I've only pushed some one who was yelling at me and got in my face. My reaction was to push him away from. Thank goodness he did not respond back since he was so angry to begin with.
well I took it to heart the beatings i got and did something about it.I took self defense classes,i learned to shoot a gun.Picking my weapon of choice was easy ,my 357 always with me legally.When the judge seen what i had been thru he gladly signed my permit to carry on my person.And in sensing im still in danger got lifetime restraining order,but this particular psycho wont be thwarted by the law.Not worried about them then or now.I almost killed him in self defense the last go around,iIhate to think what the next one will lead to.But one thing i do know is now i have made it safe for me.I can protect ,save myself.Dont make the mistake i fdid for the longest and count on others to save you,save yourself.
well not sence i was young,but he hit frist,and i cleaned he clock lol he didnt pick on me any more...i think if i guy hits you he has to sleep sooner or later....
Yes, I have hit a guy. Once in self-defense as a teen with a over zealous guy. I hate liars and cheater so once on a date, the guy had lied to me about not being married when he was, a swift between his legs and I told to bring that home to his wife and explain it. He must have like the pain, because he called me up again wanting to get together for a drink. Once to protect myself in performance of my job.
Now do you want to know how many times I have blocked a hit? Twice from different guys. All it takes is you even think of hitting me I am out of there. I was not raised to be someone's punching bag, but was raise to defend myself if necessary.
My two boy's father had come home drunk. He started slapping me, it went outside. Somehow I landed on the ground with him kicking at my mouth and stomach with cowboy boots. Loosened a few of my teeth. The kicking in my stomach ticked me off so bad I got up and went into the house to get away from him. He came in and started to grab a knife out of the sink. I took a frying pan to his face and head. He was covered in blood when the police came. He went to jail. I didn't. Self defense. He had 18 stitches in his head and 10 in his cheek.
With his white tee shirt full of blood, the officer asked me if I did that to him. Of course I said yes. He just shook his head and said "well, I guess the SOB will think twice about hitting you again", and they took him to the hospital.
I was 8 weeks pregnant and didn't know it at the time. I just felt it. Lioness instincts kicked in.
I believe if you are a woman and a man is abusive, and you are as well...get the hell out. It took me 20 years to do it. It will never happen again.
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