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May 16, 2008 2:45 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
I think my ex-wife wants us to get back together but i would only concider it if it was because we wanted and not for the kids
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May 16, 2008 2:47 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
I tried again a bit back...didn't work for us...others may have much better luck...
Follow your heart...conversing conversing
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May 16, 2008 2:48 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
Why did you split up in the first place? Have those issues been resolved?

Many years ago I went back to my ex husband. It lasted less than 6 months. I wish you luck.cheers
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May 16, 2008 2:51 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
bubbles69: Why did you split up in the first place? Have those issues been resolved?

Many years ago I went back to my ex husband. It lasted less than 6 months. I wish you luck.
i broke it off after i found out she was cheating on me
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May 16, 2008 3:02 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
manigratsi
manigratsimanigratsiFranklin, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 7 Posts
Hey, I've never been married, and at this rate i don't think i should hold my breathe but... I've had a few long-term relationships that have lasted a couple years but they were for the most part on and off.
All I have to say is that no matter how old you are, or how long you've been with someone, feelings change. Alot of people don't get that, and they do exactly what I did to myself for 2 and a half years with this one girl, I just kept telling myself there's no one out there who's better for me or who'd like me as much as she did and I gotta tell ya, I wound up dumping her because she just didn't respect me the same way she did before. So anyway, long story short here, my advice is maybe sometimes you have to just let go, remember the good old days when y'all were in highschool flirting with every person that walked by. Sure those days may be gone but who says you can't hit a bar and meet someone who's just as sad as you??? course, don't start going after the stoned drunk ones either, just look for someone who looks like they need someone to talk to. It's not too hard, just keep your head up and remember; Life's too short to be worried about what people think of you, because... not to sound pessimistic, but everyone will forget you someday, i mean, people grow old and fade away, you know? If the whole dating shtick doesn't work out, try doing something good for yourself for a change, take a risk that you never would have taken with a wife constantly nagging you for your safety, live it up!!! That way you can say I had the balls to do THIS and you will DEFINATELY have a huge self-esteem boost, and well, ladies notice self-esteem, i think?? lol

Much love to the people of the world, cuz remember, we are all stuck on the same mudball. love ya brothers and sisters of earth.
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May 16, 2008 3:09 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
manigratsi: Hey, I've never been married, and at this rate i don't think i should hold my breathe but... I've had a few long-term relationships that have lasted a couple years but they were for the most part on and off.
All I have to say is that no matter how old you are, or how long you've been with someone, feelings change. Alot of people don't get that, and they do exactly what I did to myself for 2 and a half years with this one girl, I just kept telling myself there's no one out there who's better for me or who'd like me as much as she did and I gotta tell ya, I wound up dumping her because she just didn't respect me the same way she did before. So anyway, long story short here, my advice is maybe sometimes you have to just let go, remember the good old days when y'all were in highschool flirting with every person that walked by. Sure those days may be gone but who says you can't hit a bar and meet someone who's just as sad as you??? course, don't start going after the stoned drunk ones either, just look for someone who looks like they need someone to talk to. It's not too hard, just keep your head up and remember; Life's too short to be worried about what people think of you, because... not to sound pessimistic, but everyone will forget you someday, i mean, people grow old and fade away, you know? If the whole dating shtick doesn't work out, try doing something good for yourself for a change, take a risk that you never would have taken with a wife constantly nagging you for your safety, live it up!!! That way you can say I had the balls to do THIS and you will DEFINATELY have a huge self-esteem boost, and well, ladies notice self-esteem, i think?? lol

Much love to the people of the world, cuz remember, we are all stuck on the same mudball. love ya brothers and sisters of earth.
your deep brother real deep
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May 16, 2008 4:00 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 180 Posts
jus_4you: i broke it off after i found out she was cheating on me


Well if you think you can trust her again, I say follow your heart. I wouldn't take back someone who cheated on me. But good luckheart wings
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May 16, 2008 4:03 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: Well if you think you can trust her again, I say follow your heart. I wouldn't take back someone who cheated on me. But good luck


Truethumbs up
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May 16, 2008 4:05 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
jus_4you: I think my ex-wife wants us to get back together but i would only concider it if it was because we wanted and not for the kids


Go for it and make sure you both believe that it will work out. Don't focus on the fears, and leave the heavy luggage behind.
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May 16, 2008 4:49 PM CST Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together
fab444
fab444fab444newbridge, Kildare Ireland1 Threads 41 Posts
well said, im impressedapplause
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