Hey, I've never been married, and at this rate i don't think i should hold my breathe but... I've had a few long-term relationships that have lasted a couple years but they were for the most part on and off. All I have to say is that no matter how old you are, or how long you've been with someone, feelings change. Alot of people don't get that, and they do exactly what I did to myself for 2 and a half years with this one girl, I just kept telling myself there's no one out there who's better for me or who'd like me as much as she did and I gotta tell ya, I wound up dumping her because she just didn't respect me the same way she did before. So anyway, long story short here, my advice is maybe sometimes you have to just let go, remember the good old days when y'all were in highschool flirting with every person that walked by. Sure those days may be gone but who says you can't hit a bar and meet someone who's just as sad as you??? course, don't start going after the stoned drunk ones either, just look for someone who looks like they need someone to talk to. It's not too hard, just keep your head up and remember; Life's too short to be worried about what people think of you, because... not to sound pessimistic, but everyone will forget you someday, i mean, people grow old and fade away, you know? If the whole dating shtick doesn't work out, try doing something good for yourself for a change, take a risk that you never would have taken with a wife constantly nagging you for your safety, live it up!!! That way you can say I had the balls to do THIS and you will DEFINATELY have a huge self-esteem boost, and well, ladies notice self-esteem, i think?? lol
Much love to the people of the world, cuz remember, we are all stuck on the same mudball. love ya brothers and sisters of earth.
manigratsi: Hey, I've never been married, and at this rate i don't think i should hold my breathe but... I've had a few long-term relationships that have lasted a couple years but they were for the most part on and off. All I have to say is that no matter how old you are, or how long you've been with someone, feelings change. Alot of people don't get that, and they do exactly what I did to myself for 2 and a half years with this one girl, I just kept telling myself there's no one out there who's better for me or who'd like me as much as she did and I gotta tell ya, I wound up dumping her because she just didn't respect me the same way she did before. So anyway, long story short here, my advice is maybe sometimes you have to just let go, remember the good old days when y'all were in highschool flirting with every person that walked by. Sure those days may be gone but who says you can't hit a bar and meet someone who's just as sad as you??? course, don't start going after the stoned drunk ones either, just look for someone who looks like they need someone to talk to. It's not too hard, just keep your head up and remember; Life's too short to be worried about what people think of you, because... not to sound pessimistic, but everyone will forget you someday, i mean, people grow old and fade away, you know? If the whole dating shtick doesn't work out, try doing something good for yourself for a change, take a risk that you never would have taken with a wife constantly nagging you for your safety, live it up!!! That way you can say I had the balls to do THIS and you will DEFINATELY have a huge self-esteem boost, and well, ladies notice self-esteem, i think?? lol
Much love to the people of the world, cuz remember, we are all stuck on the same mudball. love ya brothers and sisters of earth.
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