ARE THERE ANY REAL WOMEN LEFT? (396)
LBGuy777: So, children must be constantly coddled (rather than raised to respect adults privacy , know children have limits and admire your mate's position as your S.O.) and your mate "can just look after himself?"
I can't see any reason in the world why a man would want to date you with that kind of thinking.
I can't see any reason in the world why a man would want to date you with that kind of thinking.
Oh course i would expect a potential mate to look after him self i would be his mate not his mother. You seem to want some one to mother you good luck
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Portiea: On what planet?
This is the problem here. Women do not show men the same affection women want to "receive" from men. You focus on her, she focuses on shopping and spoiling the kids which grow up to be what they call "Millenials." Spoiled brats that don't respect others and don't respect boundaries because "mommy" never gave them any when they where young.
It is no wonder divorces occur daily these days.
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LBGuy777: So, children must be constantly coddled (rather than raised to respect adults privacy , know children have limits and admire your mate's position as your S.O.) and your mate "can just look after himself?"
I can't see any reason in the world why a man would want to date you with that kind of thinking.
I can't see any reason in the world why a man would want to date you with that kind of thinking.
You do not come into someone's life and supercede their relationship with their children. You develop a loving partnership with them over time. You develop a loving relationship with their children. In time, you bond, probably through marriage. When you bond with a person who has children, you are as much taking on the children as you are your partner. Of course, one who does this has to like children. I don't think you like children. So it's probably best you look for women who don't have children. Probably women who are sterile, just to be on the safe side.
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PILIPALA: Oh course i would expect a potential mate to look after him self i would be his mate not his mother. You seem to want some one to mother you good luck
Fallacious argument. You seem to think you can enter into a relationship with a man , give nothing or very little (with the claim that he wants a mother) , and expect him to stay. That thinking is why you are here.
It's not unusual though. Most women think "romance" is all about the man doing things for "them." A bunch of takers.
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LBGuy777: This is the problem here. Women do not show men the same affection women want to "receive" from men. You focus on her, she focuses on shopping and spoiling the kids which grow up to be what they call "Millenials." Spoiled brats that don't respect others and don't respect boundaries because "mommy" never gave them any when they where young.
It is no wonder divorces occur daily these days.
It is no wonder divorces occur daily these days.
Huh?
Wow mate, u still living in the Middle ages or something?
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LBGuy777: This is the problem here. Women do not show men the same affection women want to "receive" from men. You focus on her, she focuses on shopping and spoiling the kids which grow up to be what they call "Millenials." Spoiled brats that don't respect others and don't respect boundaries because "mommy" never gave them any when they where young.
It is no wonder divorces occur daily these days.
It is no wonder divorces occur daily these days.
change your circle then
I suppose you are a free man. If it's not your fault, the world is big and diversed
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kurzita: Huh?
Wow mate, u still living in the Middle ages or something?
Wow mate, u still living in the Middle ages or something?
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Portiea: You do not come into someone's life and supercede their relationship with their children. You develop a loving partnership with them over time. You develop a loving relationship with their children. In time, you bond, probably through marriage. When you bond with a person who has children, you are as much taking on the children as you are your partner. Of course, one who does this has to like children. I don't think you like children. So it's probably best you look for women who don't have children. Probably women who are sterile, just to be on the safe side.
No, you develop a loving relationship with the "woman." Otherwise there is no reason in being there. I don't date you so I can develop a relationship with your kids. I date you to date YOU. Also, if they have children that is there responsibility not yours. They had them, you didn't. This shows that it is women who want to be babied. Have people take care of them and their kids. Become daddy and take the kids out while the woman give little to nothing in return.
Here's an idea: Stop running around looking for a "provider" and start looking for a "mate." Treat him the way, WOMEN expect to be treated. Keep children in a child's place and watch the relationship flourish.
I'm done with you because you just DON'T get it.
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Portiea: It all sounds very Victorian to me.
LOL
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LBGuy777: Fallacious argument. You seem to think you can enter into a relationship with a man , give nothing or very little (with the claim that he wants a mother) , and expect him to stay. That thinking is why you are here.
It's not unusual though. Most women think "romance" is all about the man doing things for "them." A bunch of takers.
It's not unusual though. Most women think "romance" is all about the man doing things for "them." A bunch of takers.
Oooooooo.....
This really sounds like u got a chip on your shoulder.....
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kurzita: Huh?
Wow mate, u still living in the Middle ages or something?
Wow mate, u still living in the Middle ages or something?
Actually equality, millenials and skyrocketing divorce rates are very modern. Focusing only on caring for women and their kids is what is outdated. You're stuck in the past "mate."
