People keep saying love is all that matters in life but it is the one thing I don't have. Well love for my kids and family but I don't have a special man in my life.
I have only been with one man in my whole life and that is with my ex. Do you all think that is pathetic? I don't know how I feel about it.
I would love to feel the touch of a man before I die that's for sure and that is why I joined this site and one other one.
I suppose they would if they could - they'd just take it out of their employee's hides...
Now now Robert, I don't like walmart, don't shop walmart.....but they're the largest corporate donor to charities in the world. Give the devil his due.
I don't think so, I just finally got up the nerve to start going on line and I think it's fun just meeting people and maybe having a conversation. It really shouldn't be but I think Love is complicated enough face to face. So don't think it's possible to fall in love here... I think it's great for making new Friends....
mmartinez: I don't think so, I just finally got up the nerve to start going on line and I think it's fun just meeting people and maybe having a conversation. It really shouldn't be but I think Love is complicated enough face to face. So don't think it's possible to fall in love here... I think it's great for making new Friends....
Agree, if you do, make sure they're in the same state. Long distance complicates it too much.
solitare: Love the name..%D Loved the book and the movie...Yes, The Wonderful World of Susie Wong ! %D
Hi there Solitare! Hey your comment made me laugh And considering my dry sense of humour, you did well! My name is Susan so I'm not far wrong, and my grandmother brought me up and that was her nick name for me which is why I've used it here. I sign all my art with this name too so I'm really not trying to decieve anyone. But sure.. the book.. the movie.. and well... my world? Her world wasn't a patch on mine to be honest, I could fill a library!
Just be more accepting of someone how they are and dont put such a big price tag on life and feel your heart...
jmo
I am very accepting of people, and trust everyone unless they give me cause not to. Of course I must put a big price tag on life, it's a gift, it's precious. As for my heart, I use it to feel everything, and it's painful cos it's been smashed to pieces.
SusieWong: I am very accepting of people, and trust everyone unless they give me cause not to. Of course I must put a big price tag on life, it's a gift, it's precious. As for my heart, I use it to feel everything, and it's painful cos it's been smashed to pieces.
Warmest.. Susie
Thats a good attitude Susie. hope u never lose it!!
Manolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK1,611 posts
SusieWong: I am very accepting of people, and trust everyone unless they give me cause not to. Of course I must put a big price tag on life, it's a gift, it's precious. As for my heart, I use it to feel everything, and it's painful cos it's been smashed to pieces.
I could probably comment on a lot of what you said in your post, but i am sure you'll get the hang of it pretty soon - you seem to be on the way already The only advise i deem necessary to give you, from my experiance here, is to t a k e y o u r t i m e . be wary of people that do not have any forum presence. Be VERY carefull with them, take it really really slow and invite them over to the forums in the meantime - where they will eventually show their true colours. mingle in the forums. make friends. eventually, friendship is the first step in anything. also, your friends that have been here some more time, might save you a lot of pain by warning you and advising you when you need it. look for consistency in people. people who pretend, rarely are consistend at all times (except if they are really inte;;igent, but thats another kind of story). Face it: you'll have to weed through many weirdos b4 you are able to find someone worthwhile. You have more chances of doing this in the forums.
cheers, and feel free to mail me if you need help/advise with anything here
Thank you so very much for that wonderful advice. It's given me a lot to think about because there was one or two that said negative things about the forums and that people talk rubbish etc however I did advice them that they would be welcome to start there own poles and subjects etc to see who may jump on the bandwagon but they didn't reply yet. So yes, patience, that is coming I must say. It's amazing what connecting with people does really. It's different with your friends especially when you're far away, you don't want them to worry and they expect certain things form you, but with the people on here, it's easier to just be yourself, you're not in their faces and if they don't like what you say they don't have to read it but at least there are choices like you say for sure. OK then sweet daddy, I'll remember to be V E R Y careful who I talk with. I've put penpals on my profile now so that'll help keep the weirdos at bay I've made a couple of nice friends already and it's helped us take pressure off by sharing our stories so in that sense it's great. But for sure I'm not about to leave the country (yet) in pursuit of an expectation that somone out there ought to be making me happy. I feel strongly that now, I need to find this firstly within myself. Thanks again, you're very kind.. Warmest.. Susie
Anything is possible, just have to be realistic in what you are seeking and what you will accept, many factors and more since it IS online but the answer to your question is yes I believe you can if it is there for ya'll like in the "click" of things, fell in love once online, broke my heart but has not sent me running just didn't work, odds my man odds.
Manolito: ...and dont lose that, it's your greatest asset!
Wow! What a compliment! Thank you very much! I'll try to remember that the next time I'm screaching like a banshee with frustration and rage that things are not the way 'I' want them Thanks again.. Warmest.. Susie
Aries01: Thats a good attitude Susie. hope u never lose it!!
Hi Aries! Thank you very much for the feedback. It's very much appreciated. I hadn't though of it like that really, I hadn't thought of it as an attitude as such. But it just prooves that feedback does give food for thought and that's just great. Thanks again and good luck
I thought it would work..this online thing but as it turned out for me was a dissappointment. Number one she lived in Canada, number 2 she misrepresented her personality and appearance. Just an all around mistake. Can it happen for real...still waiting.
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