Anger (13)

May 8, 2008 9:48 PM CST Anger
breezee
breezeebreezeeathens, Attica Greece20 Threads 1,136 Posts
What makes you angry?? And why??

Where do your deepest feelings of anger come from???

How do you cope with your anger??

Do you think anger can be a useful emotion, sometimes??

conversing very mad uh oh sigh very mad
May 8, 2008 11:26 PM CST Anger
arrrrggggghhhhhh

I get angry when I see someone being abused either verbally of physically, I hate it when people use other people, i hate it when people are left defencelss, Idon't know whether that's anger or frustration.

how do I cope? Idon't know. Help if I can, when not... then I get angrier.


can it be useful?

yes... in my case, it is... I think I'm lazy so if something sets the sparks, then I get going.
May 9, 2008 1:11 AM CST Anger
wedward
wedwardwedwardlinz, Upper Austria Austria680 Threads 7,252 Posts
people who delight in hurting other people people who are false, , if i feel any degree of anger coming on i simply go for a walk, and no anger is a weakness not a strength
breezee: What makes you angry?? And why??

Where do your deepest feelings of anger come from???

How do you cope with your anger??

Do you think anger can be a useful emotion, sometimes??
cool professor
May 9, 2008 1:20 AM CST Anger
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
breezee: What makes you angry?? And why??

Where do your deepest feelings of anger come from???

How do you cope with your anger??

Do you think anger can be a useful emotion, sometimes??


Upsetting other people makes me angry with myself - then I get depressed and feel totally miserable.

How do I cope with my anger - not very well, but I cope enough not to be suicidal.

Anger a useful emotion? Very rarely......... I guess the only time I can think it is useful is in a life or death situation when adrenalin helps you do more than you thought physically possible to either save your own life or the lives of others.

Otherwise anger is negative.
May 17, 2008 7:25 AM CST Anger
innocent_single
innocent_singleinnocent_singleYAMUNA NAGAR, Haryana India1 Threads 4 Posts
breezee: What makes you angry?? And why??

Where do your deepest feelings of anger come from???

How do you cope with your anger??

Do you
think anger can be a useful emotion, sometimes??

lie is making me angry when some one lieng. when human hate human then i get angry. when somone making fun of love or tring 2 heart spiritual feelings thn i got angry. ya some time ager is a useful weapon.ert5ytyy
May 17, 2008 7:45 AM CST Anger
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
i think people generally feel angry in situations they have no control over. and sure, it can be a force for good.conversing
May 17, 2008 2:11 PM CST Anger
Elley
ElleyElleyCadiz, Andalusia Spain131 Threads 1 Polls 2,808 Posts
I very rarely get angry since I learnt to be assertive instead, this stops situations getting as far as anger. When I do lose it I,m not nice,not at all nice, so be very very carefuldevil devil devil
May 17, 2008 2:30 PM CST Anger
Anger is a Luxury FEW can afford.

Anger:"A dubious Luxury"

If something hurts us,and we are Sore,we are in the Wrong also.

Doesn't mean I never get angry,but when I do something happens within my Spirit as well and I don't necessarily like it.
That's why I say that Anger is A Luxury few can afford,because part of it is always directed against oneself.
If I point at someone ,some Fingers point back at me.smile tip hat
May 17, 2008 2:41 PM CST Anger
Elley
ElleyElleyCadiz, Andalusia Spain131 Threads 1 Polls 2,808 Posts
Conrad73: Anger is a Luxury FEW can afford.

Anger:"A dubious Luxury"

If something hurts us,and we are Sore,we are in the Wrong also.

Doesn't mean I never get angry,but when I do something happens within my Spirit as well and I don't necessarily like it.
That's why I say that Anger is A Luxury few can afford,because part of it is always directed against oneself.
If I point at someone ,some Fingers point back at me.


So so true. I do not like angry people, ergo when I am angry I do not like me.frustrated
May 17, 2008 4:09 PM CST Anger
Lionheart1211
Lionheart1211Lionheart1211Malta, Majjistral Malta5 Threads 152 Posts
breezee: What makes you angry?? And why??

Where do your deepest feelings of anger come from???

How do you cope with your anger??

Do you think anger can be a useful emotion, sometimes??
Inconsiderate people. People who have no respect for other people's feelings. Rejection
May 17, 2008 4:40 PM CST Anger
rusty_knight
rusty_knightrusty_knightGozo, Malta175 Threads 2 Polls 6,840 Posts
Elley: I very rarely get angry since I learnt to be assertive instead, this stops situations getting as far as anger. When I do lose it I,m not nice,not at all nice, so be very very careful


Assertive is a wonderful place to be!

Being assertive means recognising the other perosn's point of view PROVIDED they accept your right to a view..............

The extremes to being assertive are being 'apologetic' and being 'aggressive'

Apologetic means you are putting the other person's needs above you own (bad idea as it ultimately causes resentment)

Being aggressive only pisses the other person off......if you wish to accomplish you goal without the use of brute force:

get that person on your side as fast as possible!

grin
May 17, 2008 5:00 PM CST Anger
Anger born of Fear!conversing
May 17, 2008 10:40 PM CST Anger
wedward
wedwardwedwardlinz, Upper Austria Austria680 Threads 7,252 Posts
Conrad73: Anger born of Fear!
-- the only thing born of fear is fear anger is a man made ego trip
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