Things you never say (57)
been there done that many times
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morganlee: seriously, i saw the bill to get the payment authorised, she only worked part time and
they had messed up her benefits so she didn't have any money, i felt sorry for her.
they had messed up her benefits so she didn't have any money, i felt sorry for her.
I missed my gas bill and missed the gas guy. I still took a shower and washed dishes, in cold water. I could be homeless, and I'd still be clean. My dad was a truck driver. I learned how to wash from a sink, as a kid.
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gangel: For many people is hard to express their feelings.They don't say in a direct way things like:''I love you'' or ''I don't like you''.They are trying to be nice, polite and not to look funny if they say exactly what they mean.
There are a lot of situations that its just not possible to tell the things you know.This could be because you are absolutely sure that you could hurt somebody.
So what are those things or words you would never say to someone??
There are a lot of situations that its just not possible to tell the things you know.This could be because you are absolutely sure that you could hurt somebody.
So what are those things or words you would never say to someone??
My friends father was like that.He didn't know how to say sorry,so when he did wrong he'd leave a box of donuts on the kitchen table the next morning or something.It was his way of saying sorry.
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I tend to be brutally honest. I either like you or I don't and I will always say such if asked. I've never been one to beat around the bush.
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AS FOR DISCLOSURE,
I think it's important to make peace to someone you might have harmed,but to disclose something that might cause further damage to someone who has no awareness they've been wronged,then I don't think it should be disclosed to that person always.
Sometimes we want to get the feeling of guilt off our back,but we can't get rid of our guilt and lay it on the hands of someone who has no AWARENESS FOR a wrong we did.
I THINK IN SOME SITUATIONS it's better to disclose our wrong to someone who understands,yet won't be affected.
Good QUESTION....BUT I think it depends from case to case.
I think it's important to make peace to someone you might have harmed,but to disclose something that might cause further damage to someone who has no awareness they've been wronged,then I don't think it should be disclosed to that person always.
Sometimes we want to get the feeling of guilt off our back,but we can't get rid of our guilt and lay it on the hands of someone who has no AWARENESS FOR a wrong we did.
I THINK IN SOME SITUATIONS it's better to disclose our wrong to someone who understands,yet won't be affected.
Good QUESTION....BUT I think it depends from case to case.
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I usually say what i mean unless I don't want to.
I've told Bush i don't like him plenty of times and he is still alive.
I've told Bush i don't like him plenty of times and he is still alive.
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Oh yes pleease .. I would love some Brussels sprouts.
I would never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never
say that.
I would never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never
say that.
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excuse me but those pantsmakes your butt look big
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zdeadmanwalking: excuse me but those pants
makes your butt look big
makes your butt look big
good idea
u better never say that to smb if u really care abt ur life 
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hey a woman wants you to be honestno matter what than if she wants to ask you
if those pants makes her butt look butt
if you said yes won't that be being honest
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morganlee: When i worked in England i had a member of staff that smelt awful and had to talk to her about it. that
i found quite difficult to do tactfully.
i found quite difficult to do tactfully.
I did that with three workmates. Each time i pulled them aside first and said it with a smile...and a low voice of course. I did that because i wasn't sure if they had a problem or were just unhygienic. I didn't want to assume. I normally start with " Hey girl, what deodorant do you use?".....
One of them never spoke to me again (middle aged), the other two are kenyans and took it well and even said thanks. One even got back to me with how her new deo was working wonders. We laughed about it.
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zdeadmanwalking: hey a woman wants you to be honest
no matter what than if she wants to ask you
if those pants makes her butt look butt
if you said yes won't that be being honest
no matter what than if she wants to ask you
if those pants makes her butt look butt
if you said yes won't that be being honest
My male friends are dead honest. Whenever they tell me my face looks 'fat'
i normally repond with a "Thanks, that's one croissant off my list!" 
I think it's quite ok. for people around you to mention the changes they see in you. Nothing wrong with that and depending on how close you two are, injecting some humorous response would be ok....
Now, if a stranger came up to me and called me 'fat', he would surely have a terribly bad day, when i am done with him.
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lusciousmile: My male friends are dead honest. Whenever they tell me my face looks 'fat' i normally repond with a "Thanks, that's one croissant off my list!"
I think it's quite ok. for people around you to mention the changes they see in you. Nothing wrong with that and depending on how close you two are, injecting some humorous response would be ok.... Now, if a stranger came up to me and called me 'fat', he would surely have a terribly bad day, when i am done with him.
I think it's quite ok. for people around you to mention the changes they see in you. Nothing wrong with that and depending on how close you two are, injecting some humorous response would be ok.... Now, if a stranger came up to me and called me 'fat', he would surely have a terribly bad day, when i am done with him.
Have a good day Slim. I'm off to work
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Never say "Never" 
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Hello,
Yes I have problem with expressing my feelings.
I prefere action than talkingso I almost never say: I love you - it sounds trivial for me.
If I don't like somebody I just avoid meeting and I'm reserved.
Yes I have problem with expressing my feelings.
I prefere action than talkingso I almost never say: I love you - it sounds trivial for me.
If I don't like somebody I just avoid meeting and I'm reserved.
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I'm the kind of fool who says stuff and then stands my ground waiting for the backlash. I would never do it with the intention of hurting anyone, but do believe in plain speaking and honesty.
Sometimes I couch the "does my as look big in this" with "I liked you better in the other outfit" or something, or lace it with humour, because there are ways of telling the truth and being kind too.
I never avoid saying things though.
Sometimes I couch the "does my as look big in this" with "I liked you better in the other outfit" or something, or lace it with humour, because there are ways of telling the truth and being kind too.
I never avoid saying things though.
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gingerb: I'm the kind of fool who says stuff and then stands my ground waiting for the backlash. I would never do it with the intention of hurting anyone, but do believe in plain speaking and honesty.
Sometimes I couch the "does my as look big in this" with "I liked you better in the other outfit" or something, or lace it with humour, because there are ways of telling the truth and being kind too.
I never avoid saying things though.
Sometimes I couch the "does my as look big in this" with "I liked you better in the other outfit" or something, or lace it with humour, because there are ways of telling the truth and being kind too.
I never avoid saying things though.
are you missing an "s" somewhere in this text, Sweetie? if no, I can't tell what you mean. If yes, I can't tell either cause I gotta see it first
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airliner: are you missing an "s" somewhere in this text, Sweetie? if no, I can't tell what you mean. If yes, I can't tell either cause I gotta see it first
An "s" is the least of what I am missing sometimes..........
How you doin?
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gingerb: An "s" is the least of what I am missing sometimes..........
How you doin?
How you doin?
i dunno yet
it is too early (7:28 AM) to tell it is the least of what she is missing.....hmmmmm
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they had messed up her benefits so she didn't have any money, i felt sorry for her.