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Mar 20, 2008 2:48 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
When you reply we can get to know each other better

you can call me..."

I just found this in my mail boxbarf

Nice worlds? Yeah, maybe with commas it would sound different. Like it is, it seems a mandatory! And he doesn't seem but at all. But those words are really...


what? what do you think?

How important are the words that a guy/girl choose for the first approach? Do you also get dismotivated because of the way they first approach?

cheers
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Mar 20, 2008 2:51 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Hi cris wave have to admit i wouldn't reply to it, sounds a bit like your doing him a favour. ' you can call me ...'
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Mar 20, 2008 2:52 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
morganlee: Hi cris have to admit i wouldn't reply to it, sounds a bit like your doing him a favour. ' you can call me ...'


exactly dear. I really felt evaded! he wants to dominate mecrying
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Mar 20, 2008 2:53 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
confused

What is up with that Cristina?
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Mar 20, 2008 2:53 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Wow - talk about a guy with a commanding presence! love thumbs up laugh
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Mar 20, 2008 2:54 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
cristina: exactly dear. I really felt evaded! he wants to dominate me


Doesn't seem like he's "evading" you, Cristina. More like he wants to "invade" you, methinks.confused wave laugh
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Mar 20, 2008 2:56 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Ambrose2007: Doesn't seem like he's "evading" you, Cristina. More like he wants to "invade" you, methinks.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

you cuteteddybear
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Mar 20, 2008 2:56 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
KrazieStill: What is up with that Cristina?
Hi wave to me it's the bit about you can call me just sounds a bit presumptuous
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Mar 20, 2008 2:57 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Hi Ambrose wave hope your good
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Mar 20, 2008 2:57 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristina: When you reply we can get to know each other better

you can call me..."

I just found this in my mail box

Nice worlds? Yeah, maybe with commas it would sound different. Like it is, it seems a mandatory! And he doesn't seem but at all. But those words are really...what? what do you think?

How important are the words that a guy/girl choose for the first approach? Do you also get dismotivated because of the way they first approach?


nice words

he doesn't seem BAD

doh sorry guys
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Mar 20, 2008 2:57 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Its is VERY important atleast to me that if a stranger , as in someone i havent spoken to on the forums mails me .. uses the appropriate language and approach.

Neednt be very flowery or stylish .. just a simple mail with some respect.
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Mar 20, 2008 2:58 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
morganlee: Hi to me it's the bit about you can call me just sounds a bit presumptuous


exactly Morgen...

doh hug
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Mar 20, 2008 2:59 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
riyablossom: Its is VERY important atleast to me that if a stranger , as in someone i havent spoken to on the forums mails me .. uses the appropriate language and approach.

Neednt be very flowery or stylish .. just a simple mail with some respect.


cheers
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Mar 20, 2008 3:00 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
maybe it's me dunno someone tells me what i can do, i automatically want to do the opposite !!
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Mar 20, 2008 3:05 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
morganlee: Hi Ambrose hope your good


Not excessively so, I hope.laugh Hi, Morgan!wave hug

When you respond to this post you are permitted to express further appreciation of me.


wink blushing hug innocent
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Mar 20, 2008 3:06 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
morganlee: maybe it's me someone tells me what i can do, i automatically want to do the opposite !!


Morgan, you must do the opposite of what I tell you to do.scold professor

wink wave laugh
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Mar 20, 2008 3:06 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Ambrose2007: Not excessively so, I hope. Hi, Morgan!

When you respond to this post you are permitted to express further appreciation of me.


laugh thumbs up
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Mar 20, 2008 3:09 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Ambrose2007: Not excessively so, I hope. Hi, Morgan!

When you respond to this post you are permitted to express further appreciation of me.
Now Ambrose, did i say good at what ?? rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Mar 20, 2008 3:12 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
The ones that make me sick are

" wow !! you are beautiful , I am interested !! "

" Consider yourself flowered !! " uh oh

" do you believe in love at first sight "

" call me " or " IM me now !! " or " pls talk to me "

and they are FIRST approach messages !!

mumbling
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Mar 20, 2008 3:15 PM CST "hi just drop an eye on your profile and found it very interesting,
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
riyablossom: No cristina.. he was Indian. Initially the mail was in english .. he felt offended that i didnt agree to speak to him .. so the next one was abusive.

Initially i used to say thankyou , but i am not looking or something polite to say no . Then it is a big verse on how we should be friends to begin with .. again it angers some of them if you say no. And if you send a polite no or thankyou .. some people take that as the signal to keep pursuing so i have stopped even that.

But , on the contrary i do have mail friends on here whom i got to know purely by email exchange . but thats 1 or 2 people anyways.


jesusblues


hug
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