Children should be seen and not heard so please silence yourself LB and get in your proper place.....
Another hint...Blood is thicker than water...Children are blood....you are water....so you will always come second to a child in a relationship...deal with it or don't date women with children...simple!!!!!!!!!
Hugz_n_Kissez: Children should be seen and not heard so please silence yourself LB and get in your proper place..... Another hint...Blood is thicker than water...Children are blood....you are water....so you will always come second to a child in a relationship...deal with it or don't date women with children...simple!!!!!!!!!
Wow. You told me person that spells "Hugs" with a "z." Blood is thicker than water? Whoa deep. Let's bring up some more illogical, outdated beliefs while we are at it. How about "If you break a mirror you get seven years bad luck"?
Or "Don't let a black cat cross your path"? We can go on for years with the inherently stupid, extremely illogical sayings people live their lives by. You know what is next right? You....fail.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
LBGuy777: Wow. You told me person that spells "Hugs" with a "z." Blood is thicker than water? Whoa deep. Let's bring up some more illogical, outdated beliefs while we are at it. How about "If you break a mirror you get seven years bad luck"?
Or "Don't let a black cat cross your path"? We can go on for years with the inherently stupid, extremely illogical sayings people live their lives by. You know what is next right? You....fail.
LBGuy777: Wow. You told me person that spells "Hugs" with a "z." Blood is thicker than water? Whoa deep. Let's bring up some more illogical, outdated beliefs while we are at it. How about "If you break a mirror you get seven years bad luck"?
Or "Don't let a black cat cross your path"? We can go on for years with the inherently stupid, extremely illogical sayings people live their lives by. You know what is next right? You....fail.
Sounds like a spoiled little brat tossing around that "you fail" badge to me. Oh fyi smart guy my spelling SUX too. Deal with it...mkay...
LBGuy777: Wow. You told me person that spells "Hugs" with a "z." Blood is thicker than water? Whoa deep. Let's bring up some more illogical, outdated beliefs while we are at it. How about "If you break a mirror you get seven years bad luck"?
Or "Don't let a black cat cross your path"? We can go on for years with the inherently stupid, extremely illogical sayings people live their lives by. You know what is next right? You....fail.
We'll see who fails when you're sitting there all alone with YOUR outdated beliefs....or the woman who puts a man ahead of her children cause you will deserve each other...actually there are a few in prison who have even killed their children for the sake of a man...maybe you could call a few of them up!!!!!!!
LBGuy777: Wow. You told me person that spells "Hugs" with a "z." Blood is thicker than water? Whoa deep. Let's bring up some more illogical, outdated beliefs while we are at it. How about "If you break a mirror you get seven years bad luck"?
Or "Don't let a black cat cross your path"? We can go on for years with the inherently stupid, extremely illogical sayings people live their lives by. You know what is next right? You....fail.
is there even an ounce of kindness or respect within you???
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
RobbieM: If a couple have kids, then their main duty should be mutual support and bring their child up in the best possible way, filling the child with bright ideas, hope and inspiring it through education so it has a happy and fruitful life.
Kids arent an accessory and should be put first, or they as the parents they shouldn't have them.
I put my child before my own wishes and hopes and i pay for it with every waking moment i have.
It's a pity others don't have the same outlook.
TY Robbie, the voice of reason.
And yes LB, there are voices on here. If you can't hear them, it's cause you don't know how to listen.
cristina: Maybe they think that way because they don't have children...
Nice words Robbie
Nice words aren't always correct words. I would rather be truthful and trustworthy than be nice. We have alot of "nice' politicians that are screwing people over everyday Ms. Cristina.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
LBGuy777: Nice words aren't always correct words. I would rather be truthful and trustworthy than be nice. We have alot of "nice' politicians that are screwing people over everyday Ms. Cristina.
LBGuy777: You were on a roll then you teetered off. I will now correct you.
Making "coddling children" a main focus is a recipe for disaster in any relationship. Children are to be "raised" not obssessed over. In order for the children to be raised to be upstanding citizens both parents are required which means the relationship must be strong. The way to make a relationship strong is to keep a special place for your significant other that noone else in the world has access to. That includes children. That does not mean don't love your children that just means the spot you have for your S.O. can never be occupied by children. Why? They are "children", not adults. Moreover placing "kids" in the place of a mate is sick. Children are supposed to be taught boundaries. The first boundaries they should acknowledge is the one that separates adults from kids.
We are now seeing the result of a society that places no value on the S.O. while being obssessive over children. The result is children failing in droves in school, dysfunctional homes, fathers not being present, mothers lying and scheming for support, etc.
Know the difference between MOTHERhood and WOMANhood. Period.
but how can you dare speak of motherhood and womanhood when your not even a father? Trying to give advice when you havent walked in the shoes of a parent is sorta funny dont ya think???
you come across as a child who was desperate for love and affection in your younger years and now feel you need to demand it in your ADULThood. lil odd
LBGuy777: You were on a roll then you teetered off. I will now correct you.
Making "coddling children" a main focus is a recipe for disaster in any relationship. Children are to be "raised" not obssessed over. In order for the children to be raised to be upstanding citizens both parents are required which means the relationship must be strong. The way to make a relationship strong is to keep a special place for your significant other that noone else in the world has access to. That includes children. That does not mean don't love your children that just means the spot you have for your S.O. can never be occupied by children. Why? They are "children", not adults. Moreover placing "kids" in the place of a mate is sick. Children are supposed to be taught boundaries. The first boundaries they should acknowledge is the one that separates adults from kids.
We are now seeing the result of a society that places no value on the S.O. while being obssessive over children. The result is children failing in droves in school, dysfunctional homes, fathers not being present, mothers lying and scheming for support, etc.
Know the difference between MOTHERhood and WOMANhood. Period.
They are also suppose to be loved and nurtured and no shouldn't be placed above or below your SO but loved and nurtured by both..It shouldn't be a choice and anyone that turns it into a choice or an aove or below thing has alot to learn about what it means to have children and a family....together...couple..family...doesn't mean choosing one over the other and it doesn't mean creating division where none should exist but it means total love and acceptance of your SO and their children together not seperate!!!!!!!!!
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Another hint...Blood is thicker than water...Children are blood....you are water....so you will always come second to a child in a relationship...deal with it or don't date women with children...simple!!!!!!!!!