Ladies,Why is it? (38)
Taterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 PostsLadies, Why is it when men show no signs of interests in you, you tend to try twice as hard to get us to like you, then if or when we start to show interest back, your automatically not interested anymore... Alot of times you do this even when you have no interest in the man to begin with? Is it just the ego trip or game that you enjoy, of knowing "I could have him if I want him" you even do these competitions against your girlfriends at bars/clubs and stuff "see if you can get a certain guy to like you more than your friends" People say men have higher ego's than women, I'm not so sure.........What do you say?
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I did that back in college.
Went to bars, partied, flirted with guys and felt great doing it.
Then, the next morning, when I had sobered up....one of them was usually waiting outside my dorm.
And I'd realize that they were just not my TYPE
I learned real quick to be careful what I asked for because I might just get it
Went to bars, partied, flirted with guys and felt great doing it.
Then, the next morning, when I had sobered up....one of them was usually waiting outside my dorm.
And I'd realize that they were just not my TYPE
I learned real quick to be careful what I asked for because I might just get it
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Tater: Ladies, Why is it when men show no signs of interests in you, you tend to try twice as hard to get us to like you, then if or when we start to show interest back, your automatically not interested anymore... Alot of times you do this even when you have no interest in the man to begin with? Is it just the ego trip or game that you enjoy, of knowing "I could have him if I want him" you even do these competitions against your girlfriends at bars/clubs and stuff "see if you can get a certain guy to like you more than your friends" People say men have higher ego's than women, I'm not so sure.........What do you say?
instinct like a cat we like to hunt and when it just lays there we get bored
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Tater: Ladies, Why is it when men show no signs of interests in you, you tend to try twice as hard to get us to like you, then if or when we start to show interest back, your automatically not interested anymore... Alot of times you do this even when you have no interest in the man to begin with? Is it just the ego trip or game that you enjoy, of knowing "I could have him if I want him" you even do these competitions against your girlfriends at bars/clubs and stuff "see if you can get a certain guy to like you more than your friends" People say men have higher ego's than women, I'm not so sure.........What do you say?
Ohhh noooo..!!!
I DON't chase men... its that simple!! And I don't pander to egos... not my raison d'etre, I'm afraid.If he's not interested I can't do much about that. If he is but can't be arsed making an effort......
Ciao!!
Its seems increasingly evident that "making a bit of an effort" is translated by many men as "too much like hard work"!! Very sad and not terribly flattering....
But, no, I won't pretend I fancy someone if I don't, that's misleading and not very fair, eh?!!
Good thread, my friend!!
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Tater: Ladies, Why is it when men show no signs of interests in you, you tend to try twice as hard to get us to like you, then if or when we start to show interest back, your automatically not interested anymore... Alot of times you do this even when you have no interest in the man to begin with? Is it just the ego trip or game that you enjoy, of knowing "I could have him if I want him" you even do these competitions against your girlfriends at bars/clubs and stuff "see if you can get a certain guy to like you more than your friends" People say men have higher ego's than women, I'm not so sure.........What do you say?
it is one of the games females enjoy
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Not this female.
alex_192: it is one of the games females enjoy
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alex_192: it is one of the games females enjoy
Do you have a macro key for that comment??
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Tater: Ladies, Why is it when men show no signs of interests in you, you tend to try twice as hard to get us to like you, then if or when we start to show interest back, your automatically not interested anymore... Alot of times you do this even when you have no interest in the man to begin with? Is it just the ego trip or game that you enjoy, of knowing "I could have him if I want him" you even do these competitions against your girlfriends at bars/clubs and stuff "see if you can get a certain guy to like you more than your friends" People say men have higher ego's than women, I'm not so sure.........What do you say?
Females that play those kinds of games are not ladies and not very mature. jmo------ This thread is Archived ------
horselady5: Not this female.
do you mean you play it but you dont enjoy it?
teasing you
i could not avoid posting it
you are one of the few that can be called lady here
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arabella: Do you have a macro key for that comment??
thank you fr the great idea
i will set up one
you are right, females play so many games it wil be better to have a macro key
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Awwwww Thank You Alex.
You get a flower for that.
