At first it's all about looks, anyone who says it isn't is a liar.. You wouldn't go up to someone on a bar and say "Hi, you look like you've got a great personality.." .
After that things like personality etc come in to play.. Well, that's my opinion on it anyway.
Seabiscuit: At first it's all about looks, anyone who says it isn't is a liar.. You wouldn't go up to someone on a bar and say "Hi, you look like you've got a great personality.." .
After that things like personality etc come in to play.. Well, that's my opinion on it anyway.
I agree...looks attract but for me it's personality and a brain that keeps me interested.....
Seabiscuit: Me too, but that only comes in to play after the initial attraction, doesn't it?
Yes..I always hate to say looks...because it sounds so shallow and like the only thing that is attractive about somebody because for me it's soooooooo much more....
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes..I always hate to say looks...because it sounds so shallow and like the only thing that is attractive about somebody because for me it's soooooooo much more....
Sensitivity, intelligence, honesty, respect and YES, he has to be attractive to me (no, he doesn't have to be muscular, but, he has to be physically fit). I prefer a complete package.
At first it's all about looks, anyone who says it isn't is a liar.. You wouldn't go up to someone on a bar and say "Hi, you look like you've got a great personality.." .
After that things like personality etc come in to play.. Well, that's my opinion on it anyway.[/quote I am not a liar and havn't been since 6 yrs. agowhen I told 1.Being the opular answer,why would I not say physical looks if it were true.I wouldn't go to a bar and the men who do are mostly ther looking for looks,I agree.
The thread ?,I find a handsome smile,pretty white teeth and an attitude right off that tells me he is a gentleman.I attract to men who want to change the world for the better or try.Men seeing glass half ull as opposed to half empty.Someone with good jokes or stories and not that this is always obvious right away but if he loves God.
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Looks?
Brains?
Personality?
Or is it something else?