How do you " this is the one " (67)
AudrysSis: How true!
All those "heart aches when he's not around", "can't live without him" etc for some reason don't necessarily mean he's the One.....
I think for us ladies the signs would be that the man really takes care of us, helps us fulfill our dreams, takes an interest in our interests, thus making us feel happy, confident, calm and secure, and generally treats us nicely (not just when he wants something)? That's what it's basically about, isn't it?
All those "heart aches when he's not around", "can't live without him" etc for some reason don't necessarily mean he's the One.....
I think for us ladies the signs would be that the man really takes care of us, helps us fulfill our dreams, takes an interest in our interests, thus making us feel happy, confident, calm and secure, and generally treats us nicely (not just when he wants something)? That's what it's basically about, isn't it?
... and the other way around too of course 
.... if both people are giving with the other in mind then both are receiving what they need..
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Aries01: I think you know you have found the one.. where it just feels right, comfortable and you can be TOTALLY yourself.... I remember a quote in a movie once referring to it as feeling like you have come home... so its kinda like arriving at the place (or with the person) that you know you are meant to be... haven't found it yet sadly ... but I haven't lost hope...
This is exactly how I feel. I totally agree! Great post.
It's like I am on that same frequency with that particular person. Kinda like coming back home. My long lost home that I have been trying to get back to. Timing is everything of course. I have met women that I have felt at home with, but.....oh...lets just say things were complicated. Love is not always on time.
It's like one of many soulmates that slipped away. The thing that is driving me crazy, is the notion of that "one soulmate" that is meant for us this lifetime. On the other hand, is it that "one soulmate" that is meant for us at that very precise moment in time....
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Aries01: I think you know you have found the one.. where it just feels right, comfortable and you can be TOTALLY yourself.... I remember a quote in a movie once referring to it as feeling like you have come home... so its kinda like arriving at the place (or with the person) that you know you are meant to be... haven't found it yet sadly ... but I haven't lost hope...
I agree with you too Aries. Very nicely put. I would also add makes me feel a better person.
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AudrysSis: How true!
All those "heart aches when he's not around", "can't live without him" etc for some reason don't necessarily mean he's the One.....
I think for us ladies the signs would be that the man really takes care of us, helps us fulfill our dreams, takes an interest in our interests, thus making us feel happy, confident, calm and secure, and generally treats us nicely (not just when he wants something)? That's what it's basically about, isn't it?
All those "heart aches when he's not around", "can't live without him" etc for some reason don't necessarily mean he's the One.....
I think for us ladies the signs would be that the man really takes care of us, helps us fulfill our dreams, takes an interest in our interests, thus making us feel happy, confident, calm and secure, and generally treats us nicely (not just when he wants something)? That's what it's basically about, isn't it?
AMEN
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StressFree: This is exactly how I feel. I totally agree! Great post.
It's like I am on that same frequency with that particular person. Kinda like coming back home. My long lost home that I have been trying to get back to. Timing is everything of course. I have met women that I have felt at home with, but.....oh...lets just say things were complicated. Love is not always on time.
It's like one of many soulmates that slipped away. The thing that is driving me crazy, is the notion of that "one soulmate" that is meant for us this lifetime. On the other hand, is it that "one soulmate" that is meant for us at that very precise moment in time....
It's like I am on that same frequency with that particular person. Kinda like coming back home. My long lost home that I have been trying to get back to. Timing is everything of course. I have met women that I have felt at home with, but.....oh...lets just say things were complicated. Love is not always on time.
It's like one of many soulmates that slipped away. The thing that is driving me crazy, is the notion of that "one soulmate" that is meant for us this lifetime. On the other hand, is it that "one soulmate" that is meant for us at that very precise moment in time....
not Mr.Ms Right, but Mr/ Ms 'Right now!'
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hmmm ... mysterious connection while chatting
::: taking notes :::
Ha ha.... with the time I spend on here... I sometimes wonder