So...anyone ever date an amputee? ( Archived) (42)

Jul 4, 2008 3:49 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA4 Threads 694 Posts
Just wondering because I am new here and last time I dated, I had 2 legs! Just wondering what you ladies might think about that? Does it really matter to you? Turn you off? My ex couldn't handle it: found some biped on another dating site and took off with him. Or maybe used it as an excuse? Hard to day what's in anothers heart but....anyhow...what are your views on it?
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Jul 4, 2008 3:52 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
wel, there are some good women on here that once they got to know ya im sure it wouldn't bother them bro, heck if a woman that i was interested in was an amputee it wouldn't bother me if she was what i wanted ya know...
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Jul 4, 2008 3:54 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
Dont_Look_Now
Dont_Look_NowDont_Look_NowHuntsville, Alabama USA5 Threads 1,855 Posts
HondoLaneNJ: Just wondering because I am new here and last time I dated, I had 2 legs! Just wondering what you ladies might think about that? Does it really matter to you? Turn you off? My ex couldn't handle it: found some biped on another dating site and took off with him. Or maybe used it as an excuse? Hard to day what's in anothers heart but....anyhow...what are your views on it?
Never have but I would not let something like that stop me from dating someone conversing

BTW, welcome to the forums! wave
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Jul 4, 2008 3:56 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
gtbulldog2
gtbulldog2gtbulldog2Towson, Maryland USA10 Threads 2,828 Posts
Dont_Look_Now: Never have but I would not let something like that stop me from dating someone

BTW, welcome to the forums!
thumbs up
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Jul 4, 2008 3:58 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
Queserasera
QueseraseraQueseraseraCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK18 Threads 382 Posts
HondoLaneNJ: Just wondering because I am new here and last time I dated, I had 2 legs! Just wondering what you ladies might think about that? Does it really matter to you? Turn you off? My ex couldn't handle it: found some biped on another dating site and took off with him. Or maybe used it as an excuse? Hard to day what's in anothers heart but....anyhow...what are your views on it?



hi wave

don't see how it would make any differance its the person that counts flirty blushing
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Jul 4, 2008 4:06 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
I'd going skinny dipping with you and sneak into a movie wink
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Jul 4, 2008 4:08 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
sxc666: I'd going skinny dipping with you and sneak into a movie
holy smokes!banana
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Jul 4, 2008 4:11 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA4 Threads 694 Posts
sxc666: I'd going skinny dipping with you and sneak into a movie


Haha...Australia? That's a hell of a swim! Is the water warm?
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Jul 4, 2008 4:12 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA4 Threads 694 Posts
And thanks for the kind words everyone: It's been a hard road and every little bit helps....wine
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Jul 4, 2008 4:15 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
HondoLaneNJ: Haha...Australia? That's a hell of a swim! Is the water warm?
Im a fast swimmer. But the water is freezing at the moment.cold
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Jul 4, 2008 4:15 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
Emanuellla
EmanuelllaEmanuelllaeastern europe, Moldova23 Threads 1,505 Posts
Dont_Look_Now: Never have but I would not let something like that stop me from dating someone

BTW, welcome to the forums!


very good saidthumbs up thumbs up
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Jul 4, 2008 4:15 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
HondoLaneNJ: And thanks for the kind words everyone: It's been a hard road and every little bit helps....
wine hug
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Jul 4, 2008 4:16 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
Cary0608
Cary0608Cary0608Mandaluyong City, Metro Manila Philippines3 Threads 340 Posts
this would be my first...so what time are u picking me up?

laugh
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Jul 4, 2008 4:19 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Never have but yeah I would given the opportunity. Your ex was a shallow wuss, pardon my french. Sounds like you're lucky she took off.

Welcome again, and thanks for your service. We real women appreciate it. thumbs up kiss
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Jul 4, 2008 4:24 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
gtbulldog2
gtbulldog2gtbulldog2Towson, Maryland USA10 Threads 2,828 Posts
HondoLaneNJ: And thanks for the kind words everyone: It's been a hard road and every little bit helps....
Your Welcomewave
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Jul 4, 2008 4:25 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
Cary0608
Cary0608Cary0608Mandaluyong City, Metro Manila Philippines3 Threads 340 Posts
alabamabebe: Never have but yeah I would given the opportunity. Your ex was a shallow wuss, pardon my french. Sounds like you're lucky she took off.

Welcome again, and thanks for your service. We real women appreciate it.


hello there!
rolling on the floor laughing harsh.
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Jul 4, 2008 4:28 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Cary0608: hello there!
harsh.
Not as harsh as I was thinking, I was being nice! grin

Seriously, don't know the other side of the story, but if that was the reason, she sux.

dunno My opinion only.
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Jul 4, 2008 4:38 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
gtbulldog2
gtbulldog2gtbulldog2Towson, Maryland USA10 Threads 2,828 Posts
alabamabebe: Not as harsh as I was thinking, I was being nice!

Seriously, don't know the other side of the story, but if that was the reason, she sux.

My opinion only.
I agree....
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Jul 4, 2008 4:38 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA4 Threads 694 Posts
alabamabebe: Not as harsh as I was thinking, I was being nice!

Seriously, don't know the other side of the story, but if that was the reason, she sux.

My opinion only.


Haha...you said nothing I didn't think, or that my sister's didn't shout at her in person lol. My ex got hers, that day.

But in the end: I don't blame her...I couldn't stand to look at me either, for a while. Went I went overseas, I was 6ft, 230lbs, pretty good shape...all the training and all...

After the attack, I went from 230 down to 151lbs in 2 weeks. Well...about 30lbs of that was leg I guess...lol. My pelvis was crushed as well, it folded like a book when the vehicle flipped (wear your seatbelts folks!) and the doc's said I couldn't have kids anymore...so she used that too...Although my sister says she believes she was seeing this guy while I was gone...in the end: it doesn't matter because here I am. It's sad more then anything. I remember, we would maybe be in the mall or wherever, and I would see a real old couple walking or hobbling along, and point them out...I would smile and say "Look honey: that'll be us in 50 yrs!!" ....I honestly believed it...oh well...God made other plans for me I guess.....

Again: thanks for all the nice words everyone! wave
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Jul 4, 2008 4:43 AM CST So...anyone ever date an amputee?
Cary0608
Cary0608Cary0608Mandaluyong City, Metro Manila Philippines3 Threads 340 Posts
HondoLaneNJ: Haha...you said nothing I didn't think, or that my sister's didn't shout at her in person lol. My ex got hers, that day.

But in the end: I don't blame her...I couldn't stand to look at me either, for a while. Went I went overseas, I was 6ft, 230lbs, pretty good shape...all the training and all...

After the attack, I went from 230 down to 151lbs in 2 weeks. Well...about 30lbs of that was leg I guess...lol. My pelvis was crushed as well, it folded like a book when the vehicle flipped (wear your seatbelts folks!) and the doc's said I couldn't have kids anymore...so she used that too...Although my sister says she believes she was seeing this guy while I was gone...in the end: it doesn't matter because here I am. It's sad more then anything. I remember, we would maybe be in the mall or wherever, and I would see a real old couple walking or hobbling along, and point them out...I would smile and say "Look honey: that'll be us in 50 yrs!!" ....I honestly believed it...oh well...God made other plans for me I guess.....

Again: thanks for all the nice words everyone!


hang in there! it's actually pretty admirable to see you taking a shot trying to feel better by posting this thread.
you'll be ok.hug
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