What attracts you to someone? ( Archived) (63)

May 30, 2008 9:22 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
A winning smile and confidence. A sense of humor doesn't hurt. Manly but not macho. To me looks only matter in that they reflect the person within. No one is attractive with frown lines.
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May 30, 2008 9:33 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Serenity1971: And what kind of do you have?


Why do you ask questions when you know the answers alreadytongue yay
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May 30, 2008 9:35 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
If we are singing from the same page.....so to speak....dancing
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May 30, 2008 10:01 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Seabiscuit: At first it's all about looks, anyone who says it isn't is a liar.. You wouldn't go up to someone on a bar and say "Hi, you look like you've got a great personality.." .

After that things like personality etc come in to play.. Well, that's my opinion on it anyway.


Looks can attract your attention.. true.. but given that I am not into being picked up in bars.. nor picking anyone else up in a bar really, it honestly doesn't figure that much... none of my boyfriends were that gorgeous... and of course you need to feel a kind of chemistry.. but that chemistry isn't confined to looks.. so no we are not lying.. perhaps we are just a little less shallow..
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May 30, 2008 10:08 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
All three. And I do like someone who gets my sense of humor....and likes it....nerd
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May 30, 2008 10:15 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Serenity1971: What are the things that attract you to someone?
Looks?
Brains?
Personality?
Or is it something else?


All of the above + a great sense of humor, somebody easy going...stressfree, and of course the eyes. Oh my, I love eyes. I'm also really attracted to women who actually understand me and my zany thoughts...as well as my deep and complex thoughts.....
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May 30, 2008 10:17 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
While it's true some like the total package, including myself, physical characteristics are low on the totem pole...I'm more interested in his mind and personality.

what makes him tick...laugh tongue grin
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May 30, 2008 10:33 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
something else~
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May 30, 2008 11:03 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
a_l_e_x
a_l_e_xa_l_e_xlondon, Greater London, England UK62 Threads 1,813 Posts
a nice smile and there personality.
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May 30, 2008 11:35 AM CST What attracts you to someone?
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
stuck I may have already said this in this thread before, too lazy to go back and lookyawn


LOOKS attract me



Personality is what keeps mebouquet
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May 30, 2008 2:02 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Intelligence
The way that they conduct themselves and how they treat others
Their sense of humor and fun adventurous spirit (not necessarily 24/7 .... but having it)
Their looks to a decent degree ........ gotta have that physical attraction and chemistry

Its a combination of everything ....... because when I think back over men that I've been attracted to - I can peg one certain thing that stands out in my mind. As well, they were all different - so I'll take a Heinz man!
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May 30, 2008 2:26 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
StressFree: Why do you ask questions when you know the answers already yay



Because I can tongue
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May 30, 2008 2:32 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Serenity1971: What are the things that attract you to someone?
Looks?
Brains?
Personality?
Or is it something else?


Something else. It's a long story. smitten


grin
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May 30, 2008 2:39 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
lusciousmile: Something else. It's a lonnnnggg story .


hahaha giggle


wave teddybear
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May 30, 2008 2:39 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
onnnggg? roll eyes roll eyes laugh
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May 30, 2008 2:58 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Claayer: lonnngggish?



Yes, i know. roll eyes


wave hug
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May 30, 2008 3:02 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Sense of humor
Looks
Personality
Brains

I love a man that makes me laugh. I'm very attracted to that. He also has to be smart, I love a good conversationalist. One must be physically attractive to me or I wouldn't be drawn to them physically. All of this ties into a personality that I find interesting.
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May 30, 2008 3:11 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
VDLL1972
VDLL1972VDLL1972Sweet F.A., New Jersey USA977 Posts
Serenity1971: What are the things that attract you to someone?
Looks?
Brains?
Personality?
Or is it something else?


Brains with a nice pair of ... eyes grin
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May 30, 2008 6:51 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
Personality and brains, mostly.

Sometimes looks too, but I'm not into "Pretty Boys" or "Gym Freaks" (those who spend 90% of the day at the gym) and also I'm not into morbidly obese guys either (yuck! Can't be active, that's for sure).
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May 30, 2008 6:55 PM CST What attracts you to someone?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
If they have stable mental health.. without the need of medications!

but those Prozac women can get pretty wild!uh oh
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