will....
I'm yet to find someone who absolutely blows me away like someone once did.....and because of that.......I am maybe expecting too much from my next potential long term relationship.
Maybe that will never happen.......maybe it will....
After reading most of the replies here, I've come to the conclusion that I just don't have a heart
Well, maybe one that only pumps the blood around the organs
Well, maybe one that only pumps the blood around the organs
Hey:
I follow always my heart but sometimes I think it's better to believe my head... sometimes but not often
I follow always my heart but sometimes I think it's better to believe my head... sometimes but not often
my heart and my head are both telling me completely different things lol...at the moment im following my heart and trying to ignore what my heads telling me
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So what do you believe your heart or your head and why?