alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
LBGuy777: Know the difference between MOTHERhood and WOMANhood. Period.
What would you know of motherhood or womanhood? For your information, they usually reside in the same body, and can't be separated completely, nor should they be. A woman shouldn't shut off being a mother for a man, and a mother shouldn't shut off being a woman for her child.
When you've had some experience with parenthood, then you can get back to us with your wonderful advice about how children should be raised. Of course a child shouldn't be put in the place of a mate. But at no time can a mate take the place of one's children. If a woman has children, don't expect her to ever place your wants above her children's needs. Until they are grown and should take care of their own needs, and even then there will be times when a man will need to take back seat to them. A real man will understand this and appreciate it, because he feels the same way about his children.
LBGuy777: You have no idea whether I do or do not. You are simply going off what I may have placed in the profile. Aren't you supposed to be working?
So your profile is a lie? What else is a lie? Your age. You pretty much discredit ANYTHING you say or have said. By your own logic you could just be a high school kid who picked up a psych book and is doing some study on single sites? Try working on the truth a little and it can make your own arguments more valid in a REAL LIFE situation.
alabamabebe: What would you know of motherhood or womanhood? For your information, they usually reside in the same body, and can't be separated completely, nor should they be. A woman shouldn't shut off being a mother for a man, and a mother shouldn't shut off being a woman for her child.
When you've had some experience with parenthood, then you can get back to us with your wonderful advice about how children should be raised. Of course a child shouldn't be put in the place of a mate. But at no time can a mate take the place of one's children. If a woman has children, don't expect her to ever place your wants above her children's needs. Until they are grown and should take care of their own needs, and even then there will be times when a man will need to take back seat to them. A real man will understand this and appreciate it, because he feels the same way about his children.
All things must be placed in context. You suffer from an inability to know the difference between the two. There are places for WOMANhood and places for MOTHERhood. Perhaps this is why you are here.
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
LBGuy777: At this time I would like to inform you that you are incorrect in believing I am getting my information from "Freud's ideas." Care to try again?
Not really, "Road to Predition" is far more interesting.
Besides, your postulation, argument and reason are completely undermined by your use of language, as you well know!
If you want to argue for arguments sakes i don't need to compete.Stick to your issue and you might stand a better chance of making your case, as your interpersonal skills and interpretation and analysis are a bit below par.
Psychology is interesting though, so at least your reading something worthwhile.
LBGuy777: You are not a real woman so the point is moot. Move on already.
DUDE hold up. Lets get back to this whole "maybe my profile is a lie..." issue. Seems like you got in a corner here and you want to run away. Which is it. You are married/have been married, have or have not ever had children. It really will help or discredit you on which one is the truth. Do we listen and believe your profound wisdom as someone who has been down that road or are you just spouting words someone else wrote down...??
RobbieM: Not really, "Road to Predition" is far more interesting.
Besides, your postulation, argument and reason are completely undermined by your use of language, as you well know!
If you want to argue for arguments sakes i don't need to compete.Stick to your issue and you might stand a better chance of making your case, as your interpersonal skills and interpretation and analysis are a bit below par.
Psychology is interesting though, so at least your reading something worthwhile.
You appear to still be "in the middle of" something you claimed to want to avoid. You people can't tell the truth if your life depended on it. Moreover, you post is quite empty other than the expected pseudo-intellectual drivel, unrelated references and Ad Hominem insults.
DadofDucks: DUDE hold up. Lets get back to this whole "maybe my profile is a lie..." issue. Seems like you got in a corner here and you want to run away. Which is it. You are married/have been married, have or have not ever had children. It really will help or discredit you on which one is the truth. Do we listen and believe your profound wisdom as someone who has been down that road or are you just spouting words someone else wrote down...??
Whoa, he's on me.
What the hell: I also like long walks next to the water in the summertime. Send me chocolates or you get no play.
LBGuy777: You appear to still be "in the middle of" something you claimed to want to avoid. You people can't tell the truth if your life depended on it. Moreover, you post is quite empty other than the expected pseudo-intellectual drivel, unrelated references and Ad Hominem insults.
Better luck next time.
its ok LBGuy that you dont understand big words, often times I have to use google to look up robbies choice of words too...
actually its more fun watching you try to go head to head (word for word) with him...
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hey thanks for teaching us what a "real man" is not...