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Feb 23, 2008 7:13 AM CST "Time wasters"
CapeDoctor
CapeDoctorCapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland16 Threads 2 Polls 137 Posts
Just wandering what constitutes this? I've seen in so many women's profiles that they are not interested in "time wasters"

I've also noticed that an awefull lot of women that email me prefer to talk about their plans for the weekend involving their own friends or doing their own stuff than showing any interest in meeting up or even getting to know me better.

I sort of wander if those who complain about "time wasters" might not be showing a bit of double standards here...
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Feb 23, 2008 7:17 AM CST "Time wasters"
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
CapeDoctor: Just wandering what constitutes this? I've seen in so many women's profiles that they are not interested in "time wasters"

I've also noticed that an awefull lot of women that email me prefer to talk about their plans for the weekend involving their own friends or doing their own stuff than showing any interest in meeting up or even getting to know me better.

I sort of wander if those who complain about "time wasters" might not be showing a bit of double standards here...


I'm not really sure what a time waster would be. Getting to know someone, whether it leads to marriage or a friend or an experience is certainly never a waste of one's time...Maybe ask them to explain it...why are you interested in women who talk about everything and show no interest in getting to know you better?teddybear
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Feb 23, 2008 7:21 AM CST "Time wasters"
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
CapeDoctor: Just wandering what constitutes this? I've seen in so many women's profiles that they are not interested in "time wasters"

I've also noticed that an awefull lot of women that email me prefer to talk about their plans for the weekend involving their own friends or doing their own stuff than showing any interest in meeting up or even getting to know me better.

I sort of wander if those who complain about "time wasters" might not be showing a bit of double standards here...



wow Wow ... what insight!

And barely out of school laugh


Post the second pic and the ALL have/make time for you roll eyes laugh professor
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Feb 23, 2008 10:25 AM CST "Time wasters"
Irishman1
Irishman1Irishman1Dublin, Ireland946 Posts
Forget about Irish women my friend they are time wasterslaugh
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Feb 23, 2008 10:28 AM CST "Time wasters"
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Irishman1: Forget about Irish women my friend they are time wasters



EXCUSE ME????????

Explain




laugh
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Feb 23, 2008 10:30 AM CST "Time wasters"
Irishman1
Irishman1Irishman1Dublin, Ireland946 Posts
laugh Not you of course,just some Irish womenlaugh wave
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Feb 23, 2008 10:31 AM CST "Time wasters"
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Irishman1: Not you of course,just some Irish women


ha typical make a statement and cant back it up lol





rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 23, 2008 10:31 AM CST "Time wasters"
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Irishman1: Not you of course,just some Irish women



Nice back stepping rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 23, 2008 10:32 AM CST "Time wasters"
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
Personally, I dont do more than sending a flower to show that Im interested to a guy. Thats why sometimes I say things like my plans about the weekend and about my friends hoping the guy would initiate the move, that he is interested to me.

Just mekiss


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Feb 23, 2008 10:37 AM CST "Time wasters"
Irishman1
Irishman1Irishman1Dublin, Ireland946 Posts
No really Irish women are not time wastersrolling on the floor laughing
Dknew: Nice back stepping
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Feb 23, 2008 10:39 AM CST "Time wasters"
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Irishman1: No really Irish women are not time wasters



to late the damage is done lol




so you all set to watch the match?
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Feb 23, 2008 10:41 AM CST "Time wasters"
Irishman1
Irishman1Irishman1Dublin, Ireland946 Posts
Man Utd match yesthumbs up
vonney: to late the damage is done lol

so you all set to watch the match?
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Feb 23, 2008 10:43 AM CST "Time wasters"
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Irishman1: Man Utd match yes



NOOOOOO


the Rugby
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Feb 23, 2008 10:44 AM CST "Time wasters"
CapeDoctor
CapeDoctorCapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland16 Threads 2 Polls 137 Posts
I agree with you there trulymadlydeeply, I don't expect a girl to burst out with all her intentions in the first message! But what gets to me is if ur on the 20th message or so and I still have to hear about how she got so pissed last night while on the lash that she's (now clearly) looking for sympathy from a guy she has no intention of ever meeting...
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Feb 23, 2008 10:44 AM CST "Time wasters"
Irishman1
Irishman1Irishman1Dublin, Ireland946 Posts
Oh Rightlaugh
vonney: NOOOOOOthe Rugby
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Feb 23, 2008 10:46 AM CST "Time wasters"
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
I think time wasters depends on what you are looking for... If you are looking for a long term relationship then being contacted by someone who is looking for friends or casual dating might feel like a waste of time.

I think women like to let a guy know that they are not desperate or needy and actually have a life, so they share a little info about their social life.
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Feb 23, 2008 12:24 PM CST "Time wasters"
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
CapeDoctor: I agree with you there trulymadlydeeply, I don't expect a girl to burst out with all her intentions in the first message! But what gets to me is if ur on the 20th message or so and I still have to hear about how she got so pissed last night while on the lash that she's (now clearly) looking for sympathy from a guy she has no intention of ever meeting...



If its the 20th message, better ask her if she likes you or tell her instead that you like her. Knowing what she wants is one way of knowing whether she needs a chit chat with you or something real.



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Feb 23, 2008 1:04 PM CST "Time wasters"
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
Dated a woman from another site that said in her profile "not interested in serial daters". After our date I had an e-mail from her saying she had a great time and had a lot of fun.

After not hearing from her again for a few days, I called and inquired about things. She said she wasn't interested in a serious relationship, and I was looking for that.

Really left me confused, if she doesn't want a serial dater, and not looking for a LTR....WTF is she looking for??
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Feb 23, 2008 1:44 PM CST "Time wasters"
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
typing

:entering new word to my CS dictionary "time wasters" ::grin:
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Feb 23, 2008 1:48 PM CST "Time wasters"
Irishman1
Irishman1Irishman1Dublin, Ireland946 Posts
laugh thumbs up
riyablossom: :entering new word to my CS dictionary "time wasters" :
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