lindileOPpinetown, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2 posts
i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again
WOW...I am sorry...You will in time learn to Trust...Wasnt there any red flags to show you that something was up??? Like home number...only calling you a certain time of the day or night???There are great guys out there that wouldnt do you like that...
I have met one on CS..and met a few times....It took me long to trust again..but glad i let my quard down....
It willt ake some time..but dont let this one incident ruin ur life!!!!
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again
why are u beating yourself up,.,., its was him in the wrong... not you... maybe there were signs but u didnt see ..maybe not .. only you know that but the most important thing is to stop beating yourself up... there are a lot of liars and cheats out there ( i think i have the phone numbers of most of them lol) but not all guys are like that.. ........ be kind to yourself..........we all make mistakes...
Its a risk you have to take when meeting people from dating sites...apparently there are a fairly high percentage of men on these sites that are married....and probably married women too Im sure.....
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again
he is not worth it. look at the bright side you are the lucky one. His wife is the unlucky one.
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again
You just do, because if you make the next guy pay for this moron's untrustworhty behavior you lose. So ask questions, find out where they live, due dilligence and all that but don't carry the moron's baggage into future relationships..
kissmedeeply: WOW...I am sorry...You will in time learn to Trust...Wasnt there any red flags to show you that something was up??? Like home number...only calling you a certain time of the day or night???There are great guys out there that wouldnt do you like that...
I have met one on CS..and met a few times....It took me long to trust again..but glad i let my quard down....
It willt ake some time..but dont let this one incident ruin ur life!!!!
All the best
yes go forward hon it took me 30 years to find the same thing did, after being lone i m back with positive thinking. just dont dont give up,and think positive always !!!!
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again
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