Just wondering because I am new here and last time I dated, I had 2 legs! Just wondering what you ladies might think about that? Does it really matter to you? Turn you off? My ex couldn't handle it: found some biped on another dating site and took off with him. Or maybe used it as an excuse? Hard to day what's in anothers heart but....anyhow...what are your views on it?
wel, there are some good women on here that once they got to know ya im sure it wouldn't bother them bro, heck if a woman that i was interested in was an amputee it wouldn't bother me if she was what i wanted ya know...
HondoLaneNJ: Just wondering because I am new here and last time I dated, I had 2 legs! Just wondering what you ladies might think about that? Does it really matter to you? Turn you off? My ex couldn't handle it: found some biped on another dating site and took off with him. Or maybe used it as an excuse? Hard to day what's in anothers heart but....anyhow...what are your views on it?
Never have but I would not let something like that stop me from dating someone
QueseraseraCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK382 posts
HondoLaneNJ: Just wondering because I am new here and last time I dated, I had 2 legs! Just wondering what you ladies might think about that? Does it really matter to you? Turn you off? My ex couldn't handle it: found some biped on another dating site and took off with him. Or maybe used it as an excuse? Hard to day what's in anothers heart but....anyhow...what are your views on it?
hi
don't see how it would make any differance its the person that counts
alabamabebe: Not as harsh as I was thinking, I was being nice!
Seriously, don't know the other side of the story, but if that was the reason, she sux.
My opinion only.
Haha...you said nothing I didn't think, or that my sister's didn't shout at her in person lol. My ex got hers, that day.
But in the end: I don't blame her...I couldn't stand to look at me either, for a while. Went I went overseas, I was 6ft, 230lbs, pretty good shape...all the training and all...
After the attack, I went from 230 down to 151lbs in 2 weeks. Well...about 30lbs of that was leg I guess...lol. My pelvis was crushed as well, it folded like a book when the vehicle flipped (wear your seatbelts folks!) and the doc's said I couldn't have kids anymore...so she used that too...Although my sister says she believes she was seeing this guy while I was gone...in the end: it doesn't matter because here I am. It's sad more then anything. I remember, we would maybe be in the mall or wherever, and I would see a real old couple walking or hobbling along, and point them out...I would smile and say "Look honey: that'll be us in 50 yrs!!" ....I honestly believed it...oh well...God made other plans for me I guess.....
Cary0608Mandaluyong City, Metro Manila Philippines340 posts
HondoLaneNJ: Haha...you said nothing I didn't think, or that my sister's didn't shout at her in person lol. My ex got hers, that day.
But in the end: I don't blame her...I couldn't stand to look at me either, for a while. Went I went overseas, I was 6ft, 230lbs, pretty good shape...all the training and all...
After the attack, I went from 230 down to 151lbs in 2 weeks. Well...about 30lbs of that was leg I guess...lol. My pelvis was crushed as well, it folded like a book when the vehicle flipped (wear your seatbelts folks!) and the doc's said I couldn't have kids anymore...so she used that too...Although my sister says she believes she was seeing this guy while I was gone...in the end: it doesn't matter because here I am. It's sad more then anything. I remember, we would maybe be in the mall or wherever, and I would see a real old couple walking or hobbling along, and point them out...I would smile and say "Look honey: that'll be us in 50 yrs!!" ....I honestly believed it...oh well...God made other plans for me I guess.....
Again: thanks for all the nice words everyone!
hang in there! it's actually pretty admirable to see you taking a shot trying to feel better by posting this thread. you'll be ok.
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