I have been talking to someone of late from CS ........No see doesnt come to the forums......We have exchanged emails alot..............and I have called her several Times. If left up to her we would meet today But is this too Quick??? Your views would be appreciated and Thank You
I think it depends. If you're close enough, then why not make it soon. IF the chemistry isn't there, you haven't put months of time and effort into it.
Kaleb: I have been talking to someone of late from CS ........No see doesnt come to the forums......We have exchanged emails alot..............and I have called her several Times. If left up to her we would meet today But is this too Quick??? Your views would be appreciated and Thank You
Grrrrrrr at my spelling : She doesnt come to the forums
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
dcj22: I think it depends. If you're close enough, then why not make it soon. IF the chemistry isn't there, you haven't put months of time and effort into it.
Kaleb: I have been talking to someone of late from CS ........No see doesnt come to the forums......We have exchanged emails alot..............and I have called her several Times. If left up to her we would meet today But is this too Quick??? Your views would be appreciated and Thank You
If you met her on the bus or at the supermarket, instead of CS, how long would you wait?
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
dcj22: I think it depends. If you're close enough, then why not make it soon. IF the chemistry isn't there, you haven't put months of time and effort into it.
That's a fair point.... and one worth bearing in mind.
Kaleb: Your right..........But i have only been talking to this lady a week or so.........And i have been burned before in the past.
If you met at the supermarket, you'd still talk and email for a bit before going out, yes?
Wait until you would normally ask her on a date, or simply when YOU are comfortable with it too, Kaleb. If you do it too soon, it's less likely to work out.
dcj22: If you met at the supermarket, you'd still talk and email for a bit before going out, yes?
Wait until you would normally ask her on a date, or simply when YOU are comfortable with it too, Kaleb. If you do it too soon, it's less likely to work out.
My point to Dana I agree..........She seems to want it to happen over night.........Maybe Iam just more cautious then she is I know she is very loney and understand that also............for I too am lonely.
I wish you the best!It never hurts to ask.I have great luck on e-mails but sometimes they freak if you try to soon.They some freak if you dont.What is a man to do.
Looking4Love2008: I wish you the best!It never hurts to ask.I have great luck on e-mails but sometimes they freak if you try to soon.They some freak if you dont.What is a man to do.
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