You get a flower for that.
alex_192: do you mean you play it but you dont enjoy it?
teasing you
i could not avoid posting it
you are one of the few that can be called lady here
teasing you
i could not avoid posting it
you are one of the few that can be called lady here
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well thanks for the comments ya'll, and yes some men do the same thing. and horselady5 i'm sure you are not one of them I have read some of your comments before , and you seem to be a very geniune LADY....
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Wish I had concrete answers for you... it happens the other way 'round too. Most of the time it's just: the thrill of the chase, ego-trip based agenda! Also some people don't really know what they want...so they just play around messing with people's minds and hearts..... 
On the other hand, realistically, it can also be that a person might discover something in the other that they dislike, or has put them off. Initial attraction might be only that: and getting to really know someone might send that attraction to the dogs! Chemistry is not only about physical attraction.....
On the other hand, realistically, it can also be that a person might discover something in the other that they dislike, or has put them off. Initial attraction might be only that: and getting to really know someone might send that attraction to the dogs! Chemistry is not only about physical attraction.....
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alex_192: it is one of the games females enjoy
I beg your pardon??!!!
Shame on you, Alex... you should know better, my friend!!
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Thank you TATER that's twice today I've been called a lady.
What you read in most of my comments here comes from my heart.
I always figure it's better to be my REAL self then to be a carbon copy of someone else.
What you read in most of my comments here comes from my heart.
I always figure it's better to be my REAL self then to be a carbon copy of someone else.
Tater: well thanks for the comments ya'll, and yes some men do the same thing. and horselady5 i'm sure you are not one of them I have read some of your comments before , and you seem to be a very geniune LADY....
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twinself: Wish I had concrete answers for you... it happens the other way 'round too. Most of the time it's just: the thrill of the chase, ego-trip based agenda! Also some people don't really know what they want...so they just play around messing with people's minds and hearts.....
On the other hand, realistically, it can also be that a person might discover something in the other that they dislike, or has put them off. Initial attraction might be only that: and getting to really know someone might send that attraction to the dogs! Chemistry is not only about physical attraction.....
On the other hand, realistically, it can also be that a person might discover something in the other that they dislike, or has put them off. Initial attraction might be only that: and getting to really know someone might send that attraction to the dogs! Chemistry is not only about physical attraction.....
agreed.
;-}
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roseofsharon: I beg your pardon??!!! Shame on you, Alex... you should know better, my friend!!
<---- disappointed!!
<---- disappointed!!
my dear roseofsharon i have not said all women
some women play those games, and some males play them too
dont be ofended, please
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Its what people do sad but true. Yea we log in flirt with each other. But if i thought some one seriously thought i fancied them and this was not the case i would put them straight. I would not waste their time
I hate it when out, and a guy offers to buy a woman a drink, and she takes it knowing full well she not interested in him, that's plain wrong.
I always make it clear if approached that i'm if not interested and you can do this with out being rude.
I hate it when out, and a guy offers to buy a woman a drink, and she takes it knowing full well she not interested in him, that's plain wrong.
I always make it clear if approached that i'm if not interested and you can do this with out being rude.
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Whoa--the games people play now.
Every night and every day now.
Never meanin' what they say now.
Never sayin' what they mean.
While they while away the hours
in their ivory towers,
'till they're covered-up with flowers
in the back of a black limousine.
Whoa we make one another cry,
break a heart then we say goodbye;
cross our hearts and we hope to die
that the other was to blame.
But neither one will ever give-in,
so we gaze at an eight-by-ten
thinkin' 'bout the things that might have been
and it's a dirty rotten shame.
Games People Play....Joe South
Every night and every day now.
Never meanin' what they say now.
Never sayin' what they mean.
While they while away the hours
in their ivory towers,
'till they're covered-up with flowers
in the back of a black limousine.
Whoa we make one another cry,
break a heart then we say goodbye;
cross our hearts and we hope to die
that the other was to blame.
But neither one will ever give-in,
so we gaze at an eight-by-ten
thinkin' 'bout the things that might have been
and it's a dirty rotten shame.
Games People Play....Joe South
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I love the Brits colorful language!! Really I do!!
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