Why do so many women go for married men? (153)
rasgumby: Trish,
We just have to agree to disagree.
If they guy wanted an affair, should have divorced his wife.
even if she was screwing around because he was almost never home ( if that may be the case) still.. Two wrongs don't make a right.
But to say he was staying for the kids, yet he was almost never home....
sorry, I aint buying
We just have to agree to disagree.
If they guy wanted an affair, should have divorced his wife.
even if she was screwing around because he was almost never home ( if that may be the case) still.. Two wrongs don't make a right.
But to say he was staying for the kids, yet he was almost never home....
sorry, I aint buying
I know, staying for the kids and never home - i questioned that too - but that had been the way for many yrs before I csme along
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rasgumby: Seriously,
When I was married, the women never let up.
The sad thing is that many of them hitting on me were her friends (so called)
Seems like so many women.. when they see theat a man is happy or has a family life.. she just needs to try her best to tear it apart.
Why?
When I was married, the women never let up.
The sad thing is that many of them hitting on me were her friends (so called)
Seems like so many women.. when they see theat a man is happy or has a family life.. she just needs to try her best to tear it apart.
Why?
- what they see is what they want- but cannot see that they cannot have what someones else has got --- ie the intrinsic nature of a successful relationship, as in love is not a tangible commodity
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Was going to let it pass,
so you are saying cheating is ok for him as long as theres a good enough reason.
I just dont see it that way.
However, there are some women that make it a point to chase married men.
Those are the ones I was originally asking about.
so you are saying cheating is ok for him as long as theres a good enough reason.
I just dont see it that way.
However, there are some women that make it a point to chase married men.
Those are the ones I was originally asking about.
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CuspofMagic: - what they see is what they want- but cannot see that they cannot have what someones else has got --- ie the intrinsic nature of a successful relationship, as in love is not a tangible commodity
BINGO
That was the point...
and if a woman steals a man.. she most likely wont abtain the love that was built between the married couple and the trust will never be there.
Some men do have morals still!!!!!!!!!!!!
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rasgumby: BINGO
That was the point...
and if a woman steals a man.. she most likely wont abtain the love that was built between the married couple and the trust will never be there.
Some men do have morals still!!!!!!!!!!!!
That was the point...
and if a woman steals a man.. she most likely wont abtain the love that was built between the married couple and the trust will never be there.
Some men do have morals still!!!!!!!!!!!!
--- goes for any committed relationship
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Crystal29: Well I have joined the debate a wee bit late agree but I would still like to have my say..I wholeheartedly agree with Goose and Claire....I can say never also as I have had it done to me and I cherish my own self respect.....I have witnessed the aftermath of it all and the effect on myself and my children......so for 'single' women bleating on about it being all the married guys fault I would say think again...you knew he was married and out of bounds and if you cant find a man of your own then have a closer look at yourself...it may boost your self confidence temporarily but lets face it we can all pull a married man...it means nothing..happens to me on a regular basis....also for the women who marry these d*ckhe*ds I would say what goes around comes around....i hope you get whats coming
Same here!! We control what we do, And sorry.. excuses cant make it right, what matters is, if the person acts like this and is adult enough to
realize it is wrong, stop doing it and learn.
But if continue to make excuses to make it right, I don't think you have learned anything.
and I value how Much trust and faith my friends have in me.
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Crystal29: Well I have joined the debate a wee bit late agree but I would still like to have my say..I wholeheartedly agree with Goose and Claire....I can say never also as I have had it done to me and I cherish my own self respect.....I have witnessed the aftermath of it all and the effect on myself and my children......so for 'single' women bleating on about it being all the married guys fault I would say think again...you knew he was married and out of bounds and if you cant find a man of your own then have a closer look at yourself...it may boost your self confidence temporarily but lets face it we can all pull a married man...it means nothing..happens to me on a regular basis....also for the women who marry these d*ckhe*ds I would say what goes around comes around....i hope you get whats coming
Would like to clarify one of my own points...and that is that although I get hit on by married men on a regular basis....I tell them what I think of them and send them packing.....also i apologise for my poor use of the english language in my description of said men but I got a bit fired up by some of the womens previous postings
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Just bumping it up.
please take the time to read all before commenting
please take the time to read all before commenting
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rasgumby: Seriously,
When I was married, the women never let up.
The sad thing is that many of them hitting on me were her friends (so called)
Seems like so many women.. when they see theat a man is happy or has a family life.. she just needs to try her best to tear it apart.
Why?
When I was married, the women never let up.
The sad thing is that many of them hitting on me were her friends (so called)
Seems like so many women.. when they see theat a man is happy or has a family life.. she just needs to try her best to tear it apart.
Why?
to have all the fun with none of the commitment
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I don't there are to many single guys to go after someone elses man...I need no drama
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I think they hit on married men because they are selfish and dont care about anyone but themselves.
It's also because people have no morals anymore and use rationalizations to make what they are doing right because that is what they want to do and they dont want to feel guilty about it.
It's also because people have no morals anymore and use rationalizations to make what they are doing right because that is what they want to do and they dont want to feel guilty about it.
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horselady5: I think they hit on married men because they are selfish and dont care about anyone but themselves.
It's also because people have no morals anymore and use rationalizations to make what they are doing right because that is what they want to do and they dont want to feel guilty about it.
It's also because people have no morals anymore and use rationalizations to make what they are doing right because that is what they want to do and they dont want to feel guilty about it.
Do we ever know the guilt another may feel deep inside?
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We just have to agree to disagree.
If they guy wanted an affair, should have divorced his wife.
even if she was screwing around because he was almost never home ( if that may be the case) still.. Two wrongs don't make a right.
But to say he was staying for the kids, yet he was almost never home....
sorry, I aint buying
Im happy to agree to disagree if thats what you what - no probs and thanks
however, it was so much deeper than that
for it to have been otherwise, the guy would have had to get through a pretty failsafe defence system of a couple of guys I had known and respected for many years - I was with Bodleing (et al) on a 9 to 5 basis at the time and these people were looking after me - they guided me right - he died in 97 after years of what we experienced as 'right'............................