Why are women so much more attracted to the "Bad Boy"?? I've heard statements like..."I've already been through my bad boy phase","no more bad boys for me" or "I want someone faithful this time" Yet, the good guy still looses out 10 out of 10 times......Am I wrong?
I have always said you could line 10 guys up in a row and 9 of them be the greatest men on this earth and I would fall in love with the a#$%#hole. But, lately I have been trying to break that pattern. So I have spent almost 4 months now, talking to one man, who seems to be wonderful. But in that 4 months, I have had one phone call and met him once for about an hour. He still emails and IMs like he is totally interested, but I need human contact. So, do you think the good guys might hold back a little too long and us women, get confused by the signals.
cutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA7,772 posts
I used to be like a dog,always sniffing around a**hole.Now I have learned my lesson because I am soo not putting up with anymore crap.Bad boys may be attractive but they are for short term fun only.
Hmmmm, i guess if you break it down, shyness could have it's root in a lack of self confidence and everyone knows, that no self confidence is very unattractive, sorry, but true... I'm not saying this guy has no self confidence, but he not taking the initiative here makes your sub consious pick up those signals. So I would say Yes, assuming of course, that most women want the guy to make the first move!!
Oooops, sorry..:) Like TowerPrincess, I haven't gone through all the old threads or have been here long enough to know better..... I'll do my due dilegence next go around....
Well, sometimes it's not our fault... If I'm in a 20 mile radius of a "bad boy", they seem to come to me as though I'm some kind of magnet. They start out "good boys" but end up "bad boys".. Just my luck.
I don't know about the other women but I myself am not into those "bad boys" Never have and never will. I prefer a real manly man. A man who isn't afraid to show his feelings. I don't want a big baby either mind you lol but I want a man who will respect a woman like she should be respected and treat everyone with the respect they need.
Doesn't really matter about old threads...I am pretty new here also....what counts the most is now....Bad Boys...may seem to rule.....but dogs druel.....
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