Just wandering what constitutes this? I've seen in so many women's profiles that they are not interested in "time wasters"
I've also noticed that an awefull lot of women that email me prefer to talk about their plans for the weekend involving their own friends or doing their own stuff than showing any interest in meeting up or even getting to know me better.
I sort of wander if those who complain about "time wasters" might not be showing a bit of double standards here...
CapeDoctor: Just wandering what constitutes this? I've seen in so many women's profiles that they are not interested in "time wasters"
I've also noticed that an awefull lot of women that email me prefer to talk about their plans for the weekend involving their own friends or doing their own stuff than showing any interest in meeting up or even getting to know me better.
I sort of wander if those who complain about "time wasters" might not be showing a bit of double standards here...
I'm not really sure what a time waster would be. Getting to know someone, whether it leads to marriage or a friend or an experience is certainly never a waste of one's time...Maybe ask them to explain it...why are you interested in women who talk about everything and show no interest in getting to know you better?
CapeDoctor: Just wandering what constitutes this? I've seen in so many women's profiles that they are not interested in "time wasters"
I've also noticed that an awefull lot of women that email me prefer to talk about their plans for the weekend involving their own friends or doing their own stuff than showing any interest in meeting up or even getting to know me better.
I sort of wander if those who complain about "time wasters" might not be showing a bit of double standards here...
Wow ... what insight!
And barely out of school
Post the second pic and the ALL have/make time for you
trulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand446 posts
Personally, I dont do more than sending a flower to show that Im interested to a guy. Thats why sometimes I say things like my plans about the weekend and about my friends hoping the guy would initiate the move, that he is interested to me.
I agree with you there trulymadlydeeply, I don't expect a girl to burst out with all her intentions in the first message! But what gets to me is if ur on the 20th message or so and I still have to hear about how she got so pissed last night while on the lash that she's (now clearly) looking for sympathy from a guy she has no intention of ever meeting...
I think time wasters depends on what you are looking for... If you are looking for a long term relationship then being contacted by someone who is looking for friends or casual dating might feel like a waste of time.
I think women like to let a guy know that they are not desperate or needy and actually have a life, so they share a little info about their social life.
trulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand446 posts
CapeDoctor: I agree with you there trulymadlydeeply, I don't expect a girl to burst out with all her intentions in the first message! But what gets to me is if ur on the 20th message or so and I still have to hear about how she got so pissed last night while on the lash that she's (now clearly) looking for sympathy from a guy she has no intention of ever meeting...
If its the 20th message, better ask her if she likes you or tell her instead that you like her. Knowing what she wants is one way of knowing whether she needs a chit chat with you or something real.
Dated a woman from another site that said in her profile "not interested in serial daters". After our date I had an e-mail from her saying she had a great time and had a lot of fun.
After not hearing from her again for a few days, I called and inquired about things. She said she wasn't interested in a serious relationship, and I was looking for that.
Really left me confused, if she doesn't want a serial dater, and not looking for a LTR....WTF is she looking for??
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I've also noticed that an awefull lot of women that email me prefer to talk about their plans for the weekend involving their own friends or doing their own stuff than showing any interest in meeting up or even getting to know me better.
I sort of wander if those who complain about "time wasters" might not be showing a bit of double standards here...