Extreme spans of space and language... (33)
X5323601Anchorage, Alaska USA44 Threads 3 Polls 1,250 PostsI find myself quite smitten by a lass in New Zealand, I am Alaskan. Very large distance with respect to miles and there is also a quirky and sometimes down right devastating language gap/barrier. What to do? This lady is beautiful, wonderful and scary. Those who have the know please speak. I won't throw vegetables at the dumb stuff, promise.
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i speak to someone in Canada and we get on really well, but we are both aware of the distance and keep a close check on reality. Not helpful really sorry but distance is a bummer !! 
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X5323601: and there is also a quirky and sometimes down right devastating language gap/barrier.
But that will always be there anyway, men being from Mars and women from Venus...
I don't know, I'd think anything is possible when you do meet your right match. Although it couldn't have been more ironic, LOL, Alaska and New Zealand!! Good luck, I'd think the first thing would be to meet up for a holiday somewhere mid-way and then see how things go.
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I am a big romantic so here is what i will say..LOVE HAS NO DISTANCE...ok mushy i know but if it feels right for you both then what the heck........
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morganlee: i speak to someone in Canada and we get on really well, but we are both aware of the distance and keep a close check on reality. Not helpful really sorry but distance is a bummer !!
Canadians are blue in my red book, I have many a friend there in reality, I can throw a rock and smack 'em from here, good folk. Thanks my fair lady
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AudrysSis: But that will always be there anyway, men being from Mars and women from Venus...
I don't know, I'd think anything is possible when you do meet your right match. Although it couldn't have been more ironic, LOL, Alaska and New Zealand!! Good luck, I'd think the first thing would be to meet up for a holiday somewhere mid-way and then see how things go.
I don't know, I'd think anything is possible when you do meet your right match. Although it couldn't have been more ironic, LOL, Alaska and New Zealand!! Good luck, I'd think the first thing would be to meet up for a holiday somewhere mid-way and then see how things go.
Bless your heart, I was thinking somewhat about the same
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rescuemepleez: I am a big romantic so here is what i will say..LOVE HAS NO DISTANCE...ok mushy i know but if it feels right for you both then what the heck........
You and I seem to see many things through the same life goggles, I smooch the
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X5323601: Canadians are blue in my red book, I have many a friend there in reality, I can throw a rock and smack 'em from here, good folk. Thanks my fair lady
Good Luck whatever you do 
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Don't think I have a certain country where I always fall for the blokes more 
The last one I was
with was from Australia about a 22 hour flight away from me 
If that's any help to answering your questions though 
The last one I was
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Distance is a killer....but what is the language issue? Don't you speak a sort of English in Alaska? They certainly do in NZ
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Fallingman: Distance is a killer....but what is the language issue? Don't you speak a sort of English in Alaska? They certainly do in NZ
Fallingman, one of my newest favs - Um - Yes, but the slang trips me up and she writes and speaks so fast, I thought *I* was the lang dominator - *Nope* Ug
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Distance is a killer but also life is too short go for it. You never know whats round the corner your a long time dead.
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PILIPALA: Distance is a killer but also life is too short go for it. You never know whats round the corner your a long time dead.
Gosh lady, you are so upbeat, makes me want to strangle you, kidding, you are right
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And Bighead 
Ug, shutup...
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X5323601: And Bighead Ug, shutup...
I want at least a rutabaga!
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X5323601: Gosh lady, you are so upbeat, makes me want to strangle you, kidding, you are right
Many men have tried that, you find their bodies buried some where remote if knew where to look.
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bajanblue: I want at least a rutabaga!
Ma'am, this is not your dung, move along please
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X5323601: Ma'am, this is not your dung, move along please
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I have been in a weekend relationship for 10yrs and believe me, in the end it really gets too much!!
We arrived at an impass whereby i wanted her to move to the Netherlands and she wanted to stay in Belgium so really, love has to be the deciding factor!!
Its a shame it didnt work in the end but at least we tried - and so i would say to anyone wanting a long distance relationship to think about the complications first but certainly, follow your heart in the end!!
Its worth it!
We arrived at an impass whereby i wanted her to move to the Netherlands and she wanted to stay in Belgium so really, love has to be the deciding factor!!
Its a shame it didnt work in the end but at least we tried - and so i would say to anyone wanting a long distance relationship to think about the complications first but certainly, follow your heart in the end!!
Its worth it!
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tinymac: i would say to anyone wanting a long distance relationship to think about the complications first but certainly, follow your heart in the end!!
Good advice, I always think of the complications first... If I'm smitten with someone from far away, I think realistically we could possibly meet even if it meant going without food for a year or getting into debt to fund it. But, then I think of all the what if's ... such as what if we fell madly in lustfull love and didn't get to see each other for months or years. Or what if he wanted me to go live there and how I'd cope with being in a different country to my son and my friends Maybe, my thoughts on this will change in time though ------ This thread is Archived ------
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