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kes65: I have been chatting to a man on here, since i joined. Really nice man.
The usual gushing romance stuff. you know, ' the first time i saw you'
sort of stuff.
It went on and on, and in fairness i also went along with it.
Then all of a sudden it stopped.
What i would like to know is why do men do that? Why do they lead you along, say all that stuff and then when you are hooked, run off like a rabbit caught in the head lights.
Is there no sincere men left in the world? Are all men just full of bull?
or do they not have the courage of their convictions.
I like to know.
The usual gushing romance stuff. you know, ' the first time i saw you'
sort of stuff.
It went on and on, and in fairness i also went along with it.
Then all of a sudden it stopped.
What i would like to know is why do men do that? Why do they lead you along, say all that stuff and then when you are hooked, run off like a rabbit caught in the head lights.
Is there no sincere men left in the world? Are all men just full of bull?
or do they not have the courage of their convictions.
I like to know.
Sorry you had to ecperience that.. and no not all men are like that, I have had the same experience with women.. and could ask the same question, but i'm sure there are some good one's out there... hmmm maybe waayyy out there..
Daniel<-------------- looks through telescope... scanning, scanning, hmmm well back to the drawing board...
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There are several reasons a man may do this...
1) Married or has a girlfriend and comes here until it gets to serious then they cut it off.
2) Feel they have gotten to close to the point of meeting and then afraid what you really might think of them.
3) You may have said something that really scared him ya never know guys are wierd like that.
There are many reasons these are just a few. not to say one of them is right Or benifit of the doubt maybe something happened like computer crashed..
To think of it Im a man.....like I know what im talking about? Yeah ok..
1) Married or has a girlfriend and comes here until it gets to serious then they cut it off.
2) Feel they have gotten to close to the point of meeting and then afraid what you really might think of them.
3) You may have said something that really scared him ya never know guys are wierd like that.
There are many reasons these are just a few. not to say one of them is right Or benifit of the doubt maybe something happened like computer crashed..
To think of it Im a man.....like I know what im talking about? Yeah ok..
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thanks daniel,
I appreciate your comment.
I am dumb founded on the subject, but glad to here all men aren't like that, where they all are? thats a mistery.
well spose it's like horse riding, when you fall off you just got to get straight back on, or you never will.
I appreciate your comment.
I am dumb founded on the subject, but glad to here all men aren't like that, where they all are? thats a mistery.
well spose it's like horse riding, when you fall off you just got to get straight back on, or you never will.
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I am visiting Ireland in the summer, such wonderful people, perhaps i should stick to the irish.
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kes65: thanks daniel,
I appreciate your comment.
I am dumb founded on the subject, but glad to here all men aren't like that, where they all are? thats a mistery.
well spose it's like horse riding, when you fall off you just got to get straight back on, or you never will.
I appreciate your comment.
I am dumb founded on the subject, but glad to here all men aren't like that, where they all are? thats a mistery.
well spose it's like horse riding, when you fall off you just got to get straight back on, or you never will.
It works the same on both sides.. I have had a similar experience with a few ladies I was talking to.. not at the same time mind you.. some of them just stopped talking, and some of them just couldn't make up their mind what they wanted.. What's really bad is when you spend a lot of time doing what you can to make things work, and then you find out everything you did was for nothing..
All that time wasted, when it could have been spent with someone else that was really serious about a relationship.. As for me, if I feel it isn't going to go anywhere I will at least give a reason, I won't just leave and not say anything...
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I just wonder, if any men on here are guilty of the same thing?
Hope that none of you do that to anyone.
Hope that none of you do that to anyone.
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kes65: I just wonder, if any men on here are guilty of the same thing?
Hope that none of you do that to anyone.
Hi kes welcome to the forums Hope that none of you do that to anyone.
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kes65: I just wonder, if any men on here are guilty of the same thing?
Hope that none of you do that to anyone.
Hope that none of you do that to anyone.
Well Kes unfortuantly the ones who do are hardly going to admit it, are they.
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vonney: Well Kes unfortuantly the ones who do are hardly going to admit it, are they.
Hi vonny have to agree with you on that how are you 
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morganlee: Hi vonny have to agree with you on that how are you
Am grand thanks hun, how are things with u?
