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I believe if a man is married his loyalty should be first to his wife and children. They would come before his parents, siblings etc.
What do you think?
I had to stand up for my first wife against her mother-in-law; the strange thing is if you lose a spouse and your parents are alive then your parents can (and in my case were) still be there for you.
Many, many people care for elderly parents and also hold down part or full-time employment. They have my respect and admiration. I look after my parents 'part-time' and do not work (although I'd love to feel more useful and contribute to society at large).
My 'job' is therefore 'easy' compared to the former type of people I mentioned above.
Can there be a balance between the needs of elderly parents and one's own personal life or should one or the other go if there is a perceived conflict of interest?
Again - what do you think? Should loyalty be to oneself (selfish) or to those you love and care for who might not have long to live?