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Mar 25, 2008 4:59 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,533 Threads 7 Polls 7,359 Posts
that they want to talk about without depressing everybody ?

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Mar 25, 2008 5:24 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
gillyloves69: that they want to talk about without depressing everybody ?


Yes everything I know about life and people so far but all of them were "failed" ... anyway the word "failed" is very negative "change of path" is soooooooooooooo much more positive!!!

Will send you the details of my book when I have published it!! laugh
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Mar 25, 2008 5:34 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
gillyloves69
gillyloves69gillyloves69london, Greater London, England UK1,533 Threads 7 Polls 7,359 Posts
FlowerOfTheSnow: Yes everything I know about life and people so far but all of them were "failed" ... anyway the word "failed" is very negative "change of path" is soooooooooooooo much more positive!!!

Will send you the details of my book when I have published it!!



laugh

oh yes please !...can't wait to read the book


head banger
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Mar 25, 2008 5:46 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Yes I have.. I am heretofore going to avoid 'charmers' like the plague and suit myself... If someone can handle that then.. they might get lucky wink laugh

seriously though.. I have to say even the bad experiences lead to some good, through increased awareness and knowledge... for my age I am surprisingly inexperienced and I have probably gained most if not all my experience in the last year..

I started late (on the relationship front) and went from a 6 year relationshiop into a 3 year one... so I didn't really have much experience of the rat race that is the dating world..and have only really been on the 'scene' for a short time.. phew!! I am exhausted.. already.. laugh

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cheers
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Mar 25, 2008 5:59 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
gillyloves69: that they want to talk about without depressing everybody ?



We learn about ourselves and others all the time. Sometimes things turn out the way we want them to, other times they don't....sigh Personally I try to learn something from each experience whether good or not so positive. Also there are standards to be maintained under all circumstances; surely all of us can keep up our impecable facade in triumph and happiness...... show yourself to the world when things aren't what you expected them to be. We all have good days and bad days also and I do take that into consideration about others, but when the bad days and the deliberation are running back to back ruthlessly to destroy other people and their reputation, then, I am afraid that speaks for itself loud enough.
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Mar 25, 2008 6:06 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
constanza: We learn about ourselves and others all the time. Sometimes things turn out the way we want them to, other times they don't.... Personally I try to learn something from each experience whether good or not so positive. Also there are standards to be maintained under all circumstances; surely all of us can keep up our impecable facade in triumph and happiness...... show yourself to the world when things aren't what you expected them to be. We all have good days and bad days also and I do take that into consideration about others, but when the bad days and the deliberation are running back to back ruthlessly to destroy other people and their reputation, then, I am afraid that speaks for itself loud enough.


Sounds like you have had or witnessed some very difficult experiences hug
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Mar 25, 2008 6:14 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
FlowerOfTheSnow: Sounds like you have had or witnessed some very difficult experiences


laugh hug We live and learn, and sometimes we grow up...peace
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Mar 25, 2008 6:20 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
constanza: We live and learn, and sometimes we grow up...


That we do!! And sometimes we make decisions (eventually!!!!!!) that make our lives better!!! yay
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Mar 25, 2008 6:24 PM CST has anybody learnt anything interesting from any failed/romance/work/family/freinds relationships ?
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
gillyloves69: oh yes please !...can't wait to read the book


hahahaha!!! I used to say of my life that I didn't need to watch "Eastenders" coz my life and those in it was wayyyyyy more unbelievable!!!

When I left the UK, one of my colleagues (and very good friend) said " Oh! No!! Now we're gonna have to start watching Eastenders again!!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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