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LBGuy777: This is the problem here. Women do not show men the same affection women want to "receive" from men. You focus on her, she focuses on shopping and spoiling the kids which grow up to be what they call "Millenials." Spoiled brats that don't respect others and don't respect boundaries because "mommy" never gave them any when they where young.
It is no wonder divorces occur daily these days.
It is no wonder divorces occur daily these days.
What a lot resentment towards women you seem to have. You seemed to think all the bad things in a relationship are down to the women i would say its 50/50.
I too recommend you don't have children. I raised my son who is one the nicest caring people i know and no way spoilt . And yes i did give him loads of attention which is why he turned out so well adjusted. I also give any one in my life my full attention be it friends or mates. Its all about balance
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LBGuy777: No, you develop a loving relationship with the "woman." Otherwise there is no reason in being there. I don't date you so I can develop a relationship with your kids. I date you to date YOU. Also, if they have children that is there responsibility not yours. They had them, you didn't. This shows that it is women who want to be babied. Have people take care of them and their kids. Become daddy and take the kids out while the woman give little to nothing in return.
Here's an idea: Stop running around looking for a "provider" and start looking for a "mate." Treat him the way, WOMEN expect to be treated. Keep children in a child's place and watch the relationship flourish.
I'm done with you because you just DON'T get it.
Here's an idea: Stop running around looking for a "provider" and start looking for a "mate." Treat him the way, WOMEN expect to be treated. Keep children in a child's place and watch the relationship flourish.
I'm done with you because you just DON'T get it.
You are so special, that's why we don't get! Shhhhhhhhhht, you didn't say you're special, I DID
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LBGuy777: No, you develop a loving relationship with the "woman." Otherwise there is no reason in being there. I don't date you so I can develop a relationship with your kids. I date you to date YOU. Also, if they have children that is there responsibility not yours. They had them, you didn't. This shows that it is women who want to be babied. Have people take care of them and their kids. Become daddy and take the kids out while the woman give little to nothing in return.
Here's an idea: Stop running around looking for a "provider" and start looking for a "mate." Treat him the way, WOMEN expect to be treated. Keep children in a child's place and watch the relationship flourish.
I'm done with you because you just DON'T get it.
Here's an idea: Stop running around looking for a "provider" and start looking for a "mate." Treat him the way, WOMEN expect to be treated. Keep children in a child's place and watch the relationship flourish.
I'm done with you because you just DON'T get it.
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LBGuy777: Actually equality, millenials and skyrocketing divorce rates are very modern. Focusing only on caring for women and their kids is what is outdated. You're stuck in the past "mate."
Caring for women and thier kids?????
What exactly are u on about here.....still can't get what u are so angry about!
U don't like wo0men who stand on thier own two feet?
U don't like women who have kids?
U like women who flutter thier eyes at u all day and bring u slipers in the eving?
or what?
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LBGuy777: Fallacious argument. You seem to think you can enter into a relationship with a man , give nothing or very little (with the claim that he wants a mother) , and expect him to stay. That thinking is why you are here.
It's not unusual though. Most women think "romance" is all about the man doing things for "them." A bunch of takers.
It's not unusual though. Most women think "romance" is all about the man doing things for "them." A bunch of takers.
I don't need a man mate i have always been independent and as for mothering a man i would run a mile if thats what they expected.
I am perfectly cable of looking after my self thank you very much.
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PILIPALA: What a lot resentment towards women you seem to have. You seemed to think all the bad things in a relationship are down to the women i would say its 50/50.
I too recommend you don't have children. I raised my son who is one the nicest caring people i know and no way spoilt . And yes i did give him loads of attention which is why he turned out so well adjusted. I also give any one in my life my full attention be it friends or mates. Its all about balance
I too recommend you don't have children. I raised my son who is one the nicest caring people i know and no way spoilt . And yes i did give him loads of attention which is why he turned out so well adjusted. I also give any one in my life my full attention be it friends or mates. Its all about balance
Resentment towards little girls playing the role of woman. I love real women. Also, there is no way I can verify your son's behavior and over coddling a child while telling a man he can "take care of himself" has nothing to do with "balance." You fail.
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LBGuy777: Resentment towards little girls playing the role of woman. I love real women. Also, there is no way I can verify your son's behavior and over coddling a child while telling a man he can "take care of himself" has nothing to do with "balance." You fail.
What i fail your test ? Don't make me laugh you want a Stepford wife not a real woman
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So, children must be constantly coddled (rather than raised to respect adults privacy , know children have limits and admire your mate's position as your S.O.) and your mate "can just look after himself?"
I can't see any reason in the world why a man would want to date you with that kind of thinking.