What does one do??????? ( Archived) (8)

When I meet a guy on the site back in November. Met over Christmas everything well. He returns to the country he works in. Came over after 5 weeks and we met up We were in contact my email 2/3 times a week Then he invites you to visit and all is arranged. Still we were getting on very well. When I got there everything was good or so I thought he had arranged two off work to chill out and spend time together and then out of the blue after about 8 hrs he dumps me. I'm on my own in a strange country I dont speak the language, dont know my way around. It has cost me the guts of €1,000 on hotels, flights etc. not to mention the emotional hurt and humiliation.

His reason for dumping me was that he has to fall completely for someone or not at all and that he wants to be on his own. It seems as if I was dreaming and that it didnt happen to me. I am absolutely heart broken because I really like this guy and at my age its difficult to find someone special.

I would like to hear your advise/views.

Thanks for having the time to read this.

one advice would be if you two had been friends maybe in here-
the forum

the women friewndi have made over time here have been so helpful-keeping each other in check-sometimes sharing info

i dunno

doing things int'l so privately gives either person an easier way to
be unkind.

sorry this happened.

do it different next time?
best to you

Hi Kathy,

I'm really sorry to hear this,its not easy for you I'm sure..

If I were you,I would cut my losses and get out of there,go home to your family.. He obviously is not worth it when he would treat you like that. So its better you find out sooner than later.

I do wish you lots of luck and will be thinking of you.

All the best to you..

I am really sorry you have been hurt like this . I think to leave you like that was unforgivable, and easy for others to say but sounds like you had a lucky escape from this man, it could have cost you alot more.

Don't give up there are good ones out there

WOW what a creep....I woulda been on the next flight back home and never looked back...It doesn't sound like you're losing out on much...So consider yourself lucky you found out now rather than later that women are disposable and disrespected immensely in this guys lfe!!!!!!!!!


Good Luck...

Thats dirty, no doubt It's guys like that that makes it hard for decent men to meet the women of there dreams. They Im us and e-mail us and the women say oh no not a nother one! and we shut them down before we know them.
There are to many men and women anymore that go on dating services not to find love but conquests! Makes it hard for the ones who really want to find someone.
Don't worry there are good men and women out there, we just need to do a lot more weeding.
I really hope there is Karma becuase if anyone deserves to get what they give is this guy!

Sounds like one I was in touch with on here...