gillyloves69: that they want to talk about without depressing everybody ?
Yes everything I know about life and people so far but all of them were "failed" ... anyway the word "failed" is very negative "change of path" is soooooooooooooo much more positive!!!
Will send you the details of my book when I have published it!!
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
FlowerOfTheSnow: Yes everything I know about life and people so far but all of them were "failed" ... anyway the word "failed" is very negative "change of path" is soooooooooooooo much more positive!!!
Will send you the details of my book when I have published it!!
Yes I have.. I am heretofore going to avoid 'charmers' like the plague and suit myself... If someone can handle that then.. they might get lucky
seriously though.. I have to say even the bad experiences lead to some good, through increased awareness and knowledge... for my age I am surprisingly inexperienced and I have probably gained most if not all my experience in the last year..
I started late (on the relationship front) and went from a 6 year relationshiop into a 3 year one... so I didn't really have much experience of the rat race that is the dating world..and have only really been on the 'scene' for a short time.. phew!! I am exhausted.. already..
gillyloves69: that they want to talk about without depressing everybody ?
We learn about ourselves and others all the time. Sometimes things turn out the way we want them to, other times they don't.... Personally I try to learn something from each experience whether good or not so positive. Also there are standards to be maintained under all circumstances; surely all of us can keep up our impecable facade in triumph and happiness...... show yourself to the world when things aren't what you expected them to be. We all have good days and bad days also and I do take that into consideration about others, but when the bad days and the deliberation are running back to back ruthlessly to destroy other people and their reputation, then, I am afraid that speaks for itself loud enough.
constanza: We learn about ourselves and others all the time. Sometimes things turn out the way we want them to, other times they don't.... Personally I try to learn something from each experience whether good or not so positive. Also there are standards to be maintained under all circumstances; surely all of us can keep up our impecable facade in triumph and happiness...... show yourself to the world when things aren't what you expected them to be. We all have good days and bad days also and I do take that into consideration about others, but when the bad days and the deliberation are running back to back ruthlessly to destroy other people and their reputation, then, I am afraid that speaks for itself loud enough.
Sounds like you have had or witnessed some very difficult experiences
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