Is there any hope for hopeless romantics? I know that no one is perfect, and it's so silly for a tomboy to be saying this... But I really am a hopeless romantic...
It's so hard to find someone of the same feeling...and it feels so constrictive, keeping these thoughts and feelings in...maybe I'm just whining. Yeah, I'm sure I am.
Electricalstar: Is there any hope for hopeless romantics? I know that no one is perfect, and it's so silly for a tomboy to be saying this... But I really am a hopeless romantic...
It's so hard to find someone of the same feeling...and it feels so constrictive, keeping these thoughts and feelings in...maybe I'm just whining. Yeah, I'm sure I am.
Hi, Electric! Not to rain on your parade, but what do you mean by "hopeless romantic," and why do you think it's a good thing to be? It doesn't exactly have a positive ring to it ("hopeless" not generally being a positive aspect to a thing or situation).
Ambrose2007: Hi, Electric! Not to rain on your parade, but what do you mean by "hopeless romantic," and why do you think it's a good thing to be? It doesn't exactly have a positive ring to it ("hopeless" not generally being a positive aspect to a thing or situation).
Oh no, I just mean that I'm a huge romantic at heart...it just doesn't surface all the time because of my tomboyishness...I just mean that it's kinda lonely sometimes, being such a romantic and not having anyone to share it with. And it seems that sometimes that it's really difficult being such a softie at heart... And there's no cure for me.
Electricalstar: Is there any hope for hopeless romantics? I know that no one is perfect, and it's so silly for a tomboy to be saying this... But I really am a hopeless romantic...
It's so hard to find someone of the same feeling...and it feels so constrictive, keeping these thoughts and feelings in...maybe I'm just whining. Yeah, I'm sure I am.
its ok to whine every now and then. But hold on because I promise its not hopeless. Romance is still out there and could be around the next corner. you just have to believe!
Yes, the sense of hopelessness you feel is what I feel many times. You want to share, enjoy, cuddle, everything in between...but no one is there at the moment this inclination occurs. I imagine it would be especially strong for tomboys, because you are used to the value of company, regardless of physical attritribute.
I feel that too. On the one hand, I know it's not hopeless, but on the second hidden hand I FEEL that it is. So, dealing with it is a struggle against what I feel and what I believe.
That struggle is good. After all, you're here, aren't you? You've received replies from well-mannered, understanding people, right? Hang in there. You seriously, no matter how cliche it sounds, have absolutely no idea where you'll be five years from now, and it may be so good that you will forget you ever posted this
Yes, the sense of hopelessness you feel is what I feel many times. You want to share, enjoy, cuddle, everything in between...but no one is there at the moment this inclination occurs. I imagine it would be especially strong for tomboys, because you are used to the value of company, regardless of physical attritribute.
I feel that too. On the one hand, I know it's not hopeless, but on the second hidden hand I FEEL that it is. So, dealing with it is a struggle against what I feel and what I believe.
That struggle is good. After all, you're here, aren't you? You've received replies from well-mannered, understanding people, right? Hang in there. You seriously, no matter how cliche it sounds, have absolutely no idea where you'll be five years from now, and it may be so good that you will forget you ever posted this
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I know that no one is perfect, and it's so silly for a tomboy to be saying this...
But I really am a hopeless romantic...
It's so hard to find someone of the same feeling...and it feels so constrictive, keeping these thoughts and feelings in...maybe I'm just whining.
Yeah, I'm sure I am.