Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting???? ( Archived) (34)

May 28, 2008 3:49 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
Kaleb
KalebKalebGary, Texas USA13 Threads 149 Posts
I have been talking to someone of late from CS ........No see doesnt come to the forums......We have exchanged emails alot..............and I have called her several Times. If left up to her we would meet today laugh But is this too Quick??? Your views would be appreciated and Thank You
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May 28, 2008 3:50 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
I think it depends. If you're close enough, then why not make it soon. IF the chemistry isn't there, you haven't put months of time and effort into it.
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May 28, 2008 3:50 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
Kaleb
KalebKalebGary, Texas USA13 Threads 149 Posts
Kaleb: I have been talking to someone of late from CS ........No see doesnt come to the forums......We have exchanged emails alot..............and I have called her several Times. If left up to her we would meet today But is this too Quick??? Your views would be appreciated and Thank You


Grrrrrrr at my spelling : She doesnt come to the forums
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May 28, 2008 3:50 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
IMO, it depends on each involved...you'll both know when you're ready...conversing conversing Follow your heart
wave
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May 28, 2008 3:51 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
dcj22: I think it depends. If you're close enough, then why not make it soon. IF the chemistry isn't there, you haven't put months of time and effort into it.


I agree...thumbs up
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May 28, 2008 3:52 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Kaleb: I have been talking to someone of late from CS ........No see doesnt come to the forums......We have exchanged emails alot..............and I have called her several Times. If left up to her we would meet today But is this too Quick??? Your views would be appreciated and Thank You


If you met her on the bus or at the supermarket, instead of CS, how long would you wait?


dunno
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May 28, 2008 3:54 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
Kaleb
KalebKalebGary, Texas USA13 Threads 149 Posts
lusciousmile: If you met her on the bus or at the supermarket, instead of CS, how long would you wait?


Your right..........But i have only been talking to this lady a week or so.........And i have been burned before in the past.
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May 28, 2008 3:58 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
dcj22: I think it depends. If you're close enough, then why not make it soon. IF the chemistry isn't there, you haven't put months of time and effort into it.


That's a fair point.... and one worth bearing in mind. thumbs up
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May 28, 2008 3:59 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Kaleb: Your right..........But i have only been talking to this lady a week or so.........And i have been burned before in the past.



If you met at the supermarket, you'd still talk and email for a bit before going out, yes?

Wait until you would normally ask her on a date, or simply when YOU are comfortable with it too, Kaleb. If you do it too soon, it's less likely to work out.
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May 28, 2008 4:00 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
if the trip is less than 15 euros, no wait at all!

grin
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May 28, 2008 4:04 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
Kaleb
KalebKalebGary, Texas USA13 Threads 149 Posts
dcj22: If you met at the supermarket, you'd still talk and email for a bit before going out, yes?

Wait until you would normally ask her on a date, or simply when YOU are comfortable with it too, Kaleb. If you do it too soon, it's less likely to work out.



My point to Dana I agree..........She seems to want it to happen over night.........Maybe Iam just more cautious then she is dunno I know she is very loney and understand that also............for I too am lonely.
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May 28, 2008 4:04 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: if the trip is less than 15 euros, no wait at all!



What if he's a bus driver?


conversing
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May 28, 2008 4:06 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
Looking4Love2008
Looking4Love2008Looking4Love2008seymour, Indiana USA2 Threads 37 Posts
I wish you the best!It never hurts to ask.I have great luck on e-mails but sometimes they freak if you try to soon.They some freak if you dont.What is a man to do.frustrated
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May 28, 2008 4:07 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
Kaleb
KalebKalebGary, Texas USA13 Threads 149 Posts
cristina: if the trip is less than 15 euros, no wait at all!


laugh She Lives in Oklahoma and Iam in North East texas almost 300 miles from me she is
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May 28, 2008 4:07 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: What if he's a bus driver?


confused

i meant the me paying 15 euros for the trip.
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May 28, 2008 4:07 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristina: i meant the me paying 15 euros for the trip.


i meant me payingblushing
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May 28, 2008 4:08 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
Kaleb
KalebKalebGary, Texas USA13 Threads 149 Posts
Looking4Love2008: I wish you the best!It never hurts to ask.I have great luck on e-mails but sometimes they freak if you try to soon.They some freak if you dont.What is a man to do.


So True..........and Thanks
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May 28, 2008 4:08 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Kaleb: She Lives in Oklahoma and Iam in North East texas almost 300 miles from me she is


i mean, it's just about the costs and not dating rules...that's how i see it!wave
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May 28, 2008 4:09 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: i meant the me paying 15 euros for the trip.


I know. doh

And..... i meant, what if your date was a bus driver, and you didn't have to spend the 15euros?
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May 28, 2008 4:10 PM CST Your Views on How Long One Should Wait before the first meeting????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: I know.

And..... i meant, what if your date was a bus driver, and you didn't have to spend the 15euros?


Even better sis! duhtongue
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