moonfoxinthesnowALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA347 posts
I myself am oldest of 4.... there are 10 years between me and the next one and 20 years between me and the youngest... supposedly if there is a difference of 10 or more years... its more like being an only child.. I have found this to be true for me.
alabamabebe: Most of the oldest child fits my older sister, she was definitely the boss of us. But the youngest doesn't even come close to my little sister. She has this sour bitter attitude most of the time, you'd think looking at her that she's older than any of us.
Thats strange Bev becasue I would say my older brother is the bitter and total opposite of my sister and myself.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Portiea: I am only two years younger...Why it is upsetting is that you go through your whole life with people trying to put labels on you as to who and what you are....I think these types of studies are harmful...not just to me..They are not well thought out...they are not scientific, and they are limiting.....
Like I said, there are any number of reasons, that one for instance was just what I remembered cause it pertained to me. Nobody's saying you have to be the cheerful, fun-loving, optimistic, playful and adventurous younger child if you don't want to be.
alabamabebe: Like I said, there are any number of reasons, that one for instance was just what I remembered cause it pertained to me. Nobody's saying you have to be the cheerful, fun-loving, optimistic, playful and adventurous younger child if you don't want to be.
this is an attempt to be mean because i expressed an opinion....if you read my posts here, you would know that i am playful...and fun loving..what I don't think is fun is trying to hurt and insult people...as far as adventurous...i live a life that is nothing but adventure living around the world....but the point is that i don't think it is right to limit people in any way based on criteria that is no more logical or scientific than astrology...why on earth do people want to persecute someone for expressing an opinion???
Portiea: this is an attempt to be mean because i expressed an opinion....if you read my posts here, you would know that i am playful...and fun loving..what I don't think is fun is trying to hurt and insult people...as far as adventurous...i live a life that is nothing but adventure living around the world....but the point is that i don't think it is right to limit people in any way based on criteria that is no more logical or scientific than astrology...why on earth do people want to persecute someone for expressing an opinion???
I personally think you need to take a bit of time out and read back throught the thread Portiea. It seems to me like you are looking to be argumentative for no apparent reason other than to be. It's really not fair on people that would like to express their opinion with a sense of humour about it.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Portiea: the point is that i don't think it is right to limit people in any way based on criteria that is no more logical or scientific than astrology
Who is trying to limit anyone? I don't believe in astology either, but it's kinda fun sometimes to look at. Nobody says I have to act like a pisces all the time. Though I do love the water.
moonfoxinthesnowALBUQUERQUE, New Mexico USA347 posts
Portiea: this is an attempt to be mean because i expressed an opinion....if you read my posts here, you would know that i am playful...and fun loving..what I don't think is fun is trying to hurt and insult people...as far as adventurous...i live a life that is nothing but adventure living around the world....but the point is that i don't think it is right to limit people in any way based on criteria that is no more logical or scientific than astrology...why on earth do people want to persecute someone for expressing an opinion???
it goes back to the whole profile arguments we were having on the forums a few weeks back. some were saying its being judgmental. I say its profiling... the police do it to help them find criminals.... yes there is some give and take to it.. but it IS more accurate than astrology and I CAN say that learning HOW to profile people at an early age has saved my life on more than a few occasions! do the profiles always fit? NO. but its a place to start. and I do agree... your being a tad bit touchy tonight.... so I am asking you.... PLEASE take a time out... go outside get some fresh air....
Scottishlass: Here are characteristics of people of various birth orders. Check them out and see which ones apply to you. Remember, your birth order doesn’t define you, but the following characteristics may offer insight to why you act the way you do.
Which are you? Oldest and only children can be Perfectionists Worriers Leaders Competent Good students Hard workers, conscientious And they may Have trouble accepting others’ mistakes Put pressure on themselves Overcommit Middle children can be Intensely loyal Competitive Friendly Well-liked, popular Able to deal with all kinds of people Patient and tolerant And they may Try to live in harmony with the world Youngest children can be Easy-going Willing to see another point of view Spontaneous Risk takers Cheerful, fun-loving, optimistic, playful and adventurous Good team players And they may Sometimes resent authority
I have one younger brother (by 2 & 1/2 yrs) & these descriptions are fairly close for each of us.
I am the youngest of fourteen, but I would say that I have strong parts of the others as well.
I'm the youngest of eight. However I don't resent authority as it states below.
Youngest children can be Easy-going Willing to see another point of view Spontaneous Risk takers Cheerful, fun-loving, optimistic, playful and adventurous Good team players And they may Sometimes resent authority
Middle children can be Intensely loyal Competitive Friendly Well-liked, popular Able to deal with all kinds of people Patient and tolerant And they may Try to live in harmony with the world
Hit me right on the nose, must be an accurate chhart.
Youngest children can be Easy-going Willing to see another point of view Spontaneous Risk takers Cheerful, fun-loving, optimistic, playful and adventurous Good team players And they may Sometimes resent authority
Yep, that's me, but like Portia said I'm also the strongest and most independent.
(Comes from spending the first six years of my life as a scientific experiment...two older brothers)
I have just one question! My mother was married had to boys, then she married my father and had me that made me an only child but yet the baby, My father remarried and had my younger brother and sister and ihn that family I was the oldest. I am the only one by my mother and father, the youngest of my mother and the oldest of my father. So where do I fit?
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