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Jun 3, 2008 8:37 AM CST what im i supposed to do
lindile
lindilelindilepinetown, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa1 Threads 2 Posts
i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust againcrying confused frustrated
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Jun 3, 2008 8:38 AM CST what im i supposed to do
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
be like me....trust no one!!
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Jun 3, 2008 8:39 AM CST what im i supposed to do
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again
WOW...I am sorry...You will in time learn to Trust...Wasnt there any red flags to show you that something was up??? Like home number...only calling you a certain time of the day or night???There are great guys out there that wouldnt do you like that...

I have met one on CS..and met a few times....It took me long to trust again..but glad i let my quard down....

It willt ake some time..but dont let this one incident ruin ur life!!!!

All the besthug
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Jun 3, 2008 8:40 AM CST what im i supposed to do
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
It is hard now you will probably be more aware of the warning signs to look for. hug
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Jun 3, 2008 8:41 AM CST what im i supposed to do
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
Strange profileconfused
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Jun 3, 2008 8:45 AM CST what im i supposed to do
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again


why are u beating yourself up,.,., its was him in the wrong... not you... maybe there were signs but u didnt see ..maybe not ..
only you know that but the most important thing is to stop beating yourself up... there are a lot of liars and cheats out there ( i think i have the phone numbers of most of them lol) but not all guys are like that.. ........ be kind to yourself..........we all make mistakes... teddybear
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Jun 3, 2008 8:45 AM CST what im i supposed to do
Crystal29
Crystal29Crystal29Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK35 Threads 8,448 Posts
Its a risk you have to take when meeting people from dating sites...apparently there are a fairly high percentage of men on these sites that are married....and probably married women too Im sure.....



sad flower
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Jun 3, 2008 8:48 AM CST what im i supposed to do
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
martyg: Strange profile
Marty mine is not that Strange at allgrin
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Jun 3, 2008 8:50 AM CST what im i supposed to do
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
kissmedeeply: Marty mine is not that Strange at all




wave Joanneapplause yay applause hug

Not yours my sweet little angelangel wink
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Jun 3, 2008 8:52 AM CST what im i supposed to do
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
U learn....

u shake off the dust.....

and u keep on moving.....

wine
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Jun 3, 2008 8:55 AM CST what im i supposed to do
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
martyg: Joanne

Not yours my sweet little angel
I like it when you talk to me dirty...More Plsdevil
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Jun 3, 2008 8:56 AM CST what im i supposed to do
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again


detective

he is not worth it.
look at the bright side you are the lucky one.
His wife is the unlucky one.
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Jun 3, 2008 8:57 AM CST what im i supposed to do
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
kissmedeeply: I like it when you talk to me dirty...More Pls



That's the clean stuff babylaugh

Keeping the real dirty talk for the appropriate moment..banana wink
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Jun 3, 2008 8:58 AM CST what im i supposed to do
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
martyg: That's the clean stuff baby

Keeping the real dirty talk for the appropriate moment..
Whens that Moment Martyroll eyes Is it coming like reallll soondevil
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Jun 3, 2008 9:01 AM CST what im i supposed to do
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
kissmedeeply: Whens that Moment Marty Is it coming like reallll soon



It comes on a regular basis baby..

Its like the train, You just have to be there at the right time and simply jump onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnngrin daydream
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Jun 3, 2008 9:07 AM CST what im i supposed to do
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
martyg: It comes on a regular basis baby..

Its like the train, You just have to be there at the right time and simply jump onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
laugh Oh i think the time is about right...I hear the train coming right about Nowwwwwwwwwwwinnocent
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Jun 3, 2008 9:16 AM CST what im i supposed to do
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
kissmedeeply: Oh i think the time is about right...I hear the train coming right about Nowwwwwwwwwww



HURRY!!! Get your ticket..

I will be waitingwink
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Jun 3, 2008 9:17 AM CST what im i supposed to do
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again


You just do, because if you make the next guy pay for this moron's untrustworhty behavior you lose. So ask questions, find out where they live, due dilligence and all that but don't carry the moron's baggage into future relationships.. peace
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Jun 3, 2008 9:23 AM CST what im i supposed to do
chevy95
chevy95chevy95pollard, Arkansas USA4 Threads 135 Posts
kissmedeeply: WOW...I am sorry...You will in time learn to Trust...Wasnt there any red flags to show you that something was up??? Like home number...only calling you a certain time of the day or night???There are great guys out there that wouldnt do you like that...

I have met one on CS..and met a few times....It took me long to trust again..but glad i let my quard down....

It willt ake some time..but dont let this one incident ruin ur life!!!!

All the best
yes go forward hon it took me 30 years to find the same thing did, after being lone i m back with positive thinking. just dont dont give up,and think positive always !!!!crying
hug
cheers
yay
doh
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Jun 3, 2008 9:27 AM CST what im i supposed to do
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
lindile: i met this guy on the other side and after 2 yrs i discovered that he was married for 16 yrs and he didnt tell me, after what happende how do i learn to trust again


when lust and hormones rule those things happen
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