How do you " this is the one " (67)
prncss4someone: By now, I need one that says : PICK ME PICK ME
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD AND ALL HE CREATED PICK ME....
that's the sign I'm looking for.....
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD AND ALL HE CREATED PICK ME....
that's the sign I'm looking for.....
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moonfoxinthesnow: I'm thinking finding a happily married forum might be the better place to ask this question.
How true!
All those "heart aches when he's not around", "can't live without him" etc for some reason don't necessarily mean he's the One.....
I think for us ladies the signs would be that the man really takes care of us, helps us fulfill our dreams, takes an interest in our interests, thus making us feel happy, confident, calm and secure, and generally treats us nicely (not just when he wants something)? That's what it's basically about, isn't it?
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didn't know todays women were looking for men "to take care of us"
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shipoker55: didn't know todays women were looking for men "to take care of us"
Would you believe????
and I'd definitely take a mental note of that if I was to call myself a man.... 
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shipoker55: didn't know todays women were looking for men "to take care of us"
Not so much financially, but emotionally, in my case anyway. Take care of, as in care about, care for. Give a d@mn for chrissake, is that so much to ask for?
Sorry, feeling a little pissy tonight.
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AudrysSis: Would you believe???? and I'd definitely take a mental note of that if I was to call myself a man....
So what do you call yourself??
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I will know "this is the one" when he keeps doing all the little things he started doing, the things he knows I love, long after the initial 
infatuation is over.
infatuation is over.------ This thread is Archived ------
alabamabebe: I will know "this is the one" when he keeps doing all the little things he started doing, the things he knows I love, long after the initial infatuation is over.
I read this alot from women, so I have to ask, (well, I don't have to...but will, anyway). I hope thatwomen understand, they need to continue the same way. doing the little things they did when it was infatuation. Don't you agree??------ This thread is Archived ------
shipoker55: I read this alot from women, so I have to ask, (well, I don't have to...but will, anyway). I hope thatwomen understand, they need to continue the same way. doing the little things they did when it was infatuation. Don't you agree??
Helloo .... a lot of things work both ways i guess. Expecting to much of either and in the same way is not very realistic i would think.
Personally , Looking form the women perspective , I wouldnt want a guy who thinks she will take care of me , my home, my laundry , my pets , my children and be this wonderful forgiving , loving , sacrificing angel whom i can take for granted.
Not that i am saying " I wont or cant be that " .. NO thats not the message. Its just that attitude which is annoying. Its more pleasant to see someone who wants a partner to share his life and his happiness and everything that is a part of his life (( and vice versa )).
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shipoker55: I read this alot from women, so I have to ask, (well, I don't have to...but will, anyway). I hope thatwomen understand, they need to continue the same way. doing the little things they did when it was infatuation. Don't you agree??
Uhh, yeah. ------ This thread is Archived ------
riyablossom: Helloo .... a lot of things work both ways i guess. Expecting to much of either and in the same way is not very realistic i would think.
Personally , Looking form the women perspective , I wouldnt want a guy who thinks she will take care of me , my home, my laundry , my pets , my children and be this wonderful forgiving , loving , sacrificing angel whom i can take for granted.
Not that i am saying " I wont or cant be that " .. NO thats not the message. Its just that attitude which is annoying. Its more pleasant to see someone who wants a partner to share his life and his happiness and everything that is a part of his life (( and vice versa )).
Personally , Looking form the women perspective , I wouldnt want a guy who thinks she will take care of me , my home, my laundry , my pets , my children and be this wonderful forgiving , loving , sacrificing angel whom i can take for granted.
Not that i am saying " I wont or cant be that " .. NO thats not the message. Its just that attitude which is annoying. Its more pleasant to see someone who wants a partner to share his life and his happiness and everything that is a part of his life (( and vice versa )).
I think that is a lot of what I stated in my profile. If I remember correctly!!
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alabamabebe: Not so much financially, but emotionally, in my case anyway. Take care of, as in care about, care for.
Give a d@mn for chrissake, is that so much to ask for?
Give a d@mn for chrissake, is that so much to ask for?
For some men, it is. And then there are those who want us to change their diapers and all that stuff.... That's when this same notion has really gone into extremes, I think....
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shipoker55: I think that is a lot of what I stated in my profile. If I remember correctly!!
Its the what i want and can get that annoys me so much in people's list of criteria cos i think its more of what i am and whats best for me or rather for both of us than what all i could possibly get or find.
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riyablossom: Its more pleasant to see someone who wants a partner to share his life and his happiness and everything that is a part of his life (( and vice versa )).
"And vice versa" being the operative word. I don't ask for anything I'm not willing to give in return. But I'll be d@mned if I'll keep giving and not getting anything back, never again.------ This thread is Archived ------
alabamabebe: "And vice versa " being the operative word. I don't ask for anything I'm not willing to give in return. But I'll be d@mned if I'll keep giving and not getting anything back, never again.
True. Slowly the frustration begins.
hmm .. i was just thinking ... when people know that person is the one and they decide to take it one step further ... why is it that slowly things start diluting and people (( usually )) no longer keep up the same way as they used to initially.
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AudrysSis: Would you believe???? and I'd definitely take a mental note of that if I was to call myself a man....
hi .. nice to see u
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alabamabebe: I'll be d@mned if I'll keep giving and not getting anything back, never again.
You know, I almost think that the main thing (not the only, but the main thing) we can "give" a man is our true appreciation of what they do for us and how they make us feel....
riyablossom: hmm .. i was just thinking ... when people know that person is the one and they decide to take it one step further ... why is it that slowly things start diluting and people (( usually )) no longer keep up the same way as they used to initially.
Aahhhh, you're opening one can of worms after another, shri Riya.....
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shipoker55: didn't know todays women were looking for men "to take care of us"
all women need care and protection...we are very fragile, though don't use to show it! If only men knew....
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Emanuellla: all women need care and protection...we are very fragile, though don't use to show it! If only men knew....
We know honey we know.
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