cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
When you reply we can get to know each other better
you can call me..."
I just found this in my mail box
Nice worlds? Yeah, maybe with commas it would sound different. Like it is, it seems a mandatory! And he doesn't seem but at all. But those words are really...
what? what do you think?
How important are the words that a guy/girl choose for the first approach? Do you also get dismotivated because of the way they first approach?
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
cristina: When you reply we can get to know each other better
you can call me..."
I just found this in my mail box
Nice worlds? Yeah, maybe with commas it would sound different. Like it is, it seems a mandatory! And he doesn't seem but at all. But those words are really...what? what do you think?
How important are the words that a guy/girl choose for the first approach? Do you also get dismotivated because of the way they first approach?
Its is VERY important atleast to me that if a stranger , as in someone i havent spoken to on the forums mails me .. uses the appropriate language and approach.
Neednt be very flowery or stylish .. just a simple mail with some respect.
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
riyablossom: Its is VERY important atleast to me that if a stranger , as in someone i havent spoken to on the forums mails me .. uses the appropriate language and approach.
Neednt be very flowery or stylish .. just a simple mail with some respect.
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
riyablossom: No cristina.. he was Indian. Initially the mail was in english .. he felt offended that i didnt agree to speak to him .. so the next one was abusive.
Initially i used to say thankyou , but i am not looking or something polite to say no . Then it is a big verse on how we should be friends to begin with .. again it angers some of them if you say no. And if you send a polite no or thankyou .. some people take that as the signal to keep pursuing so i have stopped even that.
But , on the contrary i do have mail friends on here whom i got to know purely by email exchange . but thats 1 or 2 people anyways.
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you can call me..."
I just found this in my mail box
Nice worlds? Yeah, maybe with commas it would sound different. Like it is, it seems a mandatory! And he doesn't seem but at all. But those words are really...
what? what do you think?
How important are the words that a guy/girl choose for the first approach? Do you also get dismotivated because of the way they first approach?