Why are a lot of women shallow, pretentious, materialistic and judgemental. (42)

Why do some (not all, please note...) women always judge a book by its cover? Why do some live by this credo?

I have found that some women, again not all,seem to soley focus on the exterior and therefore not finding the interior...

I may sound like sour grapes here, I don't mean to, it's just that it's very frustrating.

I would love to hear what others may think on this.

Drop me a line either here or at rumbabear@hotmail.com

Thanks for taking the time to read this

Regards

Rumba

At times I find its probly in their genes or the
way they are bought up by their parents/family.

WAY too many girls want the tall slim arsehole type
of guy then want to change him and suprised
when that type of guy treats her like crap and
cheats on her.

I dont think that its just women that are shallow etc etc. It goes both ways. Some people just dont want to look deeper into a person to see who they REALLY are - they just want a looker whos maybe good in bed or gives out the money etc.. who knows.

I've struck men who are shallow and immature with my disability. Years ago I was seeing a business guy. We got on really well, and he didnt seem to care that I used crutches or the wheelchair. Then I lost my leg. Suddenly I wasnt the 'right look' for him.

Kizzy is right, there has to be that initial phsycial attraction. Thats only human. However, its what happens after that, that is important. Looks fade and change, but personalities are there to stay more times than not.

Money, looks, body type etc. They're not the most important things in life. If someone doesnt like you for who you are or how you look, then dont take it personally (easier said than done - believe me i KNOW), but its true.

I truely think there is someone out there for everyone.

Well prince to save them? Oh yea we would all like one I personally have worked from the age of 15...........And have a little stash.....All worked for ,retired now and quite comfortable....Have too many possesions ...............have been working on that shedding possesions ..........Im heading towards the so called Golden years...Not stressed about it as have had a pretty good life.Been burnt big time along my road.....but hold no anger stress all forgiven.

good for you girl.
Yoiur life sounds like most of the rest of us.

Well not sure about that?
Seems a lot around havent forgiven and got on with it ?
Life does throw bricks sh.t......

Someone said once GET OVER IT......to me who was a gibbering mess at the time.......

I did in my own silly time and the silly time was a bloody long time.....13 years......

sez it all bro

One thing i hate most is materialistic women. And it seems "SOME AND I MEAN SOME" women work that way and it shows their double standards. Ask most women what their ideal man would be like and they'll include 'rich'. But if us fellas say we prefer good looks in a woman , we automatically are accused of being shallow..

Nothing wrong with the prince honey, if you read the end of the sentence you will see I am being cynical against men as well.
We are all victims trapped in a confused world of each of us sinking and becoming afraid so we fight to reach the surface first.
No, materialism starts with that fear, and the need for security in life. People can surround themselves with wealth and likes of money but I still manage to have to attend their accidents and funerals.
I see both sides of the coin, lets face it, we do need each other and personally I find women to be good soulful creatures and admire both their strengths and weakness's. My mother is the greatest person I know.