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I honesty think that most of them don't realse what they do, till it happens to them.
oh well, they always get found out un the end.
not saying every man is like that, but, i just wish that they would think about the other person.
oh well, they always get found out un the end.
not saying every man is like that, but, i just wish that they would think about the other person.
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I am always very wary of anyone who starts out with "the usual gushing romantic stuff" I hate anyone coming off as romantic before they know me, it seems so insincere and how many other women has he said the same thing to.
I stick to men who are interested in getting to know who I am and in sharing who they are. A good conversation discussing things that you are interested in, talking about family, what you have accomplished in your life, what your goals are.
Someone who takes the time to get to know you and wants you to know him is a much better candidate for something long term, the romantic guys are just players and I don't give them the time of day.
Hope thats helpful and good luck!
I stick to men who are interested in getting to know who I am and in sharing who they are. A good conversation discussing things that you are interested in, talking about family, what you have accomplished in your life, what your goals are.
Someone who takes the time to get to know you and wants you to know him is a much better candidate for something long term, the romantic guys are just players and I don't give them the time of day.
Hope thats helpful and good luck!
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vonney: Am grand thanks hun, how are things with u?
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jbibiza: I am always very wary of anyone who starts out with "the usual gushing romantic stuff" I hate anyone coming off as romantic before they know me, it seems so insincere and how many other women has he said the same thing to.
I stick to men who are interested in getting to know who I am and in sharing who they are. A good conversation discussing things that you are interested in, talking about family, what you have accomplished in your life, what your goals are.
Someone who takes the time to get to know you and wants you to know him is a much better candidate for something long term, the romantic guys are just players and I don't give them the time of day.
Hope thats helpful and good luck!
that's good advice I stick to men who are interested in getting to know who I am and in sharing who they are. A good conversation discussing things that you are interested in, talking about family, what you have accomplished in your life, what your goals are.
Someone who takes the time to get to know you and wants you to know him is a much better candidate for something long term, the romantic guys are just players and I don't give them the time of day.
Hope thats helpful and good luck!
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morganlee: im ok thanks feelin much better than i was a few days ago
Thats good hun, chin up
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kes65: I honesty think that most of them don't realse what they do, till it happens to them.
oh well, they always get found out un the end.
not saying every man is like that, but, i just wish that they would think about the other person.
has anyone noticed most of the posts are from women ???oh well, they always get found out un the end.
not saying every man is like that, but, i just wish that they would think about the other person.
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kes65: I just wonder, if any men on here are guilty of the same thing?
Hope that none of you do that to anyone.
Hope that none of you do that to anyone.
i have been guilty of something similar and im not proud of it either. it was a case of me ignoring a particular lady which i feel has led to her deleting her profile on CS because of it. the amount of guilt i feel now is uncomprehendable and if i could go back a couple of days ago and say sorry to her then i certainly would, the guilt will always be there because im not that type of person to do something like that.
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jbibiza: I am always very wary of anyone who starts out with "the usual gushing romantic stuff" I hate anyone coming off as romantic before they know me, it seems so insincere and how many other women has he said the same thing to.
I stick to men who are interested in getting to know who I am and in sharing who they are. A good conversation discussing things that you are interested in, talking about family, what you have accomplished in your life, what your goals are.
Someone who takes the time to get to know you and wants you to know him is a much better candidate for something long term, the romantic guys are just players and I don't give them the time of day.
Hope thats helpful and good luck!
I stick to men who are interested in getting to know who I am and in sharing who they are. A good conversation discussing things that you are interested in, talking about family, what you have accomplished in your life, what your goals are.
Someone who takes the time to get to know you and wants you to know him is a much better candidate for something long term, the romantic guys are just players and I don't give them the time of day.
Hope thats helpful and good luck!
Well put jb
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The usual gushing romance stuff. you know, ' the first time i saw you'
sort of stuff.
It went on and on, and in fairness i also went along with it.
Then all of a sudden it stopped.
What i would like to know is why do men do that? Why do they lead you along, say all that stuff and then when you are hooked, run off like a rabbit caught in the head lights.
Is there no sincere men left in the world? Are all men just full of bull?
or do they not have the courage of their convictions.
I like